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YoungDom55 -> Degradation and names (3/5/2014 12:07:59 AM)

Hey
Most of the subs I've talked to love being talked down to and being degraded, however I don't want to insult them so much that they become hurt lol.
In your experience what kind of names and words do you love being said to you? it can be mixed with cussing or any verbal taunts, this would help greatly for future chats.

Thanks again.
-YoungDom



nyx84 -> RE: Degradation and names (3/5/2014 3:06:40 AM)

Not all sub's like being talked down to. For me degradation is a hard limit. But for those that ate into it it varies from person to person and you should discuss it with whoever your wanting to degrade because they are the ones that know what they enjoy and what is a limit for them. While most subs probably won't give you a list of all the names and ways degredation gets them off many will have a type of degredation that appeals to them.



RaspberryLemon -> RE: Degradation and names (3/5/2014 4:27:38 AM)

nyx84 said it perfectly. It all comes down to the individual.

For instance, I personally don't like degradation or being talked down to at all. "Names" I like being called by my owner, for example:
-good girl
-cute
-cute girl
-pet
(and any of these prefaced with "my," especially.)



kalikshama -> RE: Degradation and names (3/5/2014 4:40:59 AM)

Are these males or females (and if female, are you sure?) It makes a difference.



sunshinemiss -> RE: Degradation and names (3/5/2014 4:56:53 AM)

So.... you are 18 and want people to PAY you to call them names, and you don't even know what names to call them? Bless your heart.

Here is some advice, and I will give it to you at no charge.

Get a library card.
Check out some books.
Read said books.
Take notes.

Don't expect us to do your job training for you.




AthenaSurrenders -> RE: Degradation and names (3/5/2014 5:00:00 AM)

fr

Oh, these are paying customers? Then surely responsible business practice would be to have a pre-session discussion with them to establish what type of names they like, and what's too much for them. Happy customers are repeat customers, so it's worth investing the time.



subbibear -> RE: Degradation and names (3/5/2014 6:50:28 AM)

Face desk.



LadyConstanze -> RE: Degradation and names (3/5/2014 7:24:55 AM)


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ORIGINAL: subbibear

Face desk.


Think positive, the economy can't be that bad if people are wasting money for phone domination by a kid who has no idea what to say...



subbibear -> RE: Degradation and names (3/5/2014 8:10:10 AM)

Maybe I am going at this all wrong. Perhaps I just need to be an online finsub?



MasterCaneman -> RE: Degradation and names (3/5/2014 8:19:25 AM)

Then people will just come on here complaining about all those damn online finsubs and how they're not 'real'. [;)]



LadyConstanze -> RE: Degradation and names (3/5/2014 8:30:55 AM)


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ORIGINAL: subbibear

Maybe I am going at this all wrong. Perhaps I just need to be an online finsub?


It is a rather interesting marketing concept, however I am having trouble seeing how it could reach the full potential, do you think this approach might work?

"Yes, mighty D-type, force me to accept your money, I don't want it, but I willingly try to please you by accepting it, oh you make me suffer so much..."

I'm trying to make it snazzier and more appealing but I think I might have stumbled upon a writer's block...



Blonderfluff -> RE: Degradation and names (3/5/2014 9:30:38 AM)

I think we could be on to sometihing here. I could EASILY smack a raw chicken with a belt and then moan very convincingly. For the right price.

It would have to be a belt. Everyone knows I don't own any wooden spoons....[X(][8|][8|]



LadyConstanze -> RE: Degradation and names (3/5/2014 9:36:33 AM)

HAHAHAHA this raw chicken idea is worth gold!

We once got on the conversations of phone sex and a friend confessed she worked for a phone sex line and shared some secrets of the trade, she had us in stitches, said a big pot of hand cream (not a tube must be a pot) is essential, for moaning "Oh you make me so wet" insert fingers in hand cream and pull them out repeatedly, the slurping noise will convince the heavy breather on the other side of the phone that he really is the stud of all phone studs, even better if you do it with pudding and then lick your fingers, but apparently you want to drag that out because that's usually answered with a groan and the end of the conversation and since they're paying by the minute, you want to keep them on the line for as long as possible...



Blonderfluff -> RE: Degradation and names (3/5/2014 9:44:13 AM)

Omg. Pudding. Fecking genius.



subbibear -> RE: Degradation and names (3/5/2014 10:09:59 AM)

Obviously, I would get off on bad checks. D-types could buy me things that were not on my Amazon wish list. D-types would flock to me because of my age and many years of experience in the scene(not to mention my overflowing toy box). I could post new discussions in the Ask A Dominant forum seeking advice about what kinds of things lifestyle D-types like to do to their submissive partners. They would all be happy to help me out. Being an online finsub I could pretty much write my own work schedule, unless I come across one of those selfish D-types who thinks this is all about them. Like any twue sub I would have no hard limits. Except for tickling, I just can't go there. I would at least be self reliant, after a fashion. I could give up my search for a long term meaningful relationship because all that money would make me happy. For those times when a D-type wanted me to do house work, at least I would be cleaning my own house instead of wasting my time on theirs. And perhaps the greatest benefit of all, no foot rubs in online service!



Blonderfluff -> RE: Degradation and names (3/5/2014 10:11:54 AM)

Subbibear. I think I love you....
That was awesome. We are keeping you!!!!!!!!!!!



DarkSteven -> RE: Degradation and names (3/5/2014 10:23:44 AM)

Fella, in addition to everything else that's been said...you're Australian. LadyCostanze is European but everyone else here is an American. That puts a whole different take on what counts as an insult because it's very culturally based.



LadyConstanze -> RE: Degradation and names (3/5/2014 10:29:57 AM)

Oh I spent 2 years in Oz as a student, I still think they have fantastic insults, like go and shovel your head up a dead bears bum, that was always my favourite, though I don't think it translates well into degradation games. But I have NEVER EVER met an Aussie who had problems with finding names to call people, somebody should check this guy's passport!



SeekingTrinity -> RE: Degradation and names (3/5/2014 10:43:26 AM)

~FRing it~

I love it when someone who clearly has no idea what he is doing comes here expecting others to give him the goods so he can turn around and get paid for what he didn't know how to do in the first place. In my honest opinion, I do think one should know what they are doing BEFORE hanging out their "pay me to do what I clearly can't if I have to approach strangers for how to do what I don't know what to do in the first place" shingle. Ah, the naïveté and hubris of youth.

In over your head, party of one...your table is now ready [8|]



TopDawgKY -> RE: Degradation and names (3/5/2014 11:03:29 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: subbibear

Obviously, I would get off on bad checks. D-types could buy me things that were not on my Amazon wish list. D-types would flock to me because of my age and many years of experience in the scene(not to mention my overflowing toy box). I could post new discussions in the Ask A Dominant forum seeking advice about what kinds of things lifestyle D-types like to do to their submissive partners. They would all be happy to help me out. Being an online finsub I could pretty much write my own work schedule, unless I come across one of those selfish D-types who thinks this is all about them. Like any twue sub I would have no hard limits. Except for tickling, I just can't go there. I would at least be self reliant, after a fashion. I could give up my search for a long term meaningful relationship because all that money would make me happy. For those times when a D-type wanted me to do house work, at least I would be cleaning my own house instead of wasting my time on theirs. And perhaps the greatest benefit of all, no foot rubs in online service!



Way too funny.



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