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RE: Attractive Dominant Men Are Hard To Find - 6/26/2013 4:09:13 AM

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ORIGINAL: Airlia

Well 'MsLadySue', good for you.
But I don't really care about Your profile. I'm not what you're looking for. You're not what I'm looking for. This section of the message is directed to 'masters' and not mistresses. So why are you even bothering writing here if you've nothing good to provide to me?

This is a reminder that per the guidelines of these forums, anyone is welcome to post anywhere.

Yes, that may be true, however the post author has asked a simple question and in return has been the target of a bunch of bitchy personal attacks which have absolutely nothing to do with the topic.

When she returns fire because of the rudeness she's received, people then proceed to pick the shit out of her every comment.

Being a somewhat cynical man, I'd say it's because they're jealous of - and threatened by - her youth and beauty. However when Alpha's finished being all self-righteous about my sins, you might want to ask her why the personal attacks in this thread have been allowed to stand. And don't tell me it's because none of the moderation team have read them - because your post demonstrates that you clearly have.

Or is Alpha going to threaten to ban me every time I point out the blatant inconsistencies in her moderating practice?

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RE: Attractive Dominant Men Are Hard To Find - 6/26/2013 4:32:04 AM

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I would have agreed with you.. except.. how do you know about her youth and beauty?

Photo 1 is Stephanie Seymour

Photo 2 is from an advertisement for bridal wear.

Photo 3 is Emma Watson

Photo 4 is an Inbal Dror wedding dress.. advertisement

Photo 5 also an advertisement

Photo 6 is Kate Winslet

Photo 7 is Kerstin Mannik

Photo 8 and 9 are scenery

Photo 10 is Rosie Huntington

Photo 11 an advertisement

Photo 12 is Eleonora Brigliadori

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Being a somewhat cynical man, I'd say it's because they're jealous of - and threatened by - her youth and beauty.

Of which neither you nor I have any proof that she possesses.

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RE: Attractive Dominant Men Are Hard To Find - 6/26/2013 4:38:21 AM

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Oh, that's easy. Ugly women are very unlikely to possess that sense of entitlement.

The denizens here don't necessarily know this intellectually, but they perceive it. That's why their response is so uncharitable. They feel threatened. She may not, actually, be attractive at all, but that's unimportant. What's important is that she is clearly perceived as young and attractive.

Can you come up with some other complex justification for why a woman asks about tumblers and receives a bunch of comments about how crap her profile is and how she really doesn't understand the vocabulary she's using? I, for one, would be fascinated to hear it.

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RE: Attractive Dominant Men Are Hard To Find - 6/26/2013 4:40:41 AM

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And don't tell me it's because none of the moderation team have read them - because your post demonstrates that you clearly have.

VideoAdminRho's post demonstrated that she read the post she quoted. We are not required to read every post and do not read every post. Do use the Report feature when you see personal attacks.

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Or is Alpha going to threaten to ban me every time I point out the blatant inconsistencies in her moderating practice?

You may pose this question to Alpha directly, or on Kaliko's Flounce thread, or in a new thread in Off Topic, but moderation is not the topic of this thread, and further posts regarding moderation on this thread will be considered "Off topic after moderator warning" and be deleted.

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RE: Attractive Dominant Men Are Hard To Find - 6/26/2013 4:44:22 AM

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Oh, that's easy. Ugly women are very unlikely to possess that sense of entitlement.

Very easy to have that sense of entitlement when its not your face in the frame. Honestly, you havent learned that about women yet?

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The denizens here don't necessarily know this intellectually, but they perceive it. That's why their response is so uncharitable. They feel threatened. She may not, actually, be attractive at all, but that's unimportant. What's important is that she is clearly perceived as young and attractive.

By some, I am sure. Not by all.

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Can you come up with some other complex justification for why a woman asks about tumblers and receives a bunch of comments about how crap her profile is and how she really doesn't understand the vocabulary she's using? I, for one, would be fascinated to hear it.

Could simply be the fact that this is not her first request for those accounts. You dont find it curious that someone with a post number of 41 only shows 3 posts on the search feature?

