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TigressLily -> RE: Switch and a sub (10/23/2013 8:57:35 PM)
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Didn't catch the CD in your user name right off the bat, so about half of my suggestions went out the window (including facesitting/Queening while he's in bed restraints [&:] ).
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ORIGINAL: sallycdsub
Hi, i need some advice, my friend is a switch and i love his Dom side but he wants me to Dom him but i am sub only and find that hard to do, any ideas?
Honestly, as DarkSteven has already inquired, you really need to be more specific. I'll hazard a guess that since you refer to him as your 'friend' and you're a bi-sub trans, he wants you to Top him during play. He is a switch and that would go with the territory, the trading off as play partners. He's not looking to get into a serious D/s relationship with you, I take it.
Take turns with OTK spanking for starters. Unless you're both more into getting tied up with ropes (parachute cord), put him in bed restraints spread-eagled with a blindfold eyemask on; I prefer a cleave gag to a ballgag but that's up to you. Try feather tickling, then proceed with Orgasm Tease & Denial, Edging, Ruined Orgasm. If he has an "accident," employ funishment of (both) your choice(s). I always do Wax & Ice Play together.
You don't have to answer, but does he ever orally service you? Has he hinted, or is this something he might be wanting to try but won't unless you're Topping (by "forcing") him? Does he want you to use a riding crop, cane or whip on him? Do you have a St. Andrews Cross or facsimile for you to give him a light flogging? You're going to have to narrow this down for us unless he's being vague and expects you to read his mind, in which case that's uncool. Sit down with him and have a detailed conversation. Ask yourself this, what do you enjoy doing the most as a bottom? That is probably the Play or types of kinks he is seeking to experience. Make sure you get yours, however things between you turn out, and bon chance.
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