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Do Most CM Women Desire Cunnilingus?

I'm a Domme and I desire cunnilingus.

20% (9)

I'm a Domme and I do not desire cunnilingus.

13% (6)

I'm a submissive and I desire cunnilingus.

17% (8)

I'm a submissive and I do not desire cunnilingus.

37% (17)

I'm a Switch and I desire cunnilingus.

8% (4)

I'm a Switch and I do not desire cunnilingus.

2% (1)

Total Votes : 45

(last vote on : 5/27/2014 7:38:45 AM)
(Poll ended: 5/28/2014 11:59:00 AM)

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Do Most CM Women Desire Cunnilingus? - 5/22/2014 2:03:47 PM

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A thread inspired a debate about women on CM desiring cunnilingus, so let's see what the poll says.

ETA after 2 votes... if you are going to create a post, too, would you be so kind as to state your "label" somewhere in the message, please?

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RE: Do Most CM Women Desire Cunnilingus? - 5/22/2014 2:18:13 PM

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to me that's a deal breaker... if all they are interested in is eating pussy... I don't care for that act.... does nothing for me unfortunately...im just wired that way...

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RE: Do Most CM Women Desire Cunnilingus? - 5/22/2014 2:21:46 PM

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Hi ivone... the poll is just to see what the women of CM desire and is NOT intended to judge anyone for what that desire may be, either way. We all feel what we feel.

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RE: Do Most CM Women Desire Cunnilingus? - 5/22/2014 2:25:51 PM

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A thread inspired a debate about women on CM desiring cunnilingus, so let's see what the poll says.

umm... I cant answer that.. it depends on who is doing it!

Lets face it.. some dudes are a disaster in that department..

not to mention, are we talking about a guy that is clean shaven or does he have one of those (dangerous-to-pussy) 5 o'clock shadows?

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RE: Do Most CM Women Desire Cunnilingus? - 5/22/2014 2:30:40 PM

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tj LOL, the poll isn't that specific because it's not asking if anyone wants cunnilingus right now... it's about desiring it in general. The thread that inspired the post said that some women are repulsed or embarrassed, so stubble and a skill set don't matter to them.

To vote or not to vote... it's all good, but for these purposes, assume that all other factors are as you would wish them to be.

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RE: Do Most CM Women Desire Cunnilingus? - 5/22/2014 2:35:13 PM

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I can't answer yes or no, because it depends. When i was married, i knew he didn't really like it and so, although he could get me off if it went on long enough, i never could really enjoy it. Now, with my fwb, i love it. It's the second thing he ever did to me, (first was to kiss me, and then he went right for it) and it only took about 30 seconds…probably because he's so good =) and, it was my first experience with someone who really liked doing it. It's pretty much his favorite thing and so i can relax and enjoy, knowing he loves it. One of the sexiest things i ever saw him do-apologies if this icks anyone out-was to quickly lick off a toy that he'd just been using on me. I've also seen him lick his fingers clean.

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RE: Do Most CM Women Desire Cunnilingus? - 5/22/2014 2:38:15 PM

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I have to disagree with you here…i find that a little beard is far preferable to a shaven face. It's (in my experience) next to impossible to have no razor stubble, so it's much softer if it's grown out a little. Maybe i'm just too sensitive, because my partner is very fair so he's not hairy at all…he's not one of those guys that's growing a 5 o'clock shadow as he's still shaving.

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RE: Do Most CM Women Desire Cunnilingus? - 5/22/2014 2:43:01 PM

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Oh, dear God! Why is this difficult to answer? Your post clearly says, "Yes."

The poll is not about good cunnilingus versus bad cunnilingus. It's not about love, or relationships.

Some women hate it. No matter who, no matter how... others, like yourself, do like it.

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RE: