RedMagic1
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A while back, a femdom pitched me something similar. She was looking to make real a cuckolding scene, but without intercourse. She knew I had taken massage classes, and asked me if I would sub to her as an alpha slave. Her primary would be in the room, restrained perhaps, and I would serve her, massage, body worship maybe, other stuff, and she would moan about how I was so much better at touching her than her primary partner, he was so worthless compared to me. I thought the idea was pretty hot. Anyway, that seems to be the general ballpark of what you're asking for. I'll say this. I've done a fair amount of kink with women in (open) vanilla marriages, or with partners who swing one way but not the other when she wants to get switchy. And, I have to say, I'm probably done with it. It's sensation without deeper emotion. Or the deeper emotion comes to the surface and things get dramatic or unethical. I've had to walk away from things before because they started fine, and ended up threatening to violate my morals. I can't be the only man who came to this conclusion, after similar experiences. So I think you've got a bit of a unicorn hunt on your hands, if you want to find a regular play partner. If all you want is a one-time scene, your best bet might be to pay someone.
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