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DauphinDior -> RE: Does one believe you can have true love in the lifestyle ? (12/21/2013 10:22:10 AM)
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Love isn't a real, tangible thing. It's a bit skewed from Cleopatra to Sinatra, eh? But you can find whatever you want, especially something that you as a person have to define for yourself. It might seem skewed online, but I've met plenty of people dominant and submissive to know they have feelings somewhere.
You know, you get to define the whole love thing for yourself. For me, divorced, it's looking back at little things like watching a shitty movie and remembering it 10 years later. I don't remember the movie, but I remember who I was "dancing" with if you will. I don't think specific activities or even fetishes change whether or not "love" happens.
Like I said, love isn't like gravity: it's not one, real thing that tugs or pulls at you from afar.. Love is something we make and mold in our heads for ourselves. It's a delusion, but a great one, so we all buy into a piece of it. Don't tell yourself that desire is going to change what you can feel and perceive.
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