Why don't women ask for face sitting (as opposed to cunnilingus) more often (akin to fellatio)?

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Why don't women ask for face sitting (as opposed to cun... - 1/1/2014 10:35:02 AM

Ilyrium

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EDIT:
Apologies for what turned out to be a long initial description - I'm trying to get ideas from you to distinguish the differences and analogies between a blowjob (i.e., fellatio, which seems perfectly natural) and face sitting (i.e., cunnilingus).
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It's really hard to pose the delicacy of what I'm wondering - so - assume the context is that I, as a vanilla guy all my life, have been getting blowjobs since day one - which seems as natural as breathing.

Likewise, I've been, on top, providing cunnilingus to a mostly passive lady (until the wiggling starts in earnest), where she is basically lying on her back as I lap at the buds tucked in, almost hidden amongst the furry flower petals.

But, I've never been exposed to, until recently, face sitting.
Nobody has ever asked.

Face sitting - to me - of which I am still a virgin - seems more of a "female dominated" version of a ponytail blowjob (where you grab her hair and you do the pushing for her from the back of her head).

This push-her-head-from-the-back approach to fellatio seems, to me, the equivalent of face sitting (where in face sitting, the man is prostrate on the floor, and the lady essentially gyrates above his face to her satisfaction).

This seems, today, so natural a position - I wonder why nobody ever asked me to allow them to face sit me before.

Thinking all the way back to puberty, I admit that cunnilingus was at first unwilling and, initially at my (first) girlfriend's (multiple) request. In fact, it took me a month or two of persuasion - as a young teen - to get used to the (dirty) idea (we didn't have the Internet in those days to help us understand such things prior to actually trying them out in the flesh).

Roughly all through high school, it was on request only - but - by college days, spending time at the Y became as natural as a connoisseur learns how to heartily experience an earthy red wine, each with their own bouquet, legs, color, and taste that is unmatched by another.

But, I've never been faced sat. Nor had I ever been asked.

At least I'd never been asked to perform cunnilingus as how I now envision face sitting to be, which is more of a D/s position (to me), than what I would consider (from my experience with the ladies that I knew) to be a typical vanilla sexual experience.

Fast forward to today (and add the Internet), and, I have (rather erotic) visions of face sitting, starting from those highly erotic Namio-style drawings and leading up to the full-bound golden nectar versions of D/s play.

Being of a logical mind and body, I start to wonder why I've missed out on face sitting all my life - and - the answer - seems to be - that, naturally, it hadn't occurred to me - and - culturally - nobody asked before.

Which gets me wondering.
Why don't women ask for face sitting more often?
Isn't it as natural as the equivalent of a blowjob?

< Message edited by Ilyrium -- 1/1/2014 10:38:47 AM >