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KnightofMists -> RE: What is one kinky act you wish was safe for a day (8/20/2013 2:20:00 PM)

Free falling from 20000 feet and fuck all the way to the ground!




NuevaVida -> RE: What is one kinky act you wish was safe for a day (8/20/2013 3:59:08 PM)


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ORIGINAL: JeffBC

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ORIGINAL: littlewonder
Kana is shocked no one has said gangbangs yet

Yeah.. I was going there. If there were no STD's Carol'd be a very unhappy woman.

Gawd, it's the opposite for me. I'd be crazy happy.

I keep asking him to barter me out to contractors for discounted work on his house. He keeps laughing and saying no.

I'm such a slut lol.




DesFIP -> RE: What is one kinky act you wish was safe for a day (8/20/2013 4:43:00 PM)

Wouldn't work for me. I'd be busy complaining that they showed up late, didn't put plastic down to prevent dust everywhere, dripped paint etc.




NuevaVida -> RE: What is one kinky act you wish was safe for a day (8/20/2013 5:12:19 PM)

LOL good point!




Dreamless -> RE: What is one kinky act you wish was safe for a day (8/21/2013 1:48:51 AM)


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ORIGINAL: AAkasha


For me? Chloroform.

I must have seen too much of it watching bad adventure TV growing up. Something about that fluid-soaked hanky pressed over the hero's nose and mouth and his desperate struggle to stay awake got me all worked up long before I knew what I was feeling,

HOT.

All that gave me a brand new fetish, I think. D: Though that goes along with my whole dreaming thing less than the breath play, I think. Yeah, if that were safe I'd be so doing it.




JeffBC -> RE: What is one kinky act you wish was safe for a day (8/21/2013 10:43:55 AM)

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ORIGINAL: NuevaVida
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ORIGINAL: JeffBC
Yeah.. I was going there. If there were no STD's Carol'd be a very unhappy woman.

Gawd, it's the opposite for me. I'd be crazy happy. I keep asking him to barter me out to contractors for discounted work on his house. He keeps laughing and saying no. I'm such a slut lol.

LOL. And yeah... to Des also :)




LondonLatexGimp -> RE: What is one kinky act you wish was safe for a day (8/21/2013 11:59:58 AM)

Gangbang.

But only if by safe we're including no lasting psychological damage or harm to my backside!!




YOURreceptacle -> RE: What is one kinky act you wish was safe for a day (8/24/2013 10:04:58 AM)

Being a cum receptacle for every transsexual within a 50 mile radius.




UllrsIshtar -> RE: What is one kinky act you wish was safe for a day (8/24/2013 11:05:01 AM)


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ORIGINAL: JeffBC

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ORIGINAL: littlewonder
Kana is shocked no one has said gangbangs yet

Yeah.. I was going there. If there were no STD's Carol'd be a very unhappy woman.


Y'all need to get out of North America to plan stuff like that then.

Various places all over the globe with STD rates at least 6 times lower than in the North American, where the rate of infection when you stay away from risk groups and use condoms is very low already.

If you go to a country with low STD rates, use STD testing for participants, and screen out high risk groups like bisexuals, drug users, and so on, your risks turn to practically nil.

At that point your risk rates turn into a 0.000001% or something chance you may get something you don't want, which if you do is most likely curable, and if it isn't, isn't deadly for at least a decade or so.

At that point, most of what people have in their kink repertoire (excluding Jeff here) like breath play, suspension bondage, any bondage at all, canning, needle play and so on all are far higher risk activities than gang bangs (so yeah, been there, done that... boring).

I think people conceptually overestimate the risks of catching a horrible STD while underestimating the risks of other kink play comparatively, because the risk of an STD feels more random and more uncontrollable than accidentally fucking something else up during kink play. It really isn't, and it really isn't more risky at all, but because we're dealing with Dominant personality types here, the idea of risking something completely beyond your own knowledge and control that you can't plan or guard against even with precautions, feels like a far greater risk than engaging in a far more higher risk activity that feels as if it's in your control, because it going wrong would mean you actively (though perhaps accidentally) fucked up.




getoutnow -> RE: What is one kinky act you wish was safe for a day (8/24/2013 11:14:28 AM)

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ORIGINAL: UllrsIshtar

Y'all need to get out of North America to plan stuff like that then.

Various places all over the globe with STD rates at least 6 times lower than in the North American, where the rate of infection when you stay away from risk groups and use condoms is very low already.

If you go to a country with low STD rates, use STD testing for participants, and screen out high risk groups like bisexuals, drug users, and so on, your risks turn to practically nil.

At that point your risk rates turn into a 0.000001% or something chance you may get something you don't want, which if you do is most likely curable, and if it isn't, isn't deadly for at least a decade or so.


