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RE: Dom is different - 6/19/2013 8:35:36 PM

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To me, if you cant tell your partner what you are doing, you already know they wont be happy.

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RE: Dom is different - 6/19/2013 8:44:46 PM

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Exactly.

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RE: Dom is different - 6/23/2013 12:38:52 PM

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ORIGINAL: LafayetteLady

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ORIGINAL: tammystarm

Totally unrealistic considering we are on a site for kinks. Maybe if we were on a religious site, then I'd understand.

So my vegan friends would disown me for eating chicken, my friends who don't believe we should be populating the earth any more than it already is who banish me for being a mommy, my Catholic friends would pray for my eternal soul while banning from their sight for being a different religion... Blaah blaah

Again she didn't ask anyone's view of the morality of her soul......

And once again the idiotic claim that because it is a kink site, everyone should be ok with people cheating on their spouses. Ashley Madison is happy to tell you it is ok to cheat on your spouse, most of us here have a bit more integrity than that. Then again, most of us here aren't also blabbing our problems over the internet to a bunch of strangers figuring they will offer some comfort and hot cocoa either.

Not so. Nobody claims you should be 'OK" with it on a kink or a vanilla site. We claim that we don't care if you are Ok with it or not and while it's ok for you to make a personal judgment on her morals it's not appropriate to voice them here since most of the time you voice them you were not asked.

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RE: Dom is different - 6/23/2013 12:48:33 PM

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ORIGINAL: Arturas

Not so. Nobody claims you should be 'OK" with it on a kink or a vanilla site. We claim that we don't care if you are Ok with it or not and while it's ok for you to make a personal judgment on her morals it's not appropriate to voice them here since most of the time you voice them you were not asked.

It's a discussion board, the premise of it is to voice opinions. No one has to be 'asked'. People respond with whatever they think is an appropriate response within the site guidelines. Anyone can disagree, such as yourself, but everyone is still able to do as they like within the guidelines.

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RE: Dom is different - 6/23/2013 12:53:44 PM

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ORIGINAL: Rasciallymisty

Your profile is part of who you are....if you wish no one to comment on it then hide it. You came to the boards and as you have been told ANYONE can post on anything anyone writes....its in the TOS. Maybe take some time and read them.

As far as your post goes...it looks like you are both getting what you are seeking, so not so sure what the problem is....well unless both of your spouses find out and then the innocent children will also be invovled. Its my sincere hopes that you both get what is you are seeking and then some....and that was said with a and not being nasty at all.

misty

This is nonsense. She has the right to target her posting and the right to take the advice of only those she targeted and nobody cares what you think about that or her profile since she did not ask your opinion on her profile then why do you think you should post about her profile? What is it with the permanent fixtures and their hangers on about critiquing profiles?

Hey, what about mine, is it "part of me" and what exactly does that mean, does it mean you must have it to be yourself or is it simply what you make it and you make it for yourself as it pleases you and nobody on this kink site has the right or the ability to critique it if not asked. Oh yes. Take that as your safe word for the day, ladies and gents.

I see star has been here. Now there is an alpha submissive and you newbies should follow her examples as well as other successful submissives in the off forum world.

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RE: Dom is different - 6/23/2013 12:55:51 PM

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ORIGINAL: lizi

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ORIGINAL: Arturas

Not so. Nobody claims you should be 'OK" with it on a kink or a vanilla site. We claim that we don't care if you are Ok with it or not and while it's ok for you to make a personal judgment on her morals it's not appropriate to voice them here since most of the time you voice them you were not asked.

It's a discussion board, the premise of it is to voice opinions. No one has to be 'asked'. People respond with whatever they think is an appropriate response within the site guidelines. Anyone can disagree, such as yourself, but everyone is still able to do as they like within the guidelines.

Yeah, I don't think so. What you are talking about is voicing opinions that are clearly off topic and critical of the OP and do nothing to foster discussions on the topic. Nice try.

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RE: Dom is different - 6/23/2013 12:58:58 PM

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I see star has been here. Now there is an alpha submissive and you newbies should follow her examples as well as other successful submissives in the off forum world.

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If you want it sugar coated, dont ask me what i think! It would violate TOS.

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RE: Dom is different - 6/23/2013 1:01:25 PM

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Yeah, I don't think so. What you are talking about is voicing opinions that are clearly off topic and critical of the OP and do nothing to foster discussions on the topic. Nice try.

The OP asked why his attention had wandered. she was told... "could be because he is married".. as she brought up herself.

That people have very strong feelings about cheating and lying within the lifestyle, I expect them to hold those same feelings outside of the lifestyle dynamic.

Or are you saying you are perfectly ok with "star" cheating and lying to you?

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Telling me to take Midol wont help your butthurt.
RIP, my demon-child 5-16-11
Duchess of Dissent 1
Dont judge me because I sin differently than you.
If you want it sugar coated, dont ask me what i think! It would violate TOS.

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RE: Dom is different - 6/23/2013 1:13:25 PM

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ORIGINAL: Arturas

Yeah, I don't think so. What you are talking about is voicing opinions that are clearly off topic and critical of the OP and do nothing to foster discussions on the topic. Nice try.

"Yeah, I don't think so" and "nice try"? I responded politely and objectively to your statement, I would have thought you'd have done the same. Ok then, thanks for showing me how you'd prefer to be treated.

The poster in question was responding with relevant material concerning the marital status of the poster and her lover. His and her marital status was directly related to her question, I'm sure you can't have missed the 14 pages now of how that's been established. If the post you are referring to was negative in response to the OP, oh well....that's not a valid reason to not post it, especially since it's directly related to the question the OP asked.

