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shivvy -> RE: The PHAT thread (6/29/2006 4:51:40 AM)
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PHAT (Pretty Hot And Tempting)
First: Tell us why you’re PHAT.
Second: Tell us what you find PHAT.
i don’t think it’s really for me to say if i’m PHAT or not, but You did ask, so…[;)]
i would like to think i’m PHAT because i don't care wot people look like… age, size, race, colour, creed, religion… i just think if you’re lovely inside, then you’re lovely. i would like to think people think i’m lovely, caring and compassionate, respectful and polite, unassuming, unpretentious and non-judgemental, honest and trustworthy, but You would have to ask them that. i know i got limitations and i know i’m not perfect, but i’m always ready and willing to learn... But i think my bestest good points, are my ability to luv and my loyalty to my daughter and my Master, my family and my friends, without whom, i’m nuffin anyway
What I find PHAT...
On the outside, i’m physically attracted to big, strong, hairy and masculine "Alpha" type Men, but like i said above, wot’s inside is more important to me.
i think that natural dominance is REALLY important. An ability to control me with strictness, firmness, consistency, and fairness. Somebody emotionally, physically and intellectually stronger than me. A really good sense of right and wrong, Strength of character is really important and the willingness to take responsibility for both me and my life. i just want to be with somebody where i am free to be me, where i have no secrets and no guilt. Where i am allowed to be who i really want to be, to fulfil my needs and desires, to dream, fantasise, and experience the forbidden. i’ve been told that i am very childlike and i like the security that D/s gives me…
He needs to be strong willed, coz i like to think that my Master’s role is one of a teacher, trainer, mentor and guide. He should demand nothing less than my best efforts at all times, even when i'm doing something i really don’t want to do. He has to be brave and have the courage to tell me wot to do, even when He knows i don't want too, or i hate it, and the strength to push me beyond my doubts and fears and to MAKE me, if necessary, do as i'm told and submit to His will.
i think that the basis of our lifestyle is that i, in offering my submission to my MASTER, have accepted the responsibility of pleasing my MASTER in ALL things, including abiding by the rules HE has set for me. It follows then, that when those rules are broken, my MASTER has an obligation to punish me to ensure that i learn not to break the rules again. And through a system of punishments and discipline, i hope that i will grow in my ability to please Him, which is the ultimate goal of my submission.
As a bit of a masochist, i think that a Cruel and Sadistic streak would be grand too. Somebody who wants to help me break my perceived limits and taboo's. To take me further along the path of pain and pleasure and help me explore the darker side that lays beyond the pain/pleasure boundary. Somebody who wants to encourage me broaden my experience and to achieve the little things They want me to achieve and learn the things they want me to learn. Somebody who will help me, advise me, control me, encourage and stimulate me, and shape me into the submissive i crave to be.
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