orgasmdenial12 -> RE: Dominant men recieving strap-on sex? (12/1/2013 9:53:42 AM)
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ORIGINAL: RedMagic1 I've seen some femdom writings talking about a vagina engulfing a penis, trying to make the act of devouring someone else's member a dominant act -- in contrast to what I think most people's kneejerk reaction is, that penetrating is dominant and being penetrated is sub. And there are certainly men who want an aggressive woman to sweep them away sexually. But I think that's the minority, and most vanilla women, as well as sub women, see penetration as a take-charge act. I don't see penis / vaginal sex as submissive - I see it as vanilla and equal - and yes, sometimes dominant, if I'm on top and I'm in control (which is why I don't like being on top). But anal sex, for me, is always submissive. No matter how much I do it - it's overwhelming, it's a little bit ouchy at times, it feels invasive, it's not as easy as regular sex - nothing about it tells me that I am in charge here. With the proliferation of sub and switch men pretending to be Dom, if a partner asked me to do it, I would consider it not dominant, and I would decline future participation with them.
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