When I was back in the UK and in the south mind you. After getting checked a bunch of times because I went though a bunch of partners. The doctor did actually tell me, that I had more chance of getting hit by a bus than actually getting HIV. I had more chance of getting something like gonorrhea or chlamydia.

I did lol at him.

The reason for this and it has been mentioned in UK magazines. In the US there is more of a casual pov when it comes to sex. A man/woman can be seeing multiple people AND be having sex with them until they choose someone. Whereas in the UK, you see just 1 person at a time. If there is ever the feeling that person is seeing someone else at the same time, you end the courtship as it were.

Now being in the US for the long term. I can't see myself dating several girls and being sexually intimate with them. Seeing as I don't want to catch any STD especially herpes which is RAMPANT in the US.

Especially eye-herpes which an advert on TV keeps on telling me about. [:D]

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ORIGINAL: UllrsIshtar
kink repertoire (excluding Jeff here) like breath play, suspension bondage, any bondage at all, canning, needle play


Agreed about the boring. Once you have done things for many many years. It becomes something thats just part of you, rather than something that is exciting. Riding a bike in the beginning is exciting. Its like that. Now when I pick up a paddle or have my grip around a subs neck, its just a means to an end. No real excitement.




littlewonder -> RE: What is one kinky act you wish was safe for a day (8/25/2013 5:47:26 PM)

Here's the thing and Master will confirm it.

I'm the type of person that if something to happen was .00000001 percent, it will happen to me. Never, ever fails. I'm actually surprised I have not been struck by lightning yet. <looks around all worried now>.




Spiritedsub2 -> RE: What is one kinky act you wish was safe for a day (8/25/2013 5:49:12 PM)

LW, if that is true, you should go buy a lottery ticket ASAP!




littlewonder -> RE: What is one kinky act you wish was safe for a day (8/25/2013 5:53:49 PM)

It only works with bad things. [&o]




PeonForHer -> RE: What is one kinky act you wish was safe for a day (8/25/2013 6:34:04 PM)


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ORIGINAL: SpyUnderCover


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ORIGINAL: MariaB
I think my one off would be a hunt with females on horseback galloping through fields and woodland after naked male slaves.


... And once capturing them, keeping them in some secret compound where we train them and have our way with them.

Spy


Was that terrible old 70s femdom film behind this idea - horsewomen hunting males to make them slaves? Well, it all works for me, anyway. So long as the men don't have to be entirely naked. It's difficult to run barefoot and too much swinging around is not comfy, if you catch my drift.




SpyUnderCover -> RE: What is one kinky act you wish was safe for a day (9/5/2013 12:00:51 PM)


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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer


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ORIGINAL: SpyUnderCover


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ORIGINAL: MariaB
I think my one off would be a hunt with females on horseback galloping through fields and woodland after naked male slaves.


... And once capturing them, keeping them in some secret compound where we train them and have our way with them.

Spy


Was that terrible old 70s femdom film behind this idea - horsewomen hunting males to make them slaves? Well, it all works for me, anyway. So long as the men don't have to be entirely naked. It's difficult to run barefoot and too much swinging around is not comfy, if you catch my drift.


I'm not sure what "terrible old 70's femdom film" you're talking about, but do share the title; I might enjoy checking it out, even if it is tacky and predictable.

I can't speak for Maria but as for myself, the fantasy just emerged out of the prurient corners of my mind. Under the circumstances I would be willing to allow the men to wear shoes and socks for the event, but that's it.

Spy




jola37 -> RE: What is one kinky act you wish was safe for a day (9/5/2013 2:35:16 PM)

It's a hard look to rock, best off with pop socks and some good running shoes




sunshinemiss -> RE: What is one kinky act you wish was safe for a day (9/5/2013 3:24:02 PM)

Dang... the first thing - and only thing - that came to my mind was "love."




PeonForHer -> RE: What is one kinky act you wish was safe for a day (9/5/2013 6:15:49 PM)

FR

In the past I often fantasised about having sex with a woman then going straight to sleep afterwards.




littleone14 -> RE: What is one kinky act you wish was safe for a day (9/5/2013 7:19:23 PM)


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ORIGINAL: AthenaSurrenders

FR

I'd like to do an abduction/rape type scene that involved being snatched from a public place - maybe a quiet parking lot or something. Not physically dangerous, the 'safe' in this sense would mean 'no members of the public would be distressed and the police wouldn't come searching for us'.


This actually happened here in Portland a few years back. A couple of idiots thought it would be a good idea to play out their abduction fantasy in a grocery store parking lot! The guy put his naked and bound girlfriend into the trunk of his car and drove off. Of course tons of people called the police, so they were caught pretty quickly.

Their response to it all? "It's Portland. We thought people would be open to this kind of thing"!

Nimrods.....




MizzSpitfire -> RE: What is one kinky act you wish was safe for a day (9/6/2013 12:10:54 AM)

Major amounts of bloodletting!




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