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silk scarves - 7/1/2006 1:14:49 PM   
chglm


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heres a thread I started at "informed" consent which started about gags. Still curious though!

moving on from the gag thing, from my posts I have dom fetish for silk; especially scarves (dont know if thats always a good thing lol!). Theres something about a submissive lady tied up with silk. I also love to see a dom or sub wearing one too.
Does anybody share my fetish; ie wear one for bondage play as part as a scenario or outfit, out to munches etc? Or love using them for tying, gagging or restraining someone; maybe youve been restained using them too.

Ok, hands up, confession time!! Ive got a severe fetish!! You can tell by my profile! Just shoot me if need be! Dont want it hyjacking all the other more relevant posts here!! Im just curious! Is it just me? If so ill just quietly tiptoe away
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RE: silk scarves - 7/1/2006 1:45:45 PM   
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I would not call it a fetish for myself, but I like being tied up with silk ties (just tried this for the first time about a week ago...smiles)

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RE: silk scarves - 7/1/2006 1:53:48 PM   
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being tied or being gagged with scarves sub or dom is so erotic!

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RE: silk scarves - 7/1/2006 3:41:37 PM   
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i love being tied with silk scarves, the feel of them against me as my Dom ties me is so... <shudders> ... and blindfolded and gagged... and.. hmm.

Yes - fetish? Maybe not quite.. but close!


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RE: silk scarves - 7/1/2006 4:05:37 PM   
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While silk ropes can be erotic, there is a risk with silk scarves.  When silk is pulled tight, it can form sharp edges.  People who use scarves should keep this in mind if the bondage envolves struggling

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RE: silk scarves - 7/2/2006 2:24:49 AM   
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mmmmm I agree diamond smiles, to experience a beautiful submissive lady slowly controlling her, pleasuring here as she mews softly on silk experimentally testing her silk binds; thats the most arousing feeling in the world.

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RE: silk scarves - 7/2/2006 7:45:36 AM   
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I wish i would have known this 21 year years ago  *chucklez*

I had this happen to me.  I was experimenting back then, the man i was with used scarves in our scene........a few other things were done, i struggled and then screamed at the top of my lungs to let me go.  The scarves had cut into my wrists...they were not deep cuts, but enough to cause blood and feel like paper cuts.   While i am certainly not opposed to being tied up....screaming at the top of my lungs....being cut....seeing blood......there's a difference between good pain and i'm going to kill you if you don't get this off me right now pain. 

Thanks for reminding us John....

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RE: silk scarves - 7/2/2006 8:03:42 AM   
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I love silk, but the risk from tight silk is too great.  I am not a fan of blood and cuts.  I now go to the fabric department of WalMart and purchase 100% (or as close as I can get) cotton material by the yard and cut it in 2 inch strips.  I wet them down then I tie them snugly but not tightly.  Since cotton shrinks, the bonds become tighter as the material dries.  If you tie knots, they become virtually impossible to untie.  Keep a pair of scissors handy just in case.  This has always been an interesting thing for me to do as people seem genuinely suprised that the bonds became so tight they had to be cut off...Usually they are perplexed as to why I wet them in the first place.  It serves as a mild mindf**k.

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RE: silk scarves - 7/2/2006 8:07:55 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: smilezz
Thanks for reminding us John....

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I'm not the "safety police," but I think people should be aware of risks.

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RE: silk scarves - 7/2/2006 9:05:53 AM   
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I absolutely agree, and did not mean to insinuate you were the "Saftey Police".

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RE: silk scarves - 7/2/2006 9:11:03 AM   
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ORIGINAL: smilezz

I absolutely agree, and did not mean to insinuate you were the "Saftey Police".

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[smile] Didn't think you did.

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RE: silk scarves - 7/2/2006 2:15:59 PM   
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In a first meeting with a long-time play partner and dear friend, he had bought about 8 scarves of various fabrics and textures, and, with me blindfolded, ran them sensuously over my body, everywhere.  It was one of the most erotic experiences I've ever had.

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