njlauren -> RE: End ABSTINANCE "education"! ( Since it's not science and all... ) (12/26/2013 5:07:56 PM)
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The best form of sex ed is probably what is known as abstinence plus, where they stress that sex is a very important thing, that it has consequences, emotional and physical, and that it is best to wait until you feel you are mature enough to handle it. With abstinence plus, they also give kids real information about sex, about birth control methods, and about how STD's are spread, and it is all done with scientific backing, not moral teaching of the bible or demonizing sex, but rather that sex is a powerful thing that has responsibilities with it. The abstinence portion gets kids to thinking, rather than being the Reefer madness of the abstinence only, God will get you if you have sex before marriage that is taught in the hookworm belt, and the rest helps them hopefully prepare if they do decide to have sex. They won't, as is common with abstinence only kids, think condoms are ineffective (in one state's program, might have been louisiana, they claimed condoms failed 50% of the time, which is ludicrous), or claim having sex before marriage causes severe psychological problems and other drivel....kids who have knowledge understand having oral or anal sex has its risks and is sex, same as vaginal sex, whereas the ones who had the bible based morality thrown at them, think being virginal in the vagina is the key thing (note: being good ole Christian thinking, it is the woman who is soiled by sex, boys are nod nod wink wink, since you don't know if they are a virgin). The problem with abstinence isn't that it doesn't work to help prevent STD's or pregnancy, it is that stressing it or thumping the bible doesn't prevent people from having sex, pure and simple, if 90% of the people are not virgins when they get married, how is abstinence effective in preventing possibilities of pregnancy or STD's? Whereas sex ed that stressed facts and responsibility works even if the person starts having sex, something you can't say for biblical morality or thumping the bible.
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