CynthiaWVirginia
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Joined: 2/28/2010 From: West Virginia, USA Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: AAkasha Lots of kinky people (especially male subs I have found) go through periods where they either feel they are weird and throw away their toys, or they put them away as the desires subside and then later find them and think - hmm, I haven't had interest lately, I will just toss this box. And then, of course, the desires come back. Have you thrown away your toys, out of self disgust or another reason? or hiding them, and worried about getting caught? Or moving to a new place and realizing you can't hide them? Have you had periods of time where you are "not that interested" for some reason, and what is the longest period of time was it? I tend to re-buy toys a lot. That's a bad habit. Akasha I haven't thrown out any kinky toys. When my son was under 18, yeah, I was very discreet and kept them hidden in several bags in my closet. Back then, yes, I was worried about "getting caught", "outed" as kinky. I've made a lot of thuddy and stingy ribbon, rubber, etc., floggers and have gifted some to several people, but those are the only ones I've "gotten rid of". Moving was easy because I packed and moved my own stuff. Yes, I've had many periods of time when I was not interested, especially during my first two years. I think my disinterest was more of a "screw this!" type of burnout...rather than D/s not being able to ring my bell. These haven't lasted long, maybe several months. I've known a lot of people who have dramatically left, given all their stuff away, then several months or years later we're both grinning and laughing...they're back in the lifestyle.
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