Damacis
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ORIGINAL: AAkasha Is your attraction level (and feelings of dominant or submissive desire, moreso) impacted by a woman's use of foul language (in casual situations, pre-play, NOT while doing S&M). Like a woman that casual says, "That fuckin' sucks," or "Those bitches...." What is your first impression? For example, do submissive men find this kind of bitchy sounding woman to be potentially dominant when she's freely using unrefined language? Or does it seem she may be more sexually outgoing? Or taking all BDSM out of the equation, does a woman with a foul mouth turn you off? Oh - here is a good example. Like the way Deborah Morgan talks in Dexter. Like a foul mouthed woman who is totally integrating curse words into her language. Akasha My only real impression about a woman who's freely foul-mouthed is just that she's a little rough around the edges / less given to social convention. And, obviously, I'm completely ok with this, although there's a time and place for everything. If it's in front of my parents or at a social function that doesn't involve lots of alcohol, it's a little untoward. Otherwise it's fine, as I'm a little free with words outside of the above situations myself. Regarding any sort of D/s vibe based of language -- I don't think it really applies. I've seen both sides use really refined language and/or cuss like a sailor. My "ooo she might be dominant" sensor is tripped more by tone, implication, subtlety, and suggestion, rather than a filthy mouth.
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