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KYsissy -> RE: Why are sub men so "easy"? (4/18/2014 5:31:42 PM)
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Here is my limited experience. When I was actively looking for a mistress, i met a couple, we had a bit of fun. But it never lasted. It seemed to be firced and on a fairly superficial level. We both knew the roles we were supposed to play. And it never progressed much past play.
On a whim one day I posted a craigslist ad looking for a platonic friend for a certain outdoor activity I enjoy. I got one reply. We talked online for three months before ever meeting. We met. Became friends and over time started to discuss sex. She was a bit down on men in general and i made the comment, she is a pretty awesome lady and I would love to be her oral slut. Now she had just a very cursory knowledge of BDSM and absolutely no experience at this point. Some weeks later, at her house she mentioned my comment and if I meant it. I said yes. She said "Show me".
Almost a year later she is really spreading her Mistress wings.
I guess its one of when you stop looking, you find what you are after stories.
Perhaps meeting people outside a scene may result in better results?
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