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RE: What is it about vaginal or anal penetration that p... - 1/15/2014 7:41:09 AM   
Greta75


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I was surprised that a woman could FEEL the semen squirting.
Is this common?

Depending, sometimes when a guy shoots really hard, I can feel his semen squirting through his condom too.

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RE: What is it about vaginal or anal penetration that p... - 1/15/2014 1:45:55 PM   
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e.g., ever since I was a child, penetration was something to be abhored, as witnessed by, for example, drop-the-bar-of-soap locker-room jokes


Well.....those jokes are about rape not consensual penetration.

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RE: What is it about vaginal or anal penetration that p... - 1/15/2014 1:51:05 PM   
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I am happiest if he cums inside me, and tells me as he's about to because that is guaranteed to send me over the edge.


Wow. Just wow!


Maybe it is a sub thing...that power...that surge..being held down and entered. I love when a man holds my wrists and I can't move!
I am with Needles..there IS something about having a man cum inside and the whole "bareback" thing. I know it is usually men complaining about condoms..but I would be thrilled if I never had to use another one (yes..I am mature enough & old enough to know the risks always exceed the rewards..so don't lecture! I can fantasize if I want)



I have had fantasies of being held down for sex since I first started having thoughts for myself. my playmate has a 'look' that is aggressive, and sexual that I just love. that with him pinning my wrists, or a hand at my throat as he's about to cum. well my whole world is going to explode.

i'm in a position that he is my only playmate, and has been for over 5 years. I wouldn't put him at risk by going with anyone else. condoms don't protect against everything. I don't want to catch anything, let alone pass anything on to him. this means I also get to feel him cum in me, and yes I mean him actually spurt. I wouldn't want to trade that for a cold, casual fuck with someone else's guy, or someone else carrying god knows what.

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RE: What is it about vaginal or anal penetration that p... - 1/15/2014 1:51:33 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Pyramus
However, I still can wonder, what exactly a woman or man gets (erotically) out of the sensation of penetration, particularly in the anus (where, it can be presumed, there is no clitorus or glans to be stimulated).


The male prostate is very accessible from the anus (which is why doctors stick fingers up there to check it). The enjoyable sensation of the male orgasm comes from spasms of the PC muscle stimulating the prostate. So in light of that information perhaps it's a bit more clear why some men would find manual stimulation of the prostate enjoyable.

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RE: What is it about vaginal or anal penetration that p... - 1/15/2014 4:16:56 PM   
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RE: What is it about vaginal or anal penetration that p... - 1/15/2014 5:34:27 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Greta75

For women, those who enjoy vaginal penetration, is because they get orgasms.
For women, those who enjoy anal penetration, is because they get orgasms.
For Men, the only way for them to experience female-like multiple orgasms, is through anal penetration.

Simple.



I would just add to that....who fucking cares what anyone else experiences?

If it floats your boat....do more of it.

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RE: What is it about vaginal or anal penetration that p... - 1/15/2014 7:31:00 PM   
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I once asked a gal who said she loved the WARMTH that she felt when I came inside of her.

I was surprised that a woman could FEEL the semen squirting.

Is this common?


Yes. We're not numb inside.


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RE: What is it about vaginal or anal penetration that p... - 1/15/2014 11:10:30 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Ilyrium

I once asked a gal who said she loved the WARMTH that she felt when I came inside of her.

I was surprised that a woman could FEEL the semen squirting.

Is this common?


Hmm, well I can't speak for anyone else, but I can, somewhat. I suppose it's that there's suddenly something more there. I can't feel any difference with or without a condom before that point, though.

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RE: What is it about vaginal or anal penetration that p... - 1/17/2014 5:58:41 AM   
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Status: offline 		For vaginal penetration, I don't have to have an orgasm to enjoy it. It feels good. The fact that he's enjoying it makes me happy. And yes, I can usually feel his build-up and release which a lot of times does send me over the edge.

I've never orgasmed from anal alone but I still enjoy it. It's a good pain and sometimes I just crave it. And again, I enjoy the fact that he's getting off.

