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ORIGINAL: MariaB

I'm probably the only one watching the video here. Curiosity got the better of me but then I love getting my sub to swallow a dildo and I have been known to be quite forceful.

In the video she is using a fairly rigid silicone dildo which is thick and long. She does however, hold the dildo half way up and so its not going too deep into the girls throat. What its actually doing is hitting the back roof of her mouth and its just enough to make her eyes water. The thing about a thick rigid dildo is, the girl will allow it in so far and then bite down on it, which is what was happening here and that's why a guy shouldn't be tempted to do this with his own dick!

I thought the girl was too rough, a bit messy with it but the thing that concerned me most was, at one point she has her arm wrapped round the girls throat from behind whilst ramming the dildo in her mouth. It was this position I once found myself in during a play fight (minus the dildo) and the result was me being rushed on a bluey to the emergency room whilst fitting and unconscious.

I think forced cock sucking (dildo deep throating) is hot, so long as its done carefully. I didn't get the impression in the video though, that this woman really knew what she was doing.

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ORIGINAL: BecomingV

First Do No Harm

Movies are full of trickery. Camera angles change perspective. Knives and needles retract (and a dildo may deflate). Appearances are manipulated. When dangers are faced, stunt people plan and test and plan and practice - for safety.

IMO, a "true" top or Dom/me, experiences the receiving end of things before inflicting the same on another.

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ORIGINAL: MaleBitchLA

Do these techniques work if the male is not "eager" to be deep throated yet trained anyway?

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ORIGINAL: UllrsIshtar
Quickly forcing and object down a person's throat who isn't an expect at controlling those muscles will result in one thing, and one thing alone: vomiting.

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ORIGINAL: indian26maleuk

The dildo will be flexible.. but my point is if they did it in the porn movie for a few mins. it should be fine? just wondering if anyone had had done this fantasy? maybe ramming it to the point where she cant speak is overkill but to start a rough fantasy off maybe not?

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ORIGINAL: MasterRazz

[Skipping past the "how could you do such a thing" stuff ...]

It's called face fucking (or throat fucking if you prefer) and it requires a bit of skill, time and effort to pull it off. For a start don't think you're going to be able to "brutalise" your girl from day 1 like the porn stars do UNLESS you're willing to see the inside of an Accident & Emergency room and explain some things to doctors and possibly the police!

Find a soft silicone dildo. It needs to be flexible and (realistically) you're looking at 5 inches length and a thin diameter to start with.

Start practicing slowly. This can be a fun way to assert your dominance over your partner as they're going to be learning something and you get to push their physical limits.

Watch the gag reflex. That's the body's way of saying "please get this out of me". Your girl will learn how to control it and overcome it with time.

Your first target is to deep throat it, so that's get the dildo down her throat so she can hold it there.

Second target is to get her to take it in and out of her throat a couple or three times, so a gentle fucking action. She needs to learn how to lubricate her throat so that the dildo doesn't catch or start to cause damage.

Then you can start to gradually build up pace and duration.

It can be incredibly good fun to train someone to do this, incredibly satisfying when finally silicone is replaced with something organic and a wonderful addition to the repertoire of tricks and games to play.

BUT ...

DO NOT think she's going to get face fucked until she can't speak. That's both dangerous and stupid.

Otherwise have fun.

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ORIGINAL: Steelslilbit

I love this answer.