sunshinemiss
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ORIGINAL: RedMagic1 I haven't read her other posts, but this thread makes me think something different: that she has accepted, maybe even desired, being an object, a piece on the side, for years, and is just now saying, "Hey, maybe I want more." It's not clear to me how any of that is the guy's fault. Sounds like this is right on the money.... and yes I've read the whole thread. To the OP: All of this doesn't mean he's a bad guy. He just doesn't want anything from you except a little slap and tickle and fucking. Nothing wrong with that. If it's not what you want, and it appears it isn't, it is YOUR decision whether to accept it. I've interacted with AMAZING, WONDERFUL men who simply didn't want a relationship with me beyond a little slap and tickle. In the past it was what I wanted too - a person to just have a bit of physical fun with. At that point in time, if any of my AMAZING, WONDERFUL men who just wanted some fun had been around, that's what we'd have done. And I would have been quite content with it. Today, I simply want something different. Today, I want the whole enchilada. I am unwilling to settle for less than that. So... now you have to decide. Are you willing to settle for something you don't want or are you willing to leave and look for - and create - a relationship that meets your personal criteria? good luck, sunshine
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Yes, I am a wonton hussy... and still sweet as 3.14
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