Some things just feel good and there's no other explanation than that. My back doesn't usually hurt but a massage always feels good.

I have never enjoyed condoms (of course, I have always used them when necessary), and vaginal penetration was always better without it. It doesn't feel the same and the thought of his semen being inside me has always turned me on. There have been a few times where condoms were necessary for birth control only and not available and in the heat of the moment continued on. Those moments I recall being even more turned on by the thought (of course this is how our #2 pregnancy came to be). So, maybe it is really a biological thing, for me, and my brain only thinks about the semen inside and less about the hole it's in. Of course, when I'm in the moment I don't usually think much past "oh god, this feels good."

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RE: What is it about vaginal or anal penetration that p... - 1/17/2014 6:59:26 AM   
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my brain only thinks about the semen inside and less about the hole it's in.


This is very interesting as that semen is very powerful and can affect the next 20 years of your life!

I once traced where it goes, and, it seems it eventually goes inside the abdominal cavity (based on my look at the female anatomy diagrams) after the fallopian tubes, so it goes truly "deep".

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RE: What is it about vaginal or anal penetration that p... - 1/17/2014 7:25:59 AM   
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Status: offline 		No, it pretty much runs out afterwards, lol. That's where wet spots come from. The sperm themselves swim like the devil is chasing them, and in all different directions. Some swim back out, others sideways, forward, in circles bumping up against each other. Some actually make it into the uterus, and on into both fallopian tubes, and maybe into the abdominal cavity, if they don't have a chance encounter with an egg. Some might make it out the tubes and into the abdominal cavity, but they die and get absorbed by the body.

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RE: What is it about vaginal or anal penetration that p... - 1/17/2014 9:20:51 AM   
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Status: offline 		What I enjoy the most is that I can't orgasm from prostate stimulation alone. It gets to the point where I feel like I am about to, but it never goes beyond that, keeps me stuck right on the edge which I love.

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RE: What is it about vaginal or anal penetration that p... - 1/17/2014 12:19:40 PM   
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The sperm themselves swim like the devil is chasing them, and in all different directions.


Mine don't. They're British, so they form an orderly queue and wait patiently for the next bus.

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RE: What is it about vaginal or anal penetration that p... - 1/17/2014 12:34:15 PM   
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The sperm themselves swim like the devil is chasing them, and in all different directions.


Mine don't. They're British, so they form an orderly queue and wait patiently for the next bus.


For some reason Monty Pythons "The Meaning of Life" Zulu war skit flashed before my eyes.

Go figure
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RE: What is it about vaginal or anal penetration that p... - 1/17/2014 2:14:27 PM   
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RE: What is it about vaginal or anal penetration that p... - 1/17/2014 6:39:25 PM   
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The sperm themselves swim like the devil is chasing them, and in all different directions.


Mine don't. They're British, so they form an orderly queue and wait patiently for the next bus.


When I was in school a jillion years ago taking anatomy & physiology, I had a wonderful and very colorful professor. He described the sperm lined up in the tubule hallways with towels thrown over their shoulders, waiting for the coach to blow the whistle before they jumped into the pool, lol.

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RE: What is it about vaginal or anal penetration that p... - 1/17/2014 7:26:09 PM   
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the sperm lined up in the tubule hallways with towels thrown over their shoulders, waiting for the coach to blow the whistle before they jumped into the pool, lol.



http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4UxWKjYvxg4

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RE: What is it about vaginal or anal penetration that p... - 1/17/2014 7:45:11 PM   
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lFgo9J_MRng&list=RDdjQ7WZlb140

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RE: What is it about vaginal or anal penetration that p... - 1/18/2014 5:22:49 AM   
GotSteel


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ORIGINAL: Pyramus
I once traced where it goes, and, it seems it eventually goes inside the abdominal cavity (based on my look at the female anatomy diagrams) after the fallopian tubes, so it goes truly "deep".


Here's an instructional video game: http://www.kongregate.com/games/johnnytwoshoes/the-great-sperm-race

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