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A new life, indeed - 1/30/2014 7:53:03 AM   
NuevaVida


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So you might know that almost 5 years ago I was hanging out, enjoying life as a single woman, not at all interested in a relationship. I pretty much ignored all Cmail from guys on the other side. And I almost ignored one in particular, but it was so politely written it warranted a reply. So I replied.

What started as an occasional Cmail turned into regular personal emails which turned into nightly phone calls which turned into an amazing first date. I swear to God the first time I saw him my knees went weak, and the first time he kissed me my eyes welled up. I felt like every path in life I had taken had led me straight to him. Cheesy, but hey.

We spent the next nearly 5 years driving up and down the freeway every weekend and a few weeknights in between, juggling his two jobs, his daughter, my job, my aging mother, deaths in the family, health issues, and anything else that came at us. Together we found joy in our shared love of music, food, wine, art & wine festivals, movies, etc.

I spent the first year or so convinced I could take it or leave it, and that I’d only stick around as long as we were happy. We actually did have a short break a couple of winters ago (in my mind we split up, in his mind I was still his…to which I laugh and say, Ross Gellar style, “We were on a break!!”)

In time it was pretty clear to me I was (am) in this for the long haul…and I let my guard down, and I trusted, and I came to love fully, and to stop being so self protective with him.

Two weeks ago we left our separate homes and merged into our new home. The move was chaotic, and it’s all a little surreal, but here we are now, together finally.

He is a good man. He loves me. He’s got my back. And I am totally and crazily in love with him.

He’s not a message board kind of guy so you won’t see him posting here, but MasterOfHouse is the love of my life, and we found each other on CollarMe.

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RE: A new life, indeed - 1/30/2014 10:23:22 AM   
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RE: A new life, indeed - 1/30/2014 11:10:44 AM   
SubvsSlave


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Status: offline 		I wish you both continued happiness!!

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RE: A new life, indeed - 1/30/2014 12:23:25 PM   
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Status: offline 		This actually brought tears to my eyes!

I'm so glad you found each other and I hope you have a lifetime of love, friendship and good times together ahead of you.

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RE: A new life, indeed - 1/30/2014 12:28:06 PM   
Tkman117


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Status: offline 		CONGRATS!! Relationships rarely work out on here, very happy to see that one finally did :D

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RE: A new life, indeed - 1/30/2014 12:51:24 PM   
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Status: offline 		Wow. What a great love story. May the joy and love continue!

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RE: A new life, indeed - 1/30/2014 1:43:07 PM   
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Status: offline 		my best to you and the Mister.
when i see your posts, i always think of our missed meeting we had semi-planned many years ago at Folsom.

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RE: A new life, indeed - 1/30/2014 2:54:30 PM   
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Status: offline 		CONGRATS....may what you both feel today last a whole life time more ....so happy for your happiness.

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RE: A new life, indeed - 1/30/2014 8:49:59 PM   
NuevaVida


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Status: offline 		Thank you for the congrats and well wishes.

Everhope I remember that we'll. We were so close to meeting, weren't we?

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RE: A new life, indeed - 1/31/2014 9:09:15 AM   
everhope


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Status: offline 		yes, very close. as crazy as Folsom is we may have even walked by each other in that sea of nakedness.

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RE: A new life, indeed - 1/31/2014 9:24:45 AM   
ChatteParfaitt


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Status: offline 		Congrats and my very best to the both of you. This post made me smile big time.

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RE: A new life, indeed - 2/1/2014 7:16:05 AM   
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Status: offline 		What a charming story of how your relationship developed. Glad to see you merged into one house. Congratulations and best wishes to you both.

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RE: A new life, indeed - 2/1/2014 11:39:19 AM   
NuevaVida


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Status: offline 		everhope, LOL at "sea of nakedness" - no kidding!

Thank you very much for the well wishes, Chatte & RS. Now if I can just teach the cat that Mister's stereo speakers aren't scratching posts....

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RE: A new life, indeed - 2/1/2014 7:44:16 PM   
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Status: offline 		What a wonderful read. I'm so happy for you two! I wish you both as much happiness as you can stand for a very long time.

Allie

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RE: A new life, indeed - 2/1/2014 10:01:21 PM   
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Status: offline 		Congrats. Just when you aren't looking. We are very happy for you both. Another CM love story.

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RE: A new life, indeed - 2/3/2014 9:40:38 PM   
NuevaVida


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Status: offline 		Thank you both

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RE: A new life, indeed - 2/8/2014 3:07:27 PM   
Rawni


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Status: offline 		This really made me smile for you NuevaVida! How wonderful!!!

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RE: A new life, indeed - 2/8/2014 3:09:50 PM   
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Status: offline 		Congratulations to the both of you.

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RE: A new life, indeed - 2/12/2014 1:50:56 PM   
MistressDarkArt


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Status: offline 		Love the success stories! Thanks for sharing, and all the best to you both.

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RE: A new life, indeed - 2/13/2014 6:33:36 PM   
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Status: offline 		How wonderful for you both! Very best wishes to you!

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