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RE: What is it about vaginal or anal penetration that p... - 1/14/2014 12:16:31 AM

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Maybe it is as simple as orgasm.
Nothing more than that.
I had thought it might have been
deeper...

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RE: What is it about vaginal or anal penetration that p... - 1/14/2014 2:04:01 AM

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I just wanted to say that when I'm with a woman that does that quick intake of breath or that terribly sexy involuntary sigh/moan upon penetration, I LOVE HEARING IT. Makes me want to pull out and start over just to hear it again.

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RE: What is it about vaginal or anal penetration that p... - 1/14/2014 4:27:04 AM

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Penetration, for me, has always seemed like and felt like an act of dominance over me, and I like being dominated. I know it's not very feminist (and I like feminism) but even when I did it as vanilla, it still felt like an act of submission for me. There is something freakishly wonderful about one person having a hole that another person is meant to fit parts of their body into, it's very intimate.

For me, it's this, essentially. That, and I like pleasing him. And it feels good for me, too.

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RE: What is it about vaginal or anal penetration that p... - 1/14/2014 4:49:16 AM

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I already realize clitoral stimulation must be a key factor

Not for me - intercourse does not stimulate my clit the way I need to orgasm.

This is what I like about penetration, with anal indeed having the extra psychological kink:

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ORIGINAL: orgasmdenial12

Penetration, for me, has always seemed like and felt like an act of dominance over me, and I like being dominated. I know it's not very feminist (and I like feminism) but even when I did it as vanilla, it still felt like an act of submission for me. There is something freakishly wonderful about one person having a hole that another person is meant to fit parts of their body into, it's very intimate.

As for the physical part, it gives me that whole-pelvis feeling of tingly pleasure, like when you see someone you really fancy, and they come on to you and you get that blast of arousal throughout your pelvis and lower belly. Sex is like that feeling, but constant, and escalating.

Finally, there is the cock part. I find that the skin and flesh of cock is like nothing else on the planet - not like fingers or a toy, it directly transmits its own sense of pleasure to anything touching it, so that, as I am being pleasured, I can literally feel the pleasure of its owner and that's amazing. To have one in the most sensitive parts of me is literally the greatest pleasure on earth, for me. Then orgasm - once again, I know it's not very feminist, but I can only see being ejaculated into as an act of dominance over me and because I like being dominated, I like the feeling of it, and I like stickiness afterwards.

Anal is very similar to all of this, but there is an added dimension of pain and fear that feeds into the feeling of being dominated and of having to submit to something.

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RE: What is it about vaginal or anal penetration that p... - 1/14/2014 5:09:12 AM

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If it were just about orgasms, I'd buy a vibrator lol.

I don't know, orgasms by vibrator is very different from orgasms a man can give you when he works on you. Like a cyberskin dildo still does not have the right texture as a real dick.

Anyway, the funny thing about me commenting on this is that, I do not get orgasm from penetration at all. Never in my life has it ever happened.
But I love penetration, because, it takes me to like 99%, reaching that big O, but never ever going over. And the process of getting there is just as pleasurable. After all, all it take to tip me over is touch the clit, pull a tit, some pain. Easy! Penetration builds it up.

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RE: What is it about vaginal or anal penetration that p... - 1/14/2014 5:14:23 AM

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1. Does an orgasm without penetration feel as satisfying?
2. How does one orgasm from anal sex (doesn't it actually hurt?)

1) I only get orgasms without penetration, so I guess I can't compare. Penetration can't give me orgasms.
2) There are sensitive glands in the anal that can stimulate pleasure. I know at least 2 men with wives who can only orgase through anal penetration, and cannot through vagina penetration or clitoral stimulation. Every woman is different.

I also like having a dick inside of me, while I get my clitoral orgasms, because it's nice to have something squishy but hard inside to clenched on while the waves of orgasms engulfs me. I haven't found a dildo that has replicate the right texture yet, otherwise, I might be able to just do with fake dicks.

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RE: What is it about vaginal or anal penetration that p... - 1/14/2014 11:13:40 AM

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Penetration scares me.

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RE: What is it about vaginal or anal penetration that p... - 1/14/2014 12:21:35 PM

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Its ooey, its gooey, and it feels so good!

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RE: What is it about vaginal or anal penetration that p... - 1/14/2014 2:16:59 PM

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if I masturbate I don't use any penetration at all. vibrators annoy me. I use my fingers on my clit, and have amazing orgasms. however, they are never going to be as satisfying as a man fucking me....well as long as he knows what he's doing. when he's get his cock in me I don't need clitoral stimulation at all.

I'm with others in that it's kind of a dominance thing for him to enter me. that pressure of him as he's about to enter me is the sweetest of torture. It feels so amazing that I want him to stay there, but it's also driving me mad because I want him in me. there is nothing that can be put in me that can replace a cock, and feel as good.

