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Slaveboytoy2 -> Who tend to be more punishing the old or the young? (7/13/2013 5:52:52 PM)

Who do you think has a more punishing hand the old or the young?




OsideGirl -> RE: Who tend to be more punishing the old or the young? (7/13/2013 6:03:49 PM)

There is no answer for this question. It is obtuse, obscure and undefined.

Try this one, it's just as good: Who eats more spaghetti? Old or young?




petitespot -> RE: Who tend to be more punishing the old or the young? (7/13/2013 6:13:48 PM)

It's a personality thing not an age thing.




stef -> RE: Who tend to be more punishing the old or the young? (7/13/2013 6:43:13 PM)

Who are the bigger wankers the old or the young?




DarkSteven -> RE: Who tend to be more punishing the old or the young? (7/13/2013 6:52:02 PM)

I don't use hands for punishment.




TallullahHk -> RE: Who tend to be more punishing the old or the young? (7/13/2013 6:54:57 PM)

I vote young in the spaghetti case...my gram ate like a bird :)

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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

There is no answer for this question. It is obtuse, obscure and undefined.

Try this one, it's just as good: Who eats more spaghetti? Old or young?





MasterCaneman -> RE: Who tend to be more punishing the old or the young? (7/13/2013 6:55:51 PM)

Young man, you seem to keep sticking your hand in beehives. Maybe you should consider quietly lurking a bit more? While I get a sense of the original intent of your posting, it's not playing so well here.




DesFIP -> RE: Who tend to be more punishing the old or the young? (7/13/2013 7:00:52 PM)

Why would anyone want to make their partner disappointed, angry, unhappy and so on?

If you're asking who is more sadistic, an older or a younger person then that makes no sense. Age has no more correlation to sadism than does hair color.




hrxxx -> RE: Who tend to be more punishing the old or the young? (7/13/2013 7:17:01 PM)

It depends on who you're punishing. Is it a experienced or inexperienced? Is it a submissive or slave? Is it a masochist or a non masochist? Well my guess is that there may not be as many young and old who know what the difference is, so they will probably punish more wrong than hard.




ResidentSadist -> RE: Who tend to be more punishing the old or the young? (7/13/2013 8:36:39 PM)

I think you posed the question wrong. It should have been, who deserves a more punishing hand the old or the young and foolish that post borderline inflammatory threads trying to draw social boundaries with age where there are none.




DarkSteven -> RE: Who tend to be more punishing the old or the young? (7/13/2013 8:39:03 PM)


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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

Why would anyone want to make their partner disappointed, angry, unhappy and so on?



Beautiful. DesFIP hit the nail on the head. The fact that punishment is deserved, is of more importance than what it is.




SeekingTrinity -> RE: Who tend to be more punishing the old or the young? (7/13/2013 8:46:44 PM)

~FRing it~

OP...did you just give up on posing thought-provoking questions and are now just going for pointless and inane instead?

Just google some porn, fire one off, and call it a day. This isnt the wank fodder you're looking for (said in my best Obi-wan Kenobi voice)




FrostedFlake -> RE: Who tend to be more punishing the old or the young? (7/13/2013 10:09:31 PM)

It's a fair question. It disrespects everyone equally, especially the OP.




masmiss -> RE: Who tend to be more punishing the old or the young? (7/14/2013 2:09:37 AM)


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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

There is no answer for this question. It is obtuse, obscure and undefined.

Try this one, it's just as good: Who eats more spaghetti? Old or young?


That's it! I couldn't decide what I'll be making for dinner tonight. Spaghetti with meatballs! So, in my case, the old will be eating more spaghetti (although I'm young at heart).

Thanks, OsideGirl. [:D]




AthenaSurrenders -> RE: Who tend to be more punishing the old or the young? (7/14/2013 5:43:40 AM)

Fast reply

It depends what you mean by 'more punishing'.

