Focus50 -> RE: Dominant men recieving strap-on sex? (11/30/2013 3:19:56 AM)
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ORIGINAL: Miyani I hate to be the dissenting voice (not really), but here's my take: There's really no such thing as a submissive position. Just a submissive mindset. If you command your girl to use a toy on you in a way that pleases you, even if it's phallic looking, and even if it goes in your ass, how does that make you the submissive? It may make you the bottom, in the strict sense that you're the receiving party, but there is such a thing as a service sub, isn't there? If you want to watch your girl ride your cock cowgirl style, and tell her to make you come, are you the submissive because she's on top of you? Fuck no. if you want to screw her silly, and pound her until she screams, are you dominant because you're on top of her? Fuck no. You're dominant, and she's submissive, because you're both of a mind that you are the one in control, and she is acting on your wishes. Have fun, man. The prostate is a beautiful thing. And you know how sensitive a piece of flesh can be when it's rarely touched? Right. Go for it. Not positions but perceptions...! Me being one of those doms cursed with principles, well there'll be none of that malarky about ordering my submissive to top me etc. Now you can believe I'm stuck in denial or trapped by my own insecurities blah blah but the simplest truth of all is that I, and doubtless many other doms, simply aren't interested in being the "doee". Doesn't matter how much anyone wants to manipulate the language (or their partner), the old but still very true adage goes "actions speak louder than words", NOT the other way round. Focus.
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