I don't have to cum, although I want to, but I do want him to cum. I am happiest if he cums inside me, and tells me as he's about to because that is guaranteed to send me over the edge.

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RE: What is it about vaginal or anal penetration that p... - 1/14/2014 3:45:11 PM

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I am happiest if he cums inside me, and tells me as he's about to because that is guaranteed to send me over the edge.

Wow. Just wow!

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RE: What is it about vaginal or anal penetration that p... - 1/14/2014 5:18:17 PM

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ORIGINAL: Galacia

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I am happiest if he cums inside me, and tells me as he's about to because that is guaranteed to send me over the edge.

Wow. Just wow!

Maybe it is a sub thing...that power...that surge..being held down and entered. I love when a man holds my wrists and I can't move!
I am with Needles..there IS something about having a man cum inside and the whole "bareback" thing. I know it is usually men complaining about condoms..but I would be thrilled if I never had to use another one (yes..I am mature enough & old enough to know the risks always exceed the rewards..so don't lecture! I can fantasize if I want)

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RE: What is it about vaginal or anal penetration that p... - 1/14/2014 5:39:25 PM

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I'm not so sure that is necessarily a submissive thing. I like to believe that euphoria belongs in the passion category. I have a dominant mate who can and does physically overpower me every time our passion is heightened, I wouldn't want it any other way. At those times, I want him to devour me completely. I get no greater pleasure in knowing that my aggressive nature feeds his.

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RE: What is it about vaginal or anal penetration that p... - 1/14/2014 6:02:51 PM

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The thing I like about both anal and vaginal penetration is the little jolt of pain at his deepest. And the more he does it, the more I love it.

And yes I can climax from both anal and vaginal. I can give myself amazing orgasms , but penetration is a whole other element....
Some of the enjoyment is from having things inside me move that aren't normally touched.

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RE: What is it about vaginal or anal penetration that p... - 1/14/2014 6:10:25 PM

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For Men, the only way for them to experience female-like multiple orgasms, is through anal penetration.

Really? I never knew that before.

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RE: What is it about vaginal or anal penetration that p... - 1/14/2014 7:23:20 PM

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What I like about it is that I know it feels good for the man I'm with, and gives him the opportunity for total control of the situation. Sure, he can take a break and have me on top if he wants, but he doesn't have to. I feel like he's using my body like a toy for his own pleasure, and I LOVE that. He could use his own hand while looking at any porn he wanted, but he chose to look at and use me instead. Huge ego boost. It also hurts a little bit, not enough to feel awful but enough to notice, which really enhances the his-plaything feeling.

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RE: What is it about vaginal or anal penetration that p... - 1/14/2014 7:35:33 PM

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I guess I'm just greedy. Having sex for me has nothing to do with pleasing him (although I always enjoy pleasing him) or him holding me down or feeling excited when he comes in me. I just like the orgasm. He just knows all the right spots and nerves to hit in just the right way.

I guess that's why casual sex was always so easy for me when I was young. I didn't have to be in love, I didn't have to even know his name. As long as I was getting off, that's all that I cared. If he did too, great. If he didn't, that was his problem, not mine.

Now I'm not saying it's that way with Master. I've grown older and now I'm even greedier. I want it all.

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RE: What is it about vaginal or anal penetration that p... - 1/14/2014 8:00:40 PM

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I guess I'm just greedy. Having sex for me has nothing to do with pleasing him (although I always enjoy pleasing him) or him holding me down or feeling excited when he comes in me. I just like the orgasm. He just knows all the right spots and nerves to hit in just the right way.

I guess that's why casual sex was always so easy for me when I was young. I didn't have to be in love, I didn't have to even know his name. As long as I was getting off, that's all that I cared. If he did too, great. If he didn't, that was his problem, not mine.

^^ Ditto this

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RE: What is it about vaginal or anal penetration that p... - 1/15/2014 3:52:21 AM

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For Men, the only way for them to experience female-like multiple orgasms, is through anal penetration.

Really? I never knew that before.

See, Peon, you CAN learn something new every day!

and this factoid was your tidbit for the day............................................

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RE: What is it about vaginal or anal penetration that p... - 1/15/2014 3:55:40 AM

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Did I mention that I love the feeling of abrupt fullness, over and over again? Especially from anal?

Even when I know I'm not going to come again, I love the feeling of the mechanical action (from his penis). As long as I'm wet, or the lube lasts, I'm good to go for quite a while, without orgasms.

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RE: What is it about vaginal or anal penetration that p... - 1/15/2014 4:25:42 AM

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I once asked a gal who said she loved the WARMTH that she felt when I came inside of her.

I was surprised that a woman could FEEL the semen squirting.

Is this common?

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