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garyFLR -> RE: What do the Guys want in a Mistress/Domme? (7/4/2013 5:55:50 AM)


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ORIGINAL: Rawni


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ORIGINAL: Darkersided

I dont find sub men attractive in the least.They are there to work thats all.Be of use.But if hes playing at being sub he wont see me for dust.I dont take on anyone that fails.


Why do you keep posting your negativity on a thread that is being used for submissive men to have a voice, that we domina's can or want to hear? We all have the bad experiences if you can call them that... they aren't positive and a lot of it is a bit of a pain, but do you need to disrupt so badly because you have experienced it? Why not start your own thread if you just came to bash submissive men? Coming into a peaceful thread with your submissive/male bashing is rather sad and speaks volumes.

I assure you that I'm not 'playing at being sub', but as I am in England, it is difficult to meet people here.
However, I do appreciate the lovely 'online' friends I've made here, & the support & good wishes I have received. If I come across sometimes as being not the 'sub' some people expect, What are people expecting?, perhaps some of my postings are maybe a bit humorous, perhaps less than reverential, I like to think I have a multi faceted personality, if some Ladies don't like that, they are not obliged to interact with me. May they go in peace & find what they're looking for.

Best wishes, Gary.

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masmiss -> RE: What do the Guys want in a Mistress/Domme? (7/4/2013 6:05:33 AM)


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ORIGINAL: garyFLR


quote:

ORIGINAL: Rawni


quote:

ORIGINAL: Darkersided

I dont find sub men attractive in the least.They are there to work thats all.Be of use.But if hes playing at being sub he wont see me for dust.I dont take on anyone that fails.


Why do you keep posting your negativity on a thread that is being used for submissive men to have a voice, that we domina's can or want to hear? We all have the bad experiences if you can call them that... they aren't positive and a lot of it is a bit of a pain, but do you need to disrupt so badly because you have experienced it? Why not start your own thread if you just came to bash submissive men? Coming into a peaceful thread with your submissive/male bashing is rather sad and speaks volumes.

I assure you that I'm not 'playing at being sub', but as I am in England, it is difficult to meet people here.
However, I do appreciate the lovely 'online' friends I've made here, & the support & good wishes I have received. If I come across sometimes as being not the 'sub' some people expect, What are people expecting?, perhaps some of my postings are maybe a bit humorous, perhaps less than reverential, I like to think I have a multi faceted personality, if some Ladies don't like that, they are not obliged to interact with me. May they go in peace & find what they're looking for.

Best wishes, Gary.

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No need to even dignify Darkersided's negativity with a response, Gary.




PeonForHer -> RE: What do the Guys want in a Mistress/Domme? (7/4/2013 6:18:27 AM)


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ORIGINAL: Darkersided

I dont find sub men attractive in the least.They are there to work thats all.Be of use.But if hes playing at being sub he wont see me for dust.I dont take on anyone that fails.


I see from your profile that you're local to me, DS. There's something of a BDSM scene here so I think with luck and hard work you may eventually find a lasting submale partner.




garyFLR -> RE: What do the Guys want in a Mistress/Domme? (7/4/2013 6:23:00 AM)

Thanks masmiss [:)]!




lobster123 -> RE: What do the Guys want in a Mistress/Domme? (7/16/2013 11:31:41 PM)


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ORIGINAL: NiceButMeanGirl

There is another thread in Ask a Mistress right now called What Skills? about what the Dommes would like in a sub, so I want to ask, if the subs here could say "The Mistress/Domme I want should be.....(fill in the blank)," what all would you put in that blank?? Lets here it guys. [:)]

NBMG


May I ask If your paid or non paid mistress




splatterpunk -> RE: What do the Guys want in a Mistress/Domme? (7/16/2013 11:32:57 PM)

a sick sense of humor. even sicker than god's.




garyFLR -> RE: What do the Guys want in a Mistress/Domme? (7/17/2013 4:41:24 AM)

What do I want in a Mistress/ Domme?

Breakfast in bed with the Daily Telegraph, carefully ironed so there are no creases in it. A smile & a cuddle.

What are my chances [:D]?




MsSylverdawn -> RE: What do the Guys want in a Mistress/Domme? (7/17/2013 6:39:56 AM)

A snowball's




garyFLR -> RE: What do the Guys want in a Mistress/Domme? (7/17/2013 7:06:31 AM)


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ORIGINAL: MsSylverdawn

A snowball's

Thankyou for your input, ma'am [:D].




Rawni -> RE: What do the Guys want in a Mistress/Domme? (7/17/2013 9:12:05 AM)

Oh I don't know... I think I could manage that Gary. However, that would only be the start to your morning. [;)] I do like a little mind bender once in a while, keeps a guy on his toes.

