Collarchat.com

Join Our Community		 Collarchat.com

Home  Login  Search 

The Perfect Slave


View related threads: (in this forum | in all forums)

Logged in as: Guest
 
All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> Ask a Master >> The Perfect Slave Page: [1] 2   next >   >>
Login
Message << Older Topic   Newer Topic >>
The Perfect Slave - 7/6/2006 11:12:33 AM   
alovingslavegirl


Posts: 10
Joined: 7/6/2006
Status: offline 		Masters,
Can You describe Your perfect slave? What does she like? How does she behave? What is her past like?

Any kind of answer would help me along my quest to better myself.
Thank You.
Profile   Post #: 1
RE: The Perfect Slave - 7/6/2006 11:25:21 AM   
Caretakr


Posts: 1221
Joined: 6/24/2006
Status: offline 		The perfect slave submits to her nature.
She likes to be free to express that.
How she behaves, is a compromise between her personality and her Master's conditioning.

Her past is what brought her to her present. Nothing more. Making that past her focus, is futile.

Those choices she makes in the moment, decide her future.

(in reply to alovingslavegirl)
Profile   Post #: 2
RE: The Perfect Slave - 7/6/2006 11:38:16 AM   
Kinkypupper


Posts: 713
Joined: 9/26/2004
From: Portland oregon
Status: offline 		Her name is lilpony and she wears my collar 24/7 and will do so for the rest of her life and beyond.


_____________________________

Phil Moulton
A Sensual Touch
Locopony Racing
Portland Oregon

(in reply to Caretakr)
Profile   Post #: 3
RE: The Perfect Slave - 7/6/2006 12:19:45 PM   
TxBadMan


Posts: 198
Joined: 4/7/2006
From: Moody, Texas
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: alovingslavegirl

Masters,
Can You describe Your perfect slave? What does she like? How does she behave? What is her past like?

Any kind of answer would help me along my quest to better myself.
Thank You.


I hate to disillusion you, but there is no such thing as ''perfect". On the other hand, if you were to ask 'what is perfect for ME' the answers would be as differnet as night and day.

_____________________________

Chris



(in reply to alovingslavegirl)
Profile   Post #: 4
RE: The Perfect Slave - 7/6/2006 12:23:47 PM   
Padriag


Posts: 2633
Joined: 3/30/2005
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: alovingslavegirl

Masters,
Can You describe Your perfect slave? What does she like? How does she behave? What is her past like?

This is one of those questions that is very difficult to answer because all most can really say is what they personally prefer.  Some like high protocol slaves, others couldn't care less about such protocols.  Some like pain sluts, others don't like to inflict pain at all.  I thought about your question and tried to cut away all my own personal preferences and get to the heart of things, things that would be as close to universally true as possible.  What I came up with is this.

She is obedient, she wants to be pleasing and useful.

I think given just those qualities, any owner could then train such a slave to be what they want, whatever that may be.  But I do not think that any slave would do very well without those qualities.

_____________________________

Padriag

A stern discipline pervades all nature, which is a little cruel so that it may be very kind - Edmund Spencer

(in reply to alovingslavegirl)
Profile   Post #: 5
RE: The Perfect Slave - 7/6/2006 12:43:25 PM   
MasterFireMaam


Posts: 5587
Joined: 3/1/2006
From: Charleston, WV
Status: offline 		girl, you're going to get as many answers to this question as there are people to answer it. Instead, why not look within to see how you can make yourself better, just for the sake of your own personal growth? In doing that, you'll find that your improvement will bring in those who truly appreciate you for you, not for who you want to be or who they project you are.

Master Fire


_____________________________

The power of who we are can be intoxicating. The power of who we could be is humbling.
-----
Ms Relationship Books
-----
BDSM How-To Books

(in reply to alovingslavegirl)
Profile   Post #: 6
RE: The Perfect Slave - 7/6/2006 1:18:57 PM   
LadyHugs


Posts: 2299
Joined: 1/1/2004
Status: offline 		Dear alovingslavegirl, Ladies and Gentlemen;
 
Lass, just walk to a mirror and see yourself as the beautiful loving slave girl you are.
 
You come across a gentle lass, affectionate and pleasing young lady. 
 
Worry not about the body, worry not about what you might assume as perfection of a slave.  The truth is held in your spirit and experience, knowledge and listening to your gut instincts as to what is good and bad is very important.  Be that loving slave girl to yourself first, so that you can be that loving slave girl to a deserving Master/Mistress.
Being honest to yourself first and everything will come in it's proper time and place.
 
Respectfully submitted for consideration,
Lady Hugs
 

(in reply to alovingslavegirl)
Profile   Post #: 7
RE: The Perfect Slave - 7/6/2006 1:31:15 PM   
txpet


Posts: 200
Joined: 4/29/2006
Status: offline 		i'm obviously not a Master but if i may, i would like to add my opinion here.

