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RE: Sub Side without Submission - 1/21/2014 12:35:41 AM

pg4g

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Thanks guys,

I guess my interest in a label was more so 1. I don't feel so... alone. There are others out there like me, and 2. So if in future I was to look for someone, I'd know what to call myself so they'd know what they were getting into.

From what you guys have said, kinkster or switch both seem appropriate. The issue I had was the fact that my interest doesn't include any submission itself. All consensual non-consent.

My internal monologue went:
"I think I'm a switch cos I love controlling and I have a nagging need to be controlled. But a switch is a Dom and Sub, and I'm not willingly submissive - I need to be forced to do this, to get my own needs met. Am I still a switch if I'm not submissive but just need to be dominated against my will?"

I guess I got my answer: switch or kinkster. Both I think do really fit. Thanks everyone for your responses.

(in reply to phoenixchild)