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RE: To Munch or not to Munch? - 5/25/2013 7:01:30 AM

kalikshama

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Nothing wrong with meeting people the normal way. However, when you meet people the normal way at a vanilla location (e.g. the library, grocery store, or even a night club) there is a high probability that they're going to be freaked out when you tell them that you prefer to...

Agreed, since my husband and I separated in 2001, everyone I met the normal way either wasn't kinky enough in bed or interested in a relationship.

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RE: To Munch or not to Munch? - 5/25/2013 7:09:12 AM

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But I also don't need the bdsm play to be happy in a relationship. I can take it or leave it as long as he's an old fashioned dominant personality man.

So I think that leaves one question; How important is bdsm play for you?

It's critical. Vanilla sex does not make me wet. YAWN.

I've been in situations where the relationship was there but not the sex, or the sex there but not the relationship, and neither works for me long term.

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