There is no "perfect slave" and while no one is PERFECT, you can be the "perfect you". you have to know what you want ... and you have to be willing ot do whatever it takes to get what you want.
i know i want Master happy and i will do anything and everything it takes to behave un whatever manner will please Him. He does have to tell me what He finds pleasing, however. i am not a mind reader.
For me to be the perfect slave does not involve finding out what Others want or look for, for me, being the perfect slave is listening and watching Master so i can do as He wishes. Most importantly, being the perfect slave for Master (which of course will nto really ever happen but i continually strive for anyway) involves copious amounts of TRUST ... one thing i have learned is that i trust Master implicitly and easily but that i need to learn to trust that Master *wants* me and enjoys me. It is not learning to trust Master where i have issues so much as it is my own self-value that i have problems with.
So, the "perfect slave" will not dwell on her own issues but learn to let go of them and trust her Master.

Of course, there are other things that i believe are essential, such as honesty, obedience, devotion, dedication ... but al these come easily to me so i did not dwell on them.
::smile::

Just be the most perfect you that you can be and you will find a Master that values *you*. All slaves ahve value but no one else is *you*.

_____________________________

Ken's dirty girl,
txpet jennie

(in reply to alovingslavegirl)
Profile   Post #: 8
RE: The Perfect Slave - 7/6/2006 2:38:04 PM   
Vancouver_cinful


Posts: 1911
Joined: 2/3/2004
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: Caretakr

The perfect slave submits to her nature.
She likes to be free to express that.
How she behaves, is a compromise between her personality and her Master's conditioning.


Wow. Beautifully put, Caretakr. Now, please tell me again why you aren't taking applications at the moment?

::sigh::

_____________________________

Cin

quote:


My Karma Account is huge, but I just can't seem to make a withdrawal!!

http://cinful.wordpress.com

(in reply to Caretakr)
Profile   Post #: 9
RE: The Perfect Slave - 7/6/2006 2:40:17 PM   
Vancouver_cinful


Posts: 1911
Joined: 2/3/2004
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: TxBadMan
I hate to disillusion you, but there is no such thing as ''perfect". On the other hand, if you were to ask 'what is perfect for ME' the answers would be as differnet as night and day.


Actually, that's how I took the question. I was assuming the intent was to see all the flavours of the rainbow, and get a better sense of the possibilities. I could be wrong, but that's how I understood the question.

If you notice, she did say YOUR perfect slave, not THE perfect slave -except in the title.

< Message edited by Vancouver_cinful -- 7/6/2006 2:44:07 PM >

_____________________________

Cin

quote:


My Karma Account is huge, but I just can't seem to make a withdrawal!!

http://cinful.wordpress.com

(in reply to TxBadMan)
Profile   Post #: 10
RE: The Perfect Slave - 7/6/2006 4:45:25 PM   
ownedgirlie


Posts: 9184
Joined: 2/5/2006
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: Caretakr

The perfect slave submits to her nature.
She likes to be free to express that.
How she behaves, is a compromise between her personality and her Master's conditioning.

Her past is what brought her to her present. Nothing more. Making that past her focus, is futile.

Those choices she makes in the moment, decide her future.


Nicely said. One of the first things Master taught me was to focus on the now and not the past.  That was a difficult one.

And I echo Cin.  The OP said YOUR perfect slave....meaning your opinion of what is perfect for you.

(in reply to Caretakr)
Profile   Post #: 11
RE: The Perfect Slave - 7/6/2006 5:39:36 PM   
LokisBrat


Posts: 431
Joined: 12/5/2005
From: Mayberry, Illinois
Status: offline 		Being genuine to yourself is what you need to start with.  By genuine I mean, put forth your inner self and who you really are, versus what someone wants you to be.  When you are pleased with yourself and your actions, your self esteem will be brilliant.  This way you won't have "questions" about the relationship you're in and whether it is benefiting you, as well as whether you are reaching your full potential. 

Most would love the chance to work with this quality.

LOKI


_____________________________

"My pleasure, your pain. Doesn't matter, its all the same"

-Loki

(in reply to ownedgirlie)
Profile   Post #: 12
RE: The Perfect Slave - 7/6/2006 5:49:56 PM   
Tamerofwild1s


Posts: 1765
Joined: 12/5/2004
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: alovingslavegirl

Masters,
Can You describe Your perfect slave? What does she like? How does she behave? What is her past like?

Any kind of answer would help me along my quest to better myself.
Thank You.



this is just my opinion  .... there isno one being perfect save God ..... with that said and done . there is one who is "perfect for me" and I think thats what you were more inclined to ask.
 
to me she is willing to give me all of her ... she gets her greatest pleasure from making sure I have mine .. she completes me as much as I complete her. her past mean nothing as it is our future that means everything ....
 