You missed the other posts, the ones that were removed with other threads. Could be the answers you are seeking for the reaction she is now getting were contained there.

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RE: Attractive Dominant Men Are Hard To Find - 6/26/2013 4:50:25 AM

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Can you come up with some other complex justification for why a woman asks about tumblers and receives a bunch of comments about how crap her profile is and how she really doesn't understand the vocabulary she's using?

The thread title can be taken to imply that most dominant men are unattractive, TAFKAA. That's going to look rude, especially in forum that's the OP could be expected to believe is mostly used by dominant men.

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RE: Attractive Dominant Men Are Hard To Find - 6/26/2013 4:51:09 AM

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Very easy to have that sense of entitlement when its not your face in the frame. Honestly, you havent learned that about women yet?

Wrong. Entitlement comes from a belief in what you deserve. People ooze entitlement in ways they don't perceive.

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Could simply be the fact that this is not her first request for those accounts. You dont find it curious that someone with a post number of 41 only shows 3 posts on the search feature?

That's funny. I didn't notice anyone alluding to this. All I saw were comments about how crap her and her profile was.

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You missed the other posts, the ones that were removed with other threads. Could be the answers you are seeking for the reaction she is now getting were contained there.

Sounds like a conspiracy theory to me. And it's bewildering that nobody's mentioned these mysterious other threads.

*sigh* Women are SO confusing.

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RE: Attractive Dominant Men Are Hard To Find - 6/26/2013 4:54:30 AM

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Can you come up with some other complex justification for why a woman asks about tumblers and receives a bunch of comments about how crap her profile is and how she really doesn't understand the vocabulary she's using?

The thread title can be taken to imply that most dominant men are unattractive, TAFKAA. That's going to look rude, especially in forum that's the OP could be expected to believe is mostly used by dominant men.

A) No, she's saying attractive dominant men are hard to find. People keep bleating how subjective attraction is, but if we accept your proposition, then attractive is not subjective in her case.

B) The people complaining about her are women, not men.

C) Dominant men aren't going to be fussed by such a statement. It comes with being... y'know... dominant.

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RE: Attractive Dominant Men Are Hard To Find - 6/26/2013 4:59:46 AM

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Wrong. Entitlement comes from a belief in what you deserve. People ooze entitlement in ways they don't perceive.

LOL.. I have one up on you with her having watched her in action in videochat. There is a launguage barrier.. again.. something you may not see because of all the missing posts.

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That's funny. I didn't notice anyone alluding to this. All I saw were comments about how crap her and her profile was.

She requested once in Off Topics, and another in the Asking Masters section. But, I guess it would be easy to miss all the posts actually trying to be helpful.

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*sigh* Women are SO confusing.

Only to men.... lol

I actually did mention in my post that I knew her from vidchat. She had an.. interesting.. time there.

Oh, and I do want to correct myself, all her posts are there. When I did the search on her name, I also searched for the tumblr keyword, revealing only three. You might want to browse her other posts to see what information you can gain from those as well.

Some of us dont mind admitting when we are wrong.

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RE: Attractive Dominant Men Are Hard To Find - 6/26/2013 5:12:02 AM

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ORIGINAL: tazzygirl
She requested once in Off Topics, and another in the Asking Masters section. But, I guess it would be easy to miss all the posts actually trying to be helpful.

Oh yes. Helpful responses are legion here. I trip over them every day.

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Oh, and I do want to correct myself, all her posts are there. When I did the search on her name, I also searched for the tumblr keyword, revealing only three. You might want to browse her other posts to see what information you can gain from those as well.

Waitasecond. Are you trying to tell me that everyone here searched her post history before responding? Pull the other one.

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Some of us dont mind admitting when we are wrong.

ORLY? Feel free to submit links to examples of such. I will be truly interested to see this.

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RE: Attractive Dominant Men Are Hard To Find - 6/26/2013 7:25:53 AM

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Oh, that's easy. Ugly women are very unlikely to possess that sense of entitlement.

