eulero83 -> RE: End ABSTINANCE "education"! ( Since it's not science and all... ) (1/3/2014 2:52:54 PM)
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ORIGINAL: DesideriScuri "Age of consent" doesn't necessarily mean that a person has matured enough to be an adult. Moving on from that, who is responsible for a pregnancy stemming from two people who aren't ready to deal with the potential consequences of sex? This is where the "personal responsibility" thing comes in. I want my boys to be ready to deal with a pregnancy before engaging in the activity that could result in a pregnancy. They don't have to be materially set for life, or be married, or have the nursery all ready to go. The responsibilities that go along with a pregnancy are such that I want my boys to be mature enough to handle them. This is one area too many men in the US weren't raised properly, imo. I went to school with a gal that had a son out of wedlock. She has raised the boy (to this point) alone and without any help from the father. From my point of view, that is a failing on his part. If my boys get a girl pregnant, I expect them to be supportive and involved in the results of that fertilization (while I hope they don't choose to abort, I will expect them to be supportive in that process, too, if it is the one chosen). Perhaps you're okay with your kid getting pregnant (or getting a girl pregnant) and dealing with the consequences yourself. That's great; for you. I'd rather one of my kids not put me, his mom, her mom/dad, or families in that situation. I expect my sons to accept the responsibilities of their actions. That doesn't mean I won't help them through tough times, but it does mean I'd rather them be ready for the responsibility and have reasoned their actions out ahead of time. Age of consent means you understand what you are doing, so you are not to be trated like a pet when it comes to sex. And from my experience and the one of all the people my age I know, I'm aware you can avoid a pregnancy even without practising abstinence with effective birth control methods, so if I'll have kids I won't be so naive to suppose they won't have sex before marriage, so if I'll have a daugther paying for her contraceptive pill, I'll be more warried when they will begin to drive. If a pregnancy will occuor than than yes I'll give them all the help I can, but with proper birth control use it is not so easy to get a pregnancy.
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