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kalikshama -> RE: What is it about vaginal or anal penetration that people enjoy? (1/14/2014 4:49:16 AM)
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I already realize clitoral stimulation must be a key factor
Not for me - intercourse does not stimulate my clit the way I need to orgasm.
This is what I like about penetration, with anal indeed having the extra psychological kink:
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ORIGINAL: orgasmdenial12
Penetration, for me, has always seemed like and felt like an act of dominance over me, and I like being dominated. I know it's not very feminist (and I like feminism) but even when I did it as vanilla, it still felt like an act of submission for me. There is something freakishly wonderful about one person having a hole that another person is meant to fit parts of their body into, it's very intimate.
As for the physical part, it gives me that whole-pelvis feeling of tingly pleasure, like when you see someone you really fancy, and they come on to you and you get that blast of arousal throughout your pelvis and lower belly. Sex is like that feeling, but constant, and escalating.
Finally, there is the cock part. I find that the skin and flesh of cock is like nothing else on the planet - not like fingers or a toy, it directly transmits its own sense of pleasure to anything touching it, so that, as I am being pleasured, I can literally feel the pleasure of its owner and that's amazing. To have one in the most sensitive parts of me is literally the greatest pleasure on earth, for me. Then orgasm - once again, I know it's not very feminist, but I can only see being ejaculated into as an act of dominance over me and because I like being dominated, I like the feeling of it, and I like stickiness afterwards.
Anal is very similar to all of this, but there is an added dimension of pain and fear that feeds into the feeling of being dominated and of having to submit to something.
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