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ORIGINAL: AthenaSurrenders

It may decrease sensitivity over time - I don't know for certain either way. But personally, if someone kept insisting on doing things I found unpleasant and frustrating every time we had sex, despite me clearly telling him what I needed to get satisfaction.... well, let's just say he wouldn't be around long enough to find out whether my sensitivity changed or not.

What's most likely to happen is you will find it harder and harder to cum every time you are with him because of the pressure and frustration - it will become a self-fulfilling prophecy because he's setting you up to feel stress over it.

Why does it need to be less sensitive? You can orgasm, you can enjoy sex, why does it matter?

Unless your fetish is tease and denial or you're getting some other kind of fun from this play, I'd tell him to knock it off. I know, I know, you're a sub, right? So it's up to the dom when and if you get to cum. But someone who won't/can't take on board what does and doesn't feel good for you is likely to be an inconsiderate partner across the board, and if one partner is having a crappy time during sex, it's likely your passion will fizzle pretty fast.

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ORIGINAL: AthenaSurrenders

It may decrease sensitivity over time - I don't know for certain either way. But personally, if someone kept insisting on doing things I found unpleasant and frustrating every time we had sex, despite me clearly telling him what I needed to get satisfaction.... well, let's just say he wouldn't be around long enough to find out whether my sensitivity changed or not.

What's most likely to happen is you will find it harder and harder to cum every time you are with him because of the pressure and frustration - it will become a self-fulfilling prophecy because he's setting you up to feel stress over it.

Why does it need to be less sensitive? You can orgasm, you can enjoy sex, why does it matter?

Unless your fetish is tease and denial or you're getting some other kind of fun from this play, I'd tell him to knock it off. I know, I know, you're a sub, right? So it's up to the dom when and if you get to cum. But someone who won't/can't take on board what does and doesn't feel good for you is likely to be an inconsiderate partner across the board, and if one partner is having a crappy time during sex, it's likely your passion will fizzle pretty fast.