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RE: Attractive Dominant Men Are Hard To Find - 6/11/2013 3:18:54 PM

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^5 great post! lol

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RE: Attractive Dominant Men Are Hard To Find - 6/11/2013 3:21:37 PM

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Yes, well, the site has grown too large for the moderators on the other side to look at the photos everyone posts when they create a profile. They do find many on their own, and the rest they rely on users to report for TOS violations so they can be made aware and do what is necessary.

So in that sense you are quite correct, it is inevitable.

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RE: Attractive Dominant Men Are Hard To Find - 6/11/2013 3:59:54 PM

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Do you have something better to do?

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RE: Attractive Dominant Men Are Hard To Find - 6/11/2013 4:37:48 PM

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ORIGINAL: Airlia
Through the term attractive, I mean someone who can captivate attention in the form of literacy and a grand verbosity,

The stereotype is that tumblr is where lonely women write about their problems, and Pinterest is where women with families tell everyone else how awesome their lives are. Neither one seems too male to me, except for the tumblr pic porn sites already mentioned.

If you're most attracted to choice use of words, you might want to look at literotica.com, or someplace like this: http://www.humbledfemales.net/editorsblog/

Good luck.

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RE: Attractive Dominant Men Are Hard To Find - 6/11/2013 5:52:20 PM

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1-Tumblr has got some hot as balls porn.I mean,they have some great BDSM stills if you,ahem,poke around long enough. My only beef is that sites tend to pop up and then disappear overnight. Otherwise, yeah,tumblr kinda rox.
2-Serious advice-I would ask a gay male,most likely a sub, where to look

Where the hell is that?!?! I've looked on there and my searches one up empty. I type in BDSM, fetish, kink...nothing!

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RE: Attractive Dominant Men Are Hard To Find - 6/11/2013 5:59:46 PM

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ORIGINAL: TNDommeK

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ORIGINAL: Kana

1-Tumblr has got some hot as balls porn.I mean,they have some great BDSM stills if you,ahem,poke around long enough. My only beef is that sites tend to pop up and then disappear overnight. Otherwise, yeah,tumblr kinda rox.
2-Serious advice-I would ask a gay male,most likely a sub, where to look

Where the hell is that?!?! I've looked on there and my searches one up empty. I type in BDSM, fetish, kink...nothing!

I tried creating an account about a year ago with no success. So, you're doing better than I was able to!

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RE: Attractive Dominant Men Are Hard To Find - 6/11/2013 6:05:55 PM

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ORIGINAL: TNDommeK
Where the hell is that?!?! I've looked on there and my searches one up empty. I type in BDSM, fetish, kink...nothing!

Example: http://eroticsubmission.tumblr.com/

Edited to add: Even that tumblr is a woman's, heh. Just not a lot of dudes on tumblr, kinky or otherwise.

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RE: Attractive Dominant Men Are Hard To Find - 6/11/2013 6:32:56 PM

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Once you log into Tumblr, it should bring you right to your dashboard.
In the top right of that is a Search Tags and Blogs. That's where you
should type in the subject you're looking for, as opposed to clicking
on that Find Blogs button.

Here is one of my favorite D/s themed blog, from the male dominant perspective.
He is a great painter of words.

http://rolledtrousers.tumblr.com/

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RE: Attractive Dominant Men Are Hard To Find - 6/11/2013 6:47:39 PM

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I found my attractive (oh so cute!!!) dominant man right here on the boards...no need to tumble, twitter, pin...

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RE: Attractive Dominant Men Are Hard To Find - 6/11/2013 6:48:57 PM

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ORIGINAL: LafayetteLady

Yes, well, the site has grown too large for the moderators on the other side to look at the photos everyone posts when they create a profile. They do find many on their own, and the rest they rely on users to report for TOS violations so they can be made aware and do what is necessary.

So in that sense you are quite correct, it is inevitable.

Bullshit. If they cared, the mobile version would have a report profile feature. Hell, the mobile version doesn't even have a link to the forums and warns you if you try and switch to the full version so you can get to them

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RE: Attractive Dominant Men Are Hard To Find - 6/11/2013 6:55:19 PM

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ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

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ORIGINAL: LafayetteLady

Yes, well, the site has grown too large for the moderators on the other side to look at the photos everyone posts when they create a profile. They do find many on their own, and the rest they rely on users to report for TOS violations so they can be made aware and do what is necessary.

So in that sense you are quite correct, it is inevitable.

Bullshit. If they cared, the mobile version would have a report profile feature. Hell, the mobile version doesn't even have a link to the forums and warns you if you try and switch to the full version so you can get to them

There wasn't any bull shit in what she said. Why not take your anger out on the correct people, rather than other members, giving an opinion/their understanding of a thing and actually speaking the truth?

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RE: Attractive Dominant Men Are Hard To Find - 6/11/2013 6:58:09 PM

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As for the rest, I do enjoy watching foaming at the mouth rabid tantrums for some reason. It's like not-so-hot mess meets train wreck on track 11 . All the attractive dominants are in hiding. Can you blame them? So much has been said about OP by OP herself to make running for the hills look like a very viable option. Sure as hell beats having to gnaw your own foot off to escape that particularly bear trap.

Yeah, I'm with you. I actually had a brief conversation with the OP via cmail a few months ago, which ended when she decided not to reply to my message. Having seen this implosion, I can't say I'm sad about that anymore.

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RE: Attractive Dominant Men Are Hard To Find - 6/11/2013 7:00:46 PM

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I'm stuck on why the op titled this Attractive Dominant Men because she explicitly states in her profile that she most gets off on hurting her partner and bringing him to tears. So where's the submission in that?

She's an emotional sadist who wants to be done sexually in just the way that turns her on. Fine. But try being honest about it instead.

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RE: Attractive Dominant Men Are Hard To Find - 6/11/2013 7:08:23 PM

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We all go around our own ways. Irrevocably so.
Where is the submission in that? I don't know. Ask the masochists.

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RE: Attractive Dominant Men Are Hard To Find - 6/11/2013 7:12:44 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: TNDommeK

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ORIGINAL: Kana

1-Tumblr has got some hot as balls porn.I mean,they have some great BDSM stills if you,ahem,poke around long enough. My only beef is that sites tend to pop up and then disappear overnight. Otherwise, yeah,tumblr kinda rox.
2-Serious advice-I would ask a gay male,most likely a sub, where to look

Where the hell is that?!?! I've looked on there and my searches one up empty. I type in BDSM, fetish, kink...nothing!

google something like tumblr bdsm or tmblr slave
You'll hit some good stuff
If you like stills, imagefap is sweet but ya gotta do some digging

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RE: Attractive Dominant Men Are Hard To Find - 6/11/2013 7:21:07 PM

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K, I stumbled upon Tumblr in my, errr, "research" mode. Here's a couple links that may help. They have other links in them. Enjoy...Mostly Collared Women-has a ton of pertinent Tumblr links and this one, Autumnal Mutterings of The City,which has seems to go more for the artistic side. Apologies in advance for the fact that I focus on male-dominated sites, but hey, it's the way I roll...

I would suggest right-clicking on the other links and open in new tabs, so you don't lose your place. Addictive site Tumblr is...

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RE: Attractive Dominant Men Are Hard To Find - 6/11/2013 7:31:50 PM

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Thanks for those that have sent tumblr sites and have taken a look into it.
The ones i've so far seen are pretty cool.

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RE: Attractive Dominant Men Are Hard To Find - 6/11/2013 7:54:29 PM

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pinterest is pretty good too.

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RE: Attractive Dominant Men Are Hard To Find - 6/11/2013 8:39:22 PM

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