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Male Domination v/s Female Domination - 4/8/2013 10:58:33 AM

subbiedude

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Ok first of all i want to make it clear that i have asked this Question in Ask Mistress Section, but i would also like to hear the perspectives of Masters.

In society male domination appears to be having more acceptance on broad basis not just on BDSM or Kink, History has proven that & also current events around world substantiates that when women are treated as second class citizens in some countries.

My Questions is not just restricted to BDSM world or Kink but on a broad basis

Why Male Domination appears to be having more of acceptance compared to Female Domination in society?,

Is it because The image of Male by nature is more Physically strong, who act like a guardian or protector of women, who are weak in terms of physical strength or is there any other valid reason or have i got it wrong?.

In simple terms, Female Submitting to a man may be viewed as a natural phenomena, while a Man submitting to a Women is viewed as taboo or contrary to nature. Unfortunately I think Religion has also played its part in this, What do you people think?

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RE: Male Domination v/s Female Domination - 4/8/2013 11:04:14 AM

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i have had female mistress since 13,tried odd master,i hated them,mistress seems to know more how to handle a slut/slave,masters seem to think only of themselves and not about me,yes i know thats how it should be,but i want to feel im loved as well,only get that from mistress

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RE: Male Domination v/s Female Domination - 4/8/2013 11:11:12 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: subbiedude
What do you people think?

Mostly what I think is that these things are not "accepted" because kinky people don't want them to be accepted. You can't be accepted and "alternate" at the same time. Just the other day I had an interesting discussion with a totally vanilla 90-something woman about male domination. I used the words "dominant" and "submissive" to describe Carol and I. I admit, however, I was also able to reach for phrases like "traditional marriage" although I'm not sure that was a positive reference in her mind.

The thing is the exact same thing would have happened if we had been female dominant. I would have simply said things like, "Carol is more dynamic than I am... more inclined to form an opinion quickly and want to make something happen. I tend to be more laid back. So in our marriage she tends to be the one making the call more often than me."

In other words, I don't seem to have a hard time talking bout something as sterile as a "decision making process"

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RE: Male Domination v/s Female Domination - 4/8/2013 11:13:48 AM

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I don't think it has more acceptance at all. Whenever you see kink portrayed in pop-culture, on programs like CSI and so on, it's nearly always Fem Domme/male sub. Most always when you see male sadists portrayed in the media, they're a serial killer/serial rapists/kidnapper who takes young innocent girls to keep them captive in some secret underground dungeon and turn them into sex slaves.

Positive portrayals of Male Dom/fem sub is next to non-existening, while positive portrayals of Fem Domme/male sub isn't all the rare at all.

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RE: Male Domination v/s Female Domination - 4/8/2013 11:17:48 AM

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ORIGINAL: UllrsIshtar
Cross posting isn't allowed on Collarchat, please pic a forum for your topic and stick with it.

I didn't know that, Would keep it in mind next time i post. Thank you.

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RE: Male Domination v/s Female Domination - 4/8/2013 11:43:28 AM

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ORIGINAL: subbiedude

Is it because The image of Male by nature is more Physically strong, who act like a guardian or protector of women, who are weak in terms of physical strength or is there any other valid reason or have i got it wrong?.

Historically, the world has always been a patriarchal society. Hell, for a while the Catholic Church believed that women either had no souls or had a diminished soul that allowed astray more easily.

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RE: Male Domination v/s Female Domination - 4/8/2013 1:12:40 PM

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FR,

This thread is a cross-post and has been locked. Please continue the conversation in the other thread: http://www.collarchat.com/m_4420625/mpage_1/key_/tm.htm#

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