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ORIGINAL: ThePrincessKali
When I was I school my Professors would of known if I handed in a paper or project that wasn't my own because it would have a completely different tone.

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ORIGINAL: graceadieu
I'm guessing it's basically findomme/pro-domme for people (college students or recent graduates) who don't have any money.

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ORIGINAL: MalcolmNathaniel

It seems backwards to me.

Isn't the Dom/me supposed to teach the submissive? The submissive doing homework while the dom/me remains ignorant seems.....opposite.

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ORIGINAL: FriendlyMuppet

I'm a college professor and some years back while I was new to teaching at a university, I remember one of my students discovering my lifestyle and then getting the idea that it might be fun to force me into giving her good grades and essentially become her homework slave. While I'm almost always submissive in most relationships with women, this was probably the one time I halted all attempts to move this forward as I realized that it was completely inappropriate. When I informed her of this, she actually got all upset and tried to escalate it further to my administration (which I had already informed of before I ever responded to her initial email she had sent, basically covering my behind beforehand). It was an awful situation that didn't get any better, and if my administration hadn't been as open minded as they were, it probably could have derailed my career.

I mention this because there are people out there who treat this sort of activity as some kind of fantasy, and over the years I've actually read a lot of "fantasies" of this where young girls blackmail their professors and then it's treated as some huge dominating thing (the English kind of go full steam on this fantasy and some of their Victoria and Domina magazines over the years used to make a real bdsm fantasy out of this concept). It's why I mention it because for a lot of people it's still a huge fantasy, but it should be pointed out that the fantasy is basically very nonconsentual, yet it still shows up and guys keep asking about it, as if it should be okay because it gets them sexually excited.

It's part of why I no longer associate my regular identity with my bdsm identity any more. For those who already know me as a lifestyle submissive, I am fine with them knowing all about me, but they're usually not the kind of crowd that buys into this sort of blackmail thing. What I've discovered is that this usually comes from people who are outsiders of the lifestyle, sort of peeking in, yet convinced because they saw it on the Internet, they're somehow experts on it, kind of like the women on the profile side of these boards who purport to be financial doms, yet most people looking at their profiles can tell they have absolutely no experience being dominants.