FieryOpal
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Joined: 12/8/2013 From: Maryland Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer I had a kind of epiphany about that, a while ago. A woman here on the forums said, 'Women are the gatekeepers for sex, men are the gatekeepers for relationships'. We men want to get into their pants, they want to get into our minds. Both sides are so frequently disappointed, in such different ways. Men don't value mental and emotional connections the way women do (or so I've concluded). So they don't offer it. This is clear in their initial emails: the men who aren't up for connecting in that way will make it evident in various ways - by talking only about their fantasy, by doing some hideous 'I'm so totally a slave' act, by enumerating their kink interests, by writing an initial email like they're applying for a job. Anything, that is, other than *connect*, person to person, with the woman to whom they're writing. I don't think it's that difficult, once you've got the knack. Despite the disparity in numbers. Women find that so *cold*. I think a lot of men radically just don't get that. Damn, Peon, somebody trained you well ... or are you a self-taught man? That's even sexier. Seriously Dripman, you look like a nice, young man. But none of that matters if you aren't within the ballpark of a Domme's age range, or live out in Bumfeck Egypt, or any number of non-matching criteria. We can afford to be choosier than your average woman, who in turn can afford to be very choosy. We can afford to be choosier than the average single woman our age, our contemporary out in the vanilla "meet" market. I can't tell you how many times some horny 18 to 25-year-old who is still living down in mom's basement spending most of his time watching FemDom porn when he's not playing video games, or sticking over-sized foreign objects up his ass, implores that Age Doesn't Matter. No, it might not to him, but it sure as hell does to me.
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Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage. - Lao Tzu There is no remedy for love but to love more. - Thoreau
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