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What is one kinky act you wish was safe for a day - 8/17/2013 3:24:53 PM

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For me? Chloroform.

I must have seen too much of it watching bad adventure TV growing up. Something about that fluid-soaked hanky pressed over the hero's nose and mouth and his desperate struggle to stay awake got me all worked up long before I knew what I was feeling,

I was roleplaying that baby years before my first orgasm. "See this cloth? Pretend it's got chloroform on it" (Meanwhile the guys is like, "Akasha, who ARE you? Whatever, go ahead.". Then when we were done and making out, he was like wow - this really turns you on, doesn't it?)

Never in a million years would I consider even attempting access to a drug of any kind for "fun." But they way it was played up in media makes it so alluring. A man fighting to stay awake - combined with my fetish for breathing, struggled and strained breathing - holding a man down, straddling a man at the hips (sitting on him), hand-over-mouth - it's the perfect storm of fetishes. (it's a chicken-and-egg thing though - which came first, all those "sub-fetishes" or the chloroform one, I don't know)

Later when I became more sexual, I coyly made the "game" more attractive by peeling off my own moist panties and saying playfully, "How about we pretend these wet panties are a chloroform-soaked cloth and you desperately don't want to inhale." (insert smart ass man-comment, "oh but I DO want to inhale:). It would make him agreeable to a little "goofy" roleyplay but I could always get even the most hesitant non-roleplayer to agree to try a few rounds of thrashing about until he would "succumb" to the drug and I would apply the handcuffs and duct tape, and the the real fun would begin.

If I could be in a magic world where the real drug would exist just one day - safely and without the nasty side effects - I would enjoy it, yes. I know this would never happen. But TV made it so appealing.

What would your one kinky act for one day, if it could be truly safe?

Akasha

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RE: What is one kinky act you wish was safe for a day - 8/17/2013 3:35:20 PM

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Clubbing baby seals...I love the way they react to the strobelights and glitter, and they always buy a round of shots when it's their turn.

No but seriously, when they are babies they shouldn't drink.

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RE: What is one kinky act you wish was safe for a day - 8/17/2013 4:48:43 PM

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RE: What is one kinky act you wish was safe for a day - 8/17/2013 5:21:51 PM

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Quad Amputation puppy play.

well doesn't that brings a whole new attraction to the fetch command.

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RE: What is one kinky act you wish was safe for a day - 8/17/2013 5:47:31 PM

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Full toilet play. (It's only disgusting because it's not safe!)

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RE: What is one kinky act you wish was safe for a day - 8/17/2013 6:27:14 PM

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Interesting question, Miz A. I hope it has the effect it deserves. Here is my spin of this bottle.

Have you, Miz A, ever thought about taking a fellow camping?

Well, not camping, actually. Well, you are going camping, but you're taking this fellow along. He isn't going camping. He is going to the end of a particular logging road you know about, near , but not too near, where you are going to camp. When you get him there, you are going to talk him out of his pajamas. And you are going to cuff his wrists to his ankles. And you are going to drive him several hundred yards into the woods with a handy stick you find laying about. And you are going to chain him by the neck to a tree. Not just any tree, the one that happens to be there. Then, a half an hour later, you are going back to the car to go set up camp for the weekend. After dinner, you might visit the hitchhiker again. Or maybe a bit later, after a nap.

With apologies to Ayn Rand.

ETA : A couple words. One handed typing is tough.

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RE: What is one kinky act you wish was safe for a day - 8/17/2013 6:28:49 PM

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Quad Amputation puppy play.

You owe me a new keyboard. Where do I send the bill.

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RE: What is one kinky act you wish was safe for a day - 8/17/2013 6:47:18 PM

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Sky-diving bondage.

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RE: What is one kinky act you wish was safe for a day - 8/17/2013 6:47:56 PM

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None. If I want to do something I do it (if he allows). I never think of safety. I guess I'm too much of one of these "I'm gonna die one day anyway. May as well do it doing something I like and want". Thankfully none of my kinks are really dangerous in any way except breathplay which we do quite often already.

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RE: What is one kinky act you wish was safe for a day - 8/17/2013 6:50:45 PM

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Clubbing baby seals...I love the way they react to the strobelights and glitter, and they always buy a round of shots when it's their turn.

No but seriously, when they are babies they shouldn't drink.

When I read this, I could hear "oontz oontz oontz oontz..." in the background.

