BitaTruble
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ORIGINAL: AdoraDonna Hi. I've run into couple of profiles and had talks with mistresses and masters who referred to themselves in third person. For example "you will do what master tells you" not "you will do what I tell you". In my online conversation/chat/message experience I had/have with people when someone talks in that indirect way it's ussualy some kind of dodging going on. Either person is uncomfortable in direct conversation with me, hides something, feeling insecure, character or his/her role not fully developed(and I can sometimes be too much of a straight to the point piercing arrow going for what I see not what I'm suppose to see) and things like that. But I saw few ones that are very secure about what they are saying, have clear conversation with no un-neded words included, not quoting something, not doing daddy talk like "daddy will show you good time" not any kind of roleplay going on at that moment, no reason I can sense why is that so.. But they still use some form of 3rd person from time to time and it apperas to me that it's somehow easier for them to explain/talk something if they refer to their actions, roles, situations etc. in 3rd person. For example "if you don't do as you are told master will punish you" or similar "if slave doesn't do as told master will punish it" Any ideas Why is that? I'm interested in finding out what triggers that talking (and/or switching) to 3rd person so any insight would help, thank you. It's likely something simple.. perhaps just a way to separate out the parts of a complex personality of a standard human when you are exploring things that aren't exactly mainstream or might squick a folk or two including yourself or maybe just because someone is embarrassed by the activity/life choices they enjoy. As I've grown older and more and more comfortable in my own skin, it has become easier to accept and embrace all the different facets of my personality and character, both good and bad so I don't have much of a need to keep things separate but I can certainly see why people would and do. If it were me, I would guess it would be something along these lines: Master can beat me, hurt me and I can curse him and hate him for what is going on in the moment.. and when that moment is done, the crying is over and pain has stopped, Michael can hold me, love me and comfort me because 'he' didn't do all those terrible/wonderful things.. "Master" did them. If there is any guilt for the hurt/pain caused, "Master" holds it.. Michael gets to let it go. The 3rd person could just be something to help keep things separate and .. unequal. The other thing is, some folks just like to do it so, cool for them and I would say go for it if it makes you happy. eta: Opps.. should have read to the end of the thread. I see you found your answer.
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