_____________________________

A building get torched. All that is left is ashes. I used to think that it is true about everything - family, friends, feelings - but now I know that sometimes if love proves real, and two people are meant to be together, nothing can keep them apart ~

(in reply to alovingslavegirl)
Profile   Post #: 13
RE: The Perfect Slave - 7/6/2006 6:31:31 PM   
WetHotGoddess


Posts: 128
Joined: 5/18/2006
Status: offline 		There is no such thing as perfection.  
 
Perfection depends upon what I need at any given time.  To find the submissive who knows instinctively what my mood is, who can "feel" me, and knows my desires at any given time, I think would be perfection. 
 
Now, crawl to your Master, worm!   
 
*winking* 
 
Ariel
 
and for god's sake lighten up, people!  sheesh.. I think half the population of CM has me blocked ALREADY! 

(in reply to alovingslavegirl)
Profile   Post #: 14
RE: The Perfect Slave - 7/6/2006 6:36:03 PM   
Level


Posts: 25145
Joined: 3/3/2006
Status: offline 		She has a powerful need to obey me, and please me.
 
She is gentle and strong; intelligent and curious; she is my comedic soulmate; I can trust her words and her deeds as I do my own.

(in reply to Tamerofwild1s)
Profile   Post #: 15
RE: The Perfect Slave - 7/6/2006 6:47:58 PM   
Caretakr


Posts: 1221
Joined: 6/24/2006
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: Vancouver_cinful

quote:

ORIGINAL: Caretakr

The perfect slave submits to her nature.
She likes to be free to express that.
How she behaves, is a compromise between her personality and her Master's conditioning.


Wow. Beautifully put, Caretakr. Now, please tell me again why you aren't taking applications at the moment?

::sigh::


Due to the realization that I have a lot in life to get set straight, before making any serious commitment. And having gone down this road a bit too far, not to be serious about it.

(in reply to Vancouver_cinful)
Profile   Post #: 16
RE: The Perfect Slave - 7/6/2006 6:58:30 PM   
Vancouver_cinful


Posts: 1911
Joined: 2/3/2004
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: Caretakr

quote:

ORIGINAL: Vancouver_cinful

quote:

ORIGINAL: Caretakr

The perfect slave submits to her nature.
She likes to be free to express that.
How she behaves, is a compromise between her personality and her Master's conditioning.


Wow. Beautifully put, Caretakr. Now, please tell me again why you aren't taking applications at the moment?

::sigh::


Due to the realization that I have a lot in life to get set straight, before making any serious commitment. And having gone down this road a bit too far, not to be serious about it.


What a shame. ::sigh::

_____________________________

Cin

quote:


My Karma Account is huge, but I just can't seem to make a withdrawal!!

http://cinful.wordpress.com

(in reply to Caretakr)
Profile   Post #: 17
RE: The Perfect Slave - 7/6/2006 7:05:37 PM   
feastie


Posts: 1793
Joined: 6/4/2004
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: Level

She has a powerful need to obey me, and please me.
 
She is gentle and strong; intelligent and curious; she is my comedic soulmate; I can trust her words and her deeds as I do my own.


Careful, Level, words like these could make a girl swoon.

_____________________________

Snarky and loving it.

Disclaimer: Any views expressed in any post are my opinions only. They may or may not be yours.

(in reply to Level)
Profile   Post #: 18
RE: The Perfect Slave - 7/6/2006 8:36:12 PM   
Level


Posts: 25145
Joined: 3/3/2006
Status: offline 		*wiggles both eyebrows*
 
And a PS to my post-- open-mindedness. A closed mind makes my heart hurt, and my ass red.

_____________________________

Fake the heat and scratch the itch
Skinned up knees and salty lips
Let go it's harder holding on
One more trip and I'll be gone

~~ Stone Temple Pilots

(in reply to feastie)
Profile   Post #: 19
RE: The Perfect Slave - 7/6/2006 8:49:27 PM   
FangsNfeet


Posts: 3758
Joined: 12/3/2004
Status: offline 		Perfection = boreing. How do you punish someone for being perfect? There's not much fun for me when there's no challenge.

_____________________________

I'm Godzilla and you're Japan

(in reply to alovingslavegirl)
Profile   Post #: 20
Page:   [1] 2   next >   >>
All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> Ask a Master >> The Perfect Slave Page: [1] 2   next >   >>
Jump to:





New Messages No New Messages
Hot Topic w/ New Messages Hot Topic w/o New Messages
Locked w/ New Messages Locked w/o New Messages
 Post New Thread
 Reply to Message
 Post New Poll
 Submit Vote
 Delete My Own Post
 Delete My Own Thread
 Rate Posts




Collarchat.com © 2024
Terms of Service Privacy Policy Spam Policy

1.705