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RE: What behaviour do you find offensive in public? - 7/14/2006 9:43:44 PM

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12 year old "thugs"

Children screeching on airplanes. UGH.

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RE: What behaviour do you find offensive in public? - 7/14/2006 9:49:33 PM

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Cheapskate parents who bring screaming babies to movie theaters.

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RE: What behaviour do you find offensive in public? - 7/14/2006 10:07:12 PM

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customers that are just rude ...

and don't understand that a waitress ..

you berate only makes ..

$2.13 an hour ...

so you don't have to treat her like doormate

she knows that already .. uncle sam tells her ever paycheck ...

if she is lucky to get one ... all she gets is .............

what you are kind enough to leave

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RE: What behaviour do you find offensive in public? - 7/18/2006 3:49:45 AM

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Can I hear a 20 percent minimum tip? Rudeness is my pet peeve.....

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RE: What behaviour do you find offensive in public? - 7/18/2006 4:16:25 AM

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It was mentions that get of their rump and work for if they could do this they must be able to hold down a steady job, this atitude is the atidute that at time make my life hell. i have Aspergers syndrome, on the surface i might be a bit of an oddball, but i seam rather normal, i am big, strong and inteligent and i have had the get of your rump and work atitude trown towards me many times, well i can not, the pepole that have seen me and made such coments have never seen me on a bad day, they dont know that behind me, guiding me and making sure i can appear so normal stand my fiance and my mother, they dont know that every bloody time i talk whit somone i dont know wery well i act, i supress the urges to say exactly what is in my head and like an acrtress i try to build up this persona of a normal person and still keep what is me, and i have wored hard, so hard for what i have, i was 16 ears old before i deared to leve my mothers or grandparenths home and go farther than 20 minutes away, to day i take the train for 5 houers on my own, i shop, i make frinds, but everytime i do fail i get the just get a grip tratment, and every so often i get the get of your rump and work coments and it make me so sad, and coments like that just make me want to cry.

While there surly is pepole that misuse disability pensions, there are many pepole whit disabilities, even physical ones that can take a beating at a BDSM cub one day and another day be bed ridden whit their illness, and it is hard to find a job tat will acept, well yes i may be able to come in 100 days a year, but i have no idea when those days will be, and then the only one who will acept you are happy happy factories where you are set to work whit stupid kids that dont even try and the wery mentaly retarded, and belive me you can talk of humiliation all you want, but there is few things more humliating than being forced, as an inteligent woman to learn how to turn on and of a light switch becouse everyone must be trated the same here and then have to sit down and sing stupid children songs whit pepole that are six years old in the head, i have nothing against the mentaly retarded, i just dont want to be treated as one.

No belive me, it is not just wheelchair users that need a disability pension, often there are things wrong it is not easy to spot, and we would all live so mutch better if we did not have to have the get of your rump and wor coments trown at us, many of us work hard to be as funcional as we are, others have ilnesses that come and go, so dont judge before you know, not judge that becouse person A can do this they are capable of working and dont ell us to get of our asses and work, becouse many times such a coments leves tears in its wake from pepole that truly wish they were able, but just ismply is not able to take a normal job.

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RE: What behaviour do you find offensive in public? - 7/18/2006 5:50:30 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: IronBear

The following quote was lifted from the "private vs. public" thread in this forum. I believe that it is worthy of a seperate discussion with a wider base..

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ORIGINAL: marieToo

General reply:

There are just certain displays/behaviors that are not acceptable/tactful in public society-- vanilla, bdsm or anything else in between.

OK so now you all can really let fly and rant about what displays of behaviour you personally find offensive in public. This includes BDSM, Vanilla and anything in between....

I think the behavior that kills me more than anything else is a general lack of consideration for others. This applies to so many different situations:

The driver weaving in and out of traffic at high rates of speed because obviously their time is far more important than your safety.

The group of people sitting two tables down from you and your unmentionables speaking very loudly about who they fucked and how they did it in explicit detail.

The people that voted for Dub-yah (Sorry...I couldn't resist)

Parents bringing their babies to see horror movies... (I expect to hear a baby cry from time to time at a Disney flick...but not at House of 1,000 Corpses)

Anyway...I think you get the idea...

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RE: What behaviour do you find offensive in public? - 7/18/2006 6:28:43 AM

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I'm an adult and I have ADHD, I've had it since I was a child. My Mother has it and so I'm convinced its a genetically passed down chemical imbalance in the brain. I take medication and go to therapy for it and I have to say its made a tremendous improvement in my ability to stay focused on one thing. ADHD isn't what most people think it is, that we can't focus. Our problem is we focus on too many things at one time. Our brains are wired to multitask all the time which means somewhere things are going to go askew.

However, as a child I never ran round like crazy, or gave my teachers a hard time. I wasn't so much hyper, but I used to day dream alot and sometimes got mediocre grades. But there were other kids in my class who didn't have ADHD who simply ran amuck and the best reason I can come up with is lack of parenting and discipline in the home. Teachers aren't supposed to raise their students, thats Mom and Dad's job.

My parents were old school with the discipline and if I got out of line, which was rare, I got my ass tore up by my Dad with a belt, or Mom would just slap me in the face and knock me into a wall. I have to thank Dad he at least gave a warning, Mom didn't have the patience for any warnings.

I agree that too many bad behaviors are blamed on ADHD, too much medication is handed out like candy instead of identifying the real problem. But ADHD is a very REAL disorder and nothing to be laughed at or ridiculed. It doesn't go away with a backhand nor sitting in timeout. It has to be treated with therapy and sometimes medication. The hard part is finding a good Therapist to treat the disease.

Have a good day,

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RE: What behaviour do you find offensive in public? - 7/18/2006 3:48:50 PM

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i always had an understanding mother but yes, things like Aspergers and ADHD is often misunderstood like bad behavior and being spoiled, and tat is sad, and such atitude to it do so mutch damage.

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RE: What behaviour do you find offensive in public? - 7/19/2006 2:40:00 PM

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it is not so much that they were talking about getting drunk, i was more worry about the role modle they were sittting for their children, have we become so lax in our attude toward what we see concering a small child, who mind, and soul is being form
take care and be safe
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RE: What behaviour do you find offensive in public? - 7/19/2006 2:44:13 PM

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for me it is not low pants it is males of spiecs wearing they pants below their waist line i dont need to see a guys underwear, or other

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