The denizens here don't necessarily know this intellectually, but they perceive it. That's why their response is so uncharitable. They feel threatened. She may not, actually, be attractive at all, but that's unimportant. What's important is that she is clearly perceived as young and attractive.

Can you come up with some other complex justification for why a woman asks about tumblers and receives a bunch of comments about how crap her profile is and how she really doesn't understand the vocabulary she's using? I, for one, would be fascinated to hear it.

BRAVO!!! Wooooooohoooooooooo.

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RE: Attractive Dominant Men Are Hard To Find - 6/26/2013 7:35:28 AM

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So says another one looking for more than she is willing to give. Might behoove you to actually read the whole thread before applauding someone.... lauding someone's opinion who was so succinctly proven wrong... sorta makes the applause look foolish.

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RE: Attractive Dominant Men Are Hard To Find - 6/26/2013 7:36:23 AM

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Usually it goes like this. Something derogatory is said to a poster, they respond in defense of themselves, and wah lah! You have about 5-10 posters coming back at them, attacking them in every way possible, that is, within guidelines that is, or sometimes not. LOL. ITs the bold faced truth and for those of ya that do it, know it. And Im a woman, and not an ugly one BTW. lol.
Don't you think IM quite aware, and btw your post proves the point, that it is first and foremost in your mind as your post, to want to make me FEEl foolish or look foolish. and that's okay dear, Im aware of it, and hey Im okay with it cause I know the game.

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RE: Attractive Dominant Men Are Hard To Find - 6/26/2013 7:38:12 AM

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LOL

Again, you are looking through your own angry blinders.

She asked for "attractive" dominants.

Yet, she cannot provide photos that are of her.

Interesting hypocrisy.

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RE: Attractive Dominant Men Are Hard To Find - 6/26/2013 7:44:04 AM

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repeated post.

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RE: Attractive Dominant Men Are Hard To Find - 6/26/2013 11:58:12 AM

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Nobody's been proven wrong at all. And point me toward the part of the board where Alpha's said personal attacks are okay once the usual suspects here have collectively decided they have a really, really good reason.

See, this is the thing. I think a bunch of people on here are flat out, batshit crazy with no positive intent whatsoever. And yet, that doesn't give me license to attack them personally - yet you seem to think you're allowed to once you've decided you don't like someone's posting history.

Still waiting for evidence of you admitting you're wrong.

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RE: Attractive Dominant Men Are Hard To Find - 6/26/2013 12:32:18 PM

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I was wrong about the post count still being visible.

As far as her profile, those werent personal attacks. Its against the rules to have photos or videos in the text section of a profile. Its now wrong to point that out?

The next one pointed out stolen photos.. still not against the rules to point that out either.. a list that I gave you.

Lets address that fact.. something the OP seems to have missed.

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LafayetteLady, the photos are those of emporio armani magazine and are those that have their spread world wide and in my profile I clarify that the photos are not of myself but of clothing attires, photography I enjoy. Never did I claim they were mine.

http://www.collarchat.com/fb.asp?m=4466133

When you go to edit your profile to upload photos the following is posted...

Please only post pictures you took yourself
Please do not post commercial photos or artwork
Please do not post explicit primary photos

She has broken the first 2 by the photos she decided to display. Now, according to you, you want everyone else to follow the rules, as you see them, yet you dont expect anyone who is "young and attractive" ( I believe those were your words) to do the same?

Interesting

So I am really at a loss as to how you are viewing people attacking her.

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See, this is the thing. I think a bunch of people on here are flat out, batshit crazy with no positive intent whatsoever. And yet, that doesn't give me license to attack them personally - yet you seem to think you're allowed to once you've decided you don't like someone's posting history.

I am not seeing what you claim to be personal attacks. I do see people attacking the fact that someone is violating the rules... sorta like how you are doing now.

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RE: Attractive Dominant Men Are Hard To Find - 6/26/2013 3:27:01 PM

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Drama much?

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RE: Attractive Dominant Men Are Hard To Find - 6/26/2013 3:32:45 PM

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Nope. Just answering questions. You?

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RE: Attractive Dominant Men Are Hard To Find - 6/26/2013 8:28:59 PM

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I love these threads.

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