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LadyPact -> RE: Nothing better to do (7/20/2013 3:23:37 PM)
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Well, since *everyone* was an old hag or whatever, here's another two cents.
No, the spam filter isn't malfunctioning. Whatever search you did doesn't tell you what anybody else did to trigger it. If I started a new account with a stolen pic of a 21 year old model and sent out twenty messages to say hi and pay tribute, I'd get hit by the spam filter, too. You're either triggering frequency, generic messages, or people are reporting the messages that you have sent as spam. Perhaps, it's a combination of all three. However, that is exactly what the system is designed to do, so that means it's working precisely the way that it's supposed to.
Nobody has to read your profile to answer a simple question about the spam filter. The thing has been active on this site for about three years now and most of the folks familiar with the forums are used to people jumping over here to say that they triggered it. Do you want to know what every person who has complained about it had in common? They were all sending out a bunch of generic mail and/or mail that the other parties didn't want to receive. To date, nobody coming on the forums to complain about it has been able to honestly deny that they weren't doing the things the spam filter is in place to prevent.
I didn't read your profile but *if* you are mailing Dominant women and you have labeled yourself as a Dominant, a high number of those women are going to hit that nice "mark as spam and delete" button that the site provides. Most Dominant women are not interested in Dominant men and the ones that come along hoping we'll switch because they think they are the Domly Dom of the universe are generally pests. This can be especially true if they are younger and haven't gotten their feet wet yet.
By the way, the way you have reacted on this thread is exactly why many of the women just mark unwanted mail with the "mark as spam and delete" button, rather than sending a reply back. You may be sending nice emails to those that you want to hook up with, but those of us who have been here for a while know that any reply given to say we're not interested is met with rudeness, so we don't bother. It's the exact reaction that's been on this thread that prompts all of the questions on the forums about why women don't answer mail and why those who have experience in BDSM won't give somebody on the internet a chance.
You probably won't like any of what I've said here, so please feel free to lash out with the comments about how I'm old, fat, or don't know what I'm talking about. That last part always works when people who don't have information/knowledge don't like the answers from those that do. [8|]
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