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RE: What is one kinky act you wish was safe for a day - 8/17/2013 7:10:34 PM

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i think one of the strange but hot things that occurs to me in my out of control moments is being castrated by dominant woman who has kidnapped me, put me into severe bondage, and used me for her pleasure. then after telling me that i cannot be allowed to ever have another woman after satisfying her, she applies a castrating band, or if i am really over the top uses a knife to end my days as a male with a flourish. i don't know whether this occurs to me because i am a sissy, or because i'm submissive or both, but thankfully i don't think about that scene very often. i imagine a Mistress could convince a submissive she was going to do this even if she really did not intend to carry through. would certainly be a scene the submissive would never forget!

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RE: What is one kinky act you wish was safe for a day - 8/17/2013 7:44:06 PM

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Quad Amputation puppy play.

You owe me a new keyboard. Where do I send the bill.

I'm pretty sure that wasn't a joke.

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RE: What is one kinky act you wish was safe for a day - 8/17/2013 7:50:19 PM

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I'm pretty sure that wasn't a joke.

I know! That's what made me laugh the most!

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RE: What is one kinky act you wish was safe for a day - 8/17/2013 7:58:36 PM

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The harder forms of breathplay? I get a pretty big rush from it, both during sex and in play. I don't really bring it up with my master, though. We've done some light breathplay, but he's very protective, so I doubt he'd go for anything heavier. It doesn't help that I have mild asthma.

Oh, and certain above-the-waist estim configurations. Estim is probably the only form of advanced play with which I have a fair degree of expertise, so I'm always thinking up weird stuff. I think the stupidest idea I've had was "mobile estim." I wondered if you could set something up which could work across any distance, even if the sub was going about their daily business. My solution ended up involving a 2B, Hamachi, a tethered cel phone, and a laptop backpack, and you could reasonably well conceal the entire setup. It actually worked in some basic tests, though I never tried it while roaming. I'm not sure if Hamachi would be able to maintain the tunnel as the phone was handed from tower to tower. Totally unsafe, of course, considering your sub could be as far as away as you wanted (provided they didn't stray too far from a tower), and you wouldn't have anybody there to monitor the sub or call for help if things go wrong.

I have a frame of reference, though. Whenever I'm confused about whether he'll go for something on the edge, I just remember his reaction when I asked him if I could get a motorcycle. :P

Is it just me, or are subs usually the ones who have the biggest appetite for risky play? There's a specific narrative which makes the rounds in certain circles outside of the world of BDSM where doms (especially male doms with fem subs) are evil tyrants exploiting the vulnerability of damaged subs. I always laugh a little on the inside when I read anything along those lines. In those moments, I always remember all the crazy stuff that went through my head as a teenager, before a dom had even touched me for the first time. I actually thought I was a little crazy for wanting those things, which in retrospect, I probably was.

I think some subs feel a certain kind of invulnerability in the proximity of their dom, especially if they have a strong relationship which makes them feel very safe. I've listened to quite a few who weren't very smart with their calculation of risk.

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RE: What is one kinky act you wish was safe for a day - 8/17/2013 9:34:44 PM

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Sky-diving bondage.

That one is actually on my bucket list for real (thanks to littlewonder) if I can find a qualified top willing try it.

I'd consider it less risky than choke play, as long as the top has got serious experience in formation diving.

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RE: What is one kinky act you wish was safe for a day - 8/17/2013 9:39:40 PM

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I'm pretty sure that wasn't a joke.

I know! That's what made me laugh the most!

Yeah it wasn't a joke, though it's a very incomplete glimpse into the fantasy. Most people get kinda squeamish after mentioning amputations, severed vocal cords and stuff, so I left the juicier details out.

Not sure what's funny about it though.

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RE: What is one kinky act you wish was safe for a day - 8/17/2013 9:46:24 PM

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Clubbing baby seals...I love the way they react to the strobelights and glitter, and they always buy a round of shots when it's their turn.

No but seriously, when they are babies they shouldn't drink.

When I read this, I could hear "oontz oontz oontz oontz..." in the background.

Try : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6zlViU5PBPY&feature=youtube_gdata_player

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RE: What is one kinky act you wish was safe for a day - 8/17/2013 11:10:53 PM

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I'd like to do an abduction/rape type scene that involved being snatched from a public place - maybe a quiet parking lot or something. Not physically dangerous, the 'safe' in this sense would mean 'no members of the public would be distressed and the police wouldn't come searching for us'.

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RE: What is one kinky act you wish was safe for a day - 8/18/2013 9:55:47 AM

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Inverted suspension.

It's safe for others, just not for me. Vertigo is no fun.

And outdoor scenes. If you could magically eliminate mosquitoes and poison ivy and ticks and such.

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RE: What is one kinky act you wish was safe for a day - 8/18/2013 11:09:50 AM

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And outdoor scenes. If you could magically eliminate mosquitoes and poison ivy and ticks and such.

And other people lol.

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