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ORIGINAL: AAkasha

I am especially interested to hear if submissive men have ever lowered their standards (consciously or subconsciously) in order to date/court/be in a relationship with a dominant woman.

For example, maybe you tolerated a woman that mistreated your friends, or smoked even though you hated it (and never would have been with a vanilla woman who did that), cheated on you (you forgave easily -- after all, she was dominant, and there aren't many of those around), treated you poorly or other things?

Because it's difficult to find a compatible kinky partner, are you guilty of worrying less about the compatibility and hoping that will work itself out? Did it, or did it not?

Akasha