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RE: would you allow a disabled person to serve you? - 4/26/2013 8:58:21 PM

ChatteParfaitt

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I never said it was the same. I said 'it's like asking' in other words, highly prejudicial. Sure, there's bias against the disabled, just like there is bias against many groups of people. Thinking being disabled makes you less worthy or less capable is part of the disability.

I worked with disabled students many years ago while going to school. They are like everybody else, some make the best of their options, others don't.

And let's please not forget that there are many different ways to serve.

Having said all that, will being disabled make it harder to find a fetish delivery system? I suspect so.

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RE: would you allow a disabled person to serve you? - 4/26/2013 11:48:45 PM

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CP, I don't mean any offense, but I saw this question differently. Primarily, I saw it from the practical aspect.

I've got stairs.

Stairs don't prevent a lot of different folks from coming into My home, but they do pose a problem for a guy in a wheelchair.

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RE: would you allow a disabled person to serve you? - 4/27/2013 1:36:02 AM

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact
CP, I don't mean any offense, but I saw this question differently. Primarily, I saw it from the practical aspect.

I've got stairs.

Stairs don't prevent a lot of different folks from coming into My home, but they do pose a problem for a guy in a wheelchair.

Exactly! I didn't get a feeling that the OP was asking about his worth as a human being, in which case he is as worthy as anyone.
Different women have different needs from a submissive/slave. Mine would entail a bit of physical labor, climbing stairs, running around doing errands, and that would be potentially be problematic for one in a wheelchair.

As a human being, if I simply needed a sweet companion on 1 floor, it would work, but at this point, that isn't where I am. M

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RE: would you allow a disabled person to serve you? - 4/27/2013 3:48:15 AM

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He put the issue of his worth out there by 1) not telling us the extent of his disability and 2) attempting to curry pity. There are many disabled people, and they are disabled in many different ways. I've personally worked with blind, deaf and those in a wheelchair. There is a huge difference between a para and a quad, for example.

His profile states he's 5'2" and 72 pounds, I'm guessing he's a quad. Not too many people are interested in that, and those who are I'd be afraid of. Which is why I suggested he stop relating to others as a disability and try relating to them as a person.

That's very difficult to do in some situations, and going up stairs is the least of it. But you know, we are *ALL* disabled in some way. All of us. It's what you do with what you got that counts, and that works for everyone, no matter who you are.

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