Women aged between 24-32 are most punishing in terms of frequency of punishment, but women aged 54-61 are more severe in their punishments. 64% of punishments are handed out during the 4 days prior to the full moon. Peri-menopausal women are the most creative in their punishments with 77% never using the same punishment twice, compared to just 22% of women of childbearing age. Women whose age in years is divisible by three are slightly more likely than other women to threaten punishments but not carry them out, whilst women with larger feet (after adjusting for other variables such as height and ethnicity) are the most likely to punish on the first transgression without any warnings. Almost 1/3rd of women in their twenties and thirties punish only on weekends, and 1 in 10 dominants are punishing just to be around.

Hope that helps. I can produce more helpful statistics to go with any questions you may have.




Kana -> RE: Who tend to be more punishing the old or the young? (7/14/2013 8:29:54 AM)

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Who tend to be more punishing the old or the young?

The stupid, the vacuous, the HNG and the fantasy-ists.


Is it just me or is a fascination with punishment like the scarlet letter that delineates newbies and wannabes?




GotSteel -> RE: Who tend to be more punishing the old or the young? (7/14/2013 8:31:40 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: OsideGirl
Try this one, it's just as good: Who eats more spaghetti? Old or young?


Pastafarians!




AthenaSurrenders -> RE: Who tend to be more punishing the old or the young? (7/14/2013 8:42:37 AM)


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ORIGINAL: Kana

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Who tend to be more punishing the old or the young?

The stupid, the vacuous, the HNG and the fantasy-ists.


Is it just me or is a fascination with punishment like the scarlet letter that delineates newbies and wannabes?


It is, but it's understandable too. Aside from the fact that it's a common 'excuse' for beatings and/or kinky sex in porn, punishment and the threat of punishment is tied in with a lot of our experiences of power in childhood, so it makes sense that when people start to get stirrings of arousal about power exchange they think of it in terms of punishment.

Hell, I have a punishment dynamic and I know the complicated realities of what 'punishment' can really be like. I also know that we can have all sorts of fun without any reason. But I'd be lying if I said that punishments didn't feature highly in my favourite fantasies.




Kana -> RE: Who tend to be more punishing the old or the young? (7/14/2013 8:50:02 AM)


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ORIGINAL: AthenaSurrenders


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ORIGINAL: Kana

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Who tend to be more punishing the old or the young?

The stupid, the vacuous, the HNG and the fantasy-ists.


Is it just me or is a fascination with punishment like the scarlet letter that delineates newbies and wannabes?


It is, but it's understandable too. Aside from the fact that it's a common 'excuse' for beatings and/or kinky sex in porn, punishment and the threat of punishment is tied in with a lot of our experiences of power in childhood, so it makes sense that when people start to get stirrings of arousal about power exchange they think of it in terms of punishment.

Hell, I have a punishment dynamic and I know the complicated realities of what 'punishment' can really be like. I also know that we can have all sorts of fun without any reason. But I'd be lying if I said that punishments didn't feature highly in my favourite fantasies.

Yeah,but you don't obsess about.
IJMHO and all,but I think it's a sign of weakness in a dominant to focus so much on punishment. I mean fuck, if I want to hurt her,I do.I own my shit. I hurt her because I like to,because it turns me on. I don't to invent some flimflam excuse to do so.

And really,as much as you fantasize about it,how much do you enjoy actual consequences? Not funishment, but punishment.
I think I've met maybe two gals total in all my life who enjoy true punishment. Most don't-not so much for the physical pain or results,but far more because they hate the feeling of letting their Dominant down.That shits a soul-killer. While it's a concept that may sound hot at night while hanging out with Mr Rabbit and his pal Mr Hitachi, few gals get off on that in real life




SomethingCatchy -> RE: Who tend to be more punishing the old or the young? (7/14/2013 9:18:22 AM)


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ORIGINAL: GotSteel


quote:

ORIGINAL: OsideGirl
Try this one, it's just as good: Who eats more spaghetti? Old or young?


Pastafarians!


Isn't it normal to eat the body of your deity?




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