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RE: Dom is different - 6/23/2013 1:29:33 PM

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lizi.. now now... you know we are no where near the caliber of slave as "star" (thank god), and we should look to her for direction (in a pig's eye) and mimic her actions on these boards as a way to model our own submission (lets not forget how she whined and cried about the abuse and neglect someone heaped upon her poor form). Apparently that is how a "real and twue alpha slave" handles herself.. and I am in awe! Awe I tell ya! If I had done the same, I would have been beaten black and blue, and rightfully so! apparently I am not in the position as star is to dominate the man I live with....

I am simply awed by that girl!

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Dont judge me because I sin differently than you.
If you want it sugar coated, dont ask me what i think! It would violate TOS.

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RE: Dom is different - 6/23/2013 1:46:03 PM

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ORIGINAL: tazzygirl

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Honesty is not always the best policy.

For whom?

For the cheater, obviously.

Clever girl that she usually is, you'd think she'd have seen that one coming....

Focus.

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RE: Dom is different - 6/23/2013 1:59:09 PM

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ORIGINAL: Focus50

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ORIGINAL: stef

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ORIGINAL: tazzygirl

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Honesty is not always the best policy.

For whom?

For the cheater, obviously.

Clever girl that she usually is, you'd think she'd have seen that one coming....

Focus.

I am quite clever.

I also didnt expect cloudboy to answer.

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Dont judge me because I sin differently than you.
If you want it sugar coated, dont ask me what i think! It would violate TOS.

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RE: Dom is different - 6/23/2013 2:08:00 PM

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ORIGINAL:

, and rightfully so! apparently I am not in the position as star is to dominate the man I live with....

I am simply awed by that girl!

Wow. Hahaha! Right on.

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RE: Dom is different - 6/23/2013 2:09:34 PM

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ORIGINAL: Arturas

I see star has been here. Now there is an alpha submissive and you newbies should follow her examples as well as other successful submissives in the off forum world.

This is off topic, you shouldn't be posting this extraneous comment here in this thread, how about finding a thread that addresses role modeling or such? I for one would love to see how the lovely 'star' can instruct us all, including the OP, in how to be a paragon of alpha submissiveness, which seems to include as Tazzy mentioned, gigantic train wreck threads in which she drags out details of your personal life with her. That is indeed very much someone I'd love to emulate. Please start such a thread where all your comments about your Domme would be on topic- I'd love to contribute to it and I'm sure the OP could learn much.

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RE: Dom is different - 6/23/2013 2:21:55 PM

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ORIGINAL: tazzygirl

I am quite clever.

I also didnt expect cloudboy to answer.

Lol, I also had an ulterior motive in posting.

My last 3-4 posts in this thread have not made the cut. The day is very young but....

Focus.

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RE: Dom is different - 6/23/2013 2:28:54 PM

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Awww.. feeling a bit neglected?

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Dont judge me because I sin differently than you.
If you want it sugar coated, dont ask me what i think! It would violate TOS.

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RE: Dom is different - 6/23/2013 2:41:31 PM

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ORIGINAL: Arturas

This is nonsense. She has the right to target her posting and the right to take the advice of only those she targeted

Yup, just as much as we have the right to voice our opinion even if it's something that she doesn't want to hear.

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RE: Dom is different - 6/23/2013 3:13:57 PM

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I know it is very undomly of me, but I ROFLMAO and think I just wet myself.

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RE: Dom is different - 6/23/2013 4:10:10 PM

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Since you brought GOd into it, learn what the fruits are of a Christain, or practice what you preach on this forum. Kindness and understanding and love of others is on that list of fruits because many of your posts break covenants.

I said I believe in God, not that I am a Christian. I don't believe in Christ.

So as for me believing in God, no I haven't broken my Covenant with God because I have not broken his commandments.

So you speak of God and covenants and commandments, but you do not believe in Christ? You use biblical terms, so you just pick and chose what parts you will decide suits your arguments, and ignor the rest? How very convenient and hypocritical.

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RE: Dom is different - 6/23/2013 4:18:35 PM

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Chatterbox24, thanks BUT....

You aren't ok with the negtive responses you get. If you were you'd stop trying to explain how it's other people who are messed up. Eventually they'll probably stop commenting on your flaws.

Tazzygirl:

I suspect that Chatterbox24 doesnt realize how defensive she sounds

I ran much the same way she is.

Trying to justify the actions, and the acceptance of such actions, because you were "forgiven by god" or because you finally came clean to your partner isnt cutting it.

Saying one sin isnt as bad as another, to me, is hypocritical. Saying lying is far worse than cheating, to me, is hypocritical. Saying you found grace from god when you have shown no remorse for your actions, to me, is hypocritical.

You will notice, since my post yesterday, she has avoided the whole topic. Why? I have a feeling because she sees that someone isnt fooled... or easily misled. Its hard to fool someone who has walked the same path, and isnt afraid to admit they have.

I am not avoiding THIS TOPIC. WHat are you talking about? You ramble about misleading, and fooling. Try reading what I wrote and try to understand it, instead of being very busy thinking what you will write next for a change. I never said one sin is worse then another, in fact I stated just the opposite. Yes, I have Grace from God, and shown remorse to whom? The marital police? ha. My peace has been made in my family, for my family and with Christ. WHat a ridiculous thought I should show you remorse here. If I was to believe what you said, and practice it, then you as a previous cheater have fallen from grace, and have no hope. ANd for that I feel quite sorry for you.

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