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RE: Younger slaves & older Masters - 4/26/2013 7:53:59 PM

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I don't think it should be females only, but whatever.

I prefer an older man to be my daddy/dom/master. They are more experienced generally, they have toys to play with, they are turned on by the age difference and for me pleasuring them feels more deserved because they have worked hard to make something of themselves and be independent.
That is not counting the enjoyment of how older men look. As a very young girl, an older man is attractive because of how much larger they are then me and the roughness of their hands and cheeks. Older men are unaccustomed to girls as young as me, being barely legal, so the age difference is erotic. I like knowing my lover was 20 when I was born. It turns me on. He was having sex while I was still in diapers. That means he has much more to teach me than someone who is the same age as me, no matter how much sex each man has had. The older man will have a more sophisticated and practical experience. Feeling weak in the arms of a strong older man, shivering after he's made love to you is the best feeling in the world. You can feel protected and vulnerable and conquered all at once.

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RE: Younger slaves & older Masters - 4/26/2013 9:21:59 PM

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Growing up the older men treated the younger women as if they were cute little things that should be enjoyed but not taken seriously.

When I was younger I sucked at making good choices about the people I was involved with. I constantly surrounded myself with people that used me a didn't take me seriously. Age had nothing to do with it.
When I finally matured I noticed the older men still treated me as if they didn't take me seriously. The men my age didn't make me feel that way.

I stick to men my age because of my preference for someone who will live 40+ years with me (hopefully), someone who's incredibly sexually attractive and has the ability to have sex without medication (tried dating an older man who had ED and that was a mood killer for me even though he was okay with it), and someone who hasn't dealt with aging issues that we'll all have to deal with sooner or later. I prefer to experience these changes as they come, not while I'm in my 30s and getting a front row seat of what I've got to look forward to.

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RE: Younger slaves & older Masters - 4/27/2013 12:01:04 PM

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The older man will have a more sophisticated and practical experience.

Absolutely not true. Sophistication is not based on age and experience does not automatically equal knowledge. Age does not indicate maturity. You've made a wide sweeping statement that is inaccurate.

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RE: Younger slaves & older Masters - 4/27/2013 12:58:52 PM

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quote:

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ORIGINAL: beaubarbare
The older man will have a more sophisticated and practical experience.

Absolutely not true. Sophistication is not based on age and experience does not automatically equal knowledge. Age does not indicate maturity. You've made a wide sweeping statement that is inaccurate.

Gotta agree with Oside here. Just look at some of the posters on this thread and you should see that age does not necessarily = sophistication and experience. Just pointing it out so that you can hopefully develop some other radar or pointers, rather than looking at age, to help you find the maturity that you seek beaubarbare.

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RE: Younger slaves & older Masters - 4/29/2013 3:01:46 PM

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This is a little like the "do you like dick pics?" discussion. Its endless and pointless. What I mean by that is that some are not into older/younger and some are. Some are only interested in a few years difference and some get turned on by big differences. There is no ANSWER to this question - there's only personal preference.

I'm happiest when someone puts in their profile for all to see what their age limits are so that everyone can understand what that person wants.

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RE: Younger slaves & older Masters - 4/29/2013 3:33:39 PM

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This is a little like the "do you like dick pics?" discussion. Its endless and pointless.

In this case it's not because your avatar and primary photo violate the TOS of this site. So, I would suggest you change it before one of the admins removes it for you.

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RE: Younger slaves & older Masters - 4/29/2013 4:48:53 PM

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This is a little like the "do you like dick pics?" discussion. Its endless and pointless. What I mean by that is that some are not into older/younger and some are. Some are only interested in a few years difference and some get turned on by big differences. There is no ANSWER to this question - there's only personal preference.

I'm happiest when someone puts in their profile for all to see what their age limits are so that everyone can understand what that person wants.

Did you read this thread and the responses on it? Many people are saying it's a personal preference, and some are arguing that...the group that is arguing are mainly the old guys. It's not as endless and pointless as you think, since there are some on this thread who are saying that people shouldn't have a preference on this subject. At least not where it doesn't favor them

So yeah, it should be a given that age of a partner is something each person gets to decide for themselves and obviously it's not.

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RE: Younger slaves & older Masters - 4/30/2013 12:30:12 PM

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hey guys. Bounty is back,I love younger women.If I wake up with a women over 30,I have had a bad night....sexy smiles.lol..BH

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RE: Younger slaves & older Masters - 4/30/2013 9:35:30 PM

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My experience is with an older sub, which makes for an interesting dynamic. On one hand it's quite challenging, but on the other the fact that it further violates norms and expectations makes it that much better. I think partners need to be within ten years of each other for something truly long term to work. Otherwise just about anything can go.

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RE: Younger slaves & older Masters - 5/1/2013 4:11:50 PM

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I think this is a matter of personal preference, although I do sometimes feel that a certain percentage of really young women (18-25) who seek out men significantly older than they are are seeking such relationships for some reasons that are not entirely healthy. What percentage? I don't know. But I think it is understandable that most people would generally seek partners within 10 years of their own age (regardless of gender, and regardless of who is older and who is younger). There is never going to be a huge percentage of 20 year old women who want to date 60 year old men. Reality, my friend.

As for my personal preferences, I have no interest in ending up like Catherine Zeta Jones and being a glorified nurse to a dying old man. I'm happy to play that role for someone closer to my own age - but no interest in taking prime years of my life to play that role. No wonder she has a drug problem (that they politely term bipolar). Dealing with my own aging parents is more than enough, thank you very much. But to deal with an aging spouse, too. Yikes!!!!!

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RE: Younger slaves & older Masters - 5/5/2013 1:34:37 AM

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For a long time I dated guys 10 years or so older than me, not because I was into older guys but I moved out and way paying my own bills by 17 and boys my age were well, useless wankers with no concept of reality. Most of my friends were older and I found myself attracted to older more mature fellows. I'm at an age now where boys my age are more "together" and less likely to steal my DVDs or cancel on our plans to play video games.

I don't really find men physically attractive though, I just like eloquent gentlemen, regardless of their age.

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