Actually, my guys do get some pampering sometimes, everyone needs that. Ironing the paper... oh hell no... but pampering yes.




garyFLR -> RE: What do the Guys want in a Mistress/Domme? (7/17/2013 9:50:38 AM)

Oh Rawni, why do you not live in England :-D x.




submgreenbay -> RE: What do the Guys want in a Mistress/Domme? (7/17/2013 10:51:17 AM)

Well I too feel "either they're compatible or they aren't."

I am a bit sick of folks that don't come off as human. Where they share nothing about themselves outside of the lifestyle, I see a dead end or scam.. so thank you, I move along to someone a bit more in touch with reality.

</rant>




WebWanderer -> RE: What do the Guys want in a Mistress/Domme? (7/17/2013 8:32:08 PM)

First and foremost, I want a Domme to whom I could genuinely submit, i.e. somebody superior to me: intelligent, fit, witty. Not a fuck buddy or a playmate or a weekend warrior or daddy's spoiled little princess, but a superior. Since I tend to rank higher than average in most indicators, finding somebody like that is a bit of a challenge, but I believe it will be worth it in the end.




cloudboy -> RE: What do the Guys want in a Mistress/Domme? (7/17/2013 9:51:13 PM)


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ORIGINAL: WebWanderer

First and foremost, I want a Domme to whom I could genuinely submit, i.e. somebody superior to me: intelligent, fit, witty. Not a fuck buddy or a playmate or a weekend warrior or daddy's spoiled little princess, but a superior. Since I tend to rank higher than average in most indicators, finding somebody like that is a bit of a challenge, but I believe it will be worth it in the end.


Given this goal, you've chosen a wise screen name.




NiceButMeanGirl -> RE: What do the Guys want in a Mistress/Domme? (7/17/2013 10:28:37 PM)


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ORIGINAL: lobster123


quote:

ORIGINAL: NiceButMeanGirl

There is another thread in Ask a Mistress right now called What Skills? about what the Dommes would like in a sub, so I want to ask, if the subs here could say "The Mistress/Domme I want should be.....(fill in the blank)," what all would you put in that blank?? Lets here it guys. [:)]

NBMG


May I ask If your paid or non paid mistress


Moi?? Unpaid. I've never even considered asking for money, either as a Pro or as a tribute Domme. A little background: I started out as a sub in 2008, then switched for most of 2011 and, in late 2011/early 2012, I became a Domme.

NBMG




garyFLR -> RE: What do the Guys want in a Mistress/Domme? (7/18/2013 12:23:11 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: NiceButMeanGirl


quote:

ORIGINAL: lobster123


quote:

ORIGINAL: NiceButMeanGirl

There is another thread in Ask a Mistress right now called What Skills? about what the Dommes would like in a sub, so I want to ask, if the subs here could say "The Mistress/Domme I want should be.....(fill in the blank)," what all would you put in that blank?? Lets here it guys. [:)]

NBMG


May I ask If your paid or non paid mistress


Moi?? Unpaid. I've never even considered asking for money, either as a Pro or as a tribute Domme. A little background: I started out as a sub in 2008, then switched for most of 2011 and, in late 2011/early 2012, I became a Domme.

NBMG

Hi NBMG!

So that's a no to bringing me breakfast in bed then [:D]!




NiceButMeanGirl -> RE: What do the Guys want in a Mistress/Domme? (7/18/2013 8:41:03 PM)

lol




garyFLR -> RE: What do the Guys want in a Mistress/Domme? (7/19/2013 12:08:28 AM)


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ORIGINAL: NiceButMeanGirl

lol


Well may you madam [:D]!




FortWayneSub -> RE: What do the Guys want in a Mistress/Domme? (6/8/2014 4:11:38 PM)

What do i look for in a Domme. Honesty and a sense of reality. The ability to share with her with out being judged for my feelings. This is especially true post play my mind can go all over the place and i need to be and feel safe and loved.




LookieNoNookie -> RE: What do the Guys want in a Mistress/Domme? (6/8/2014 6:38:26 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: NiceButMeanGirl

There is another thread in Ask a Mistress right now called What Skills? about what the Dommes would like in a sub, so I want to ask, if the subs here could say "The Mistress/Domme I want should be.....(fill in the blank)," what all would you put in that blank?? Lets here it guys. [:)]

NBMG


"Hear".

Tits.

Wonderful, fluffy titties.

More titties.

The more tits the better.

Tits and more tits.

If there was ever a time when the government (might say) "That's ENOUGH tits for you!!!!", I'd say....."more titties....damn the govt.....more titties ahead".

There is enough strife in this world that stress is an obvious killer.

I say "more titties".....more titties is the solution.

I'm not at all sure what the question is but...."more titties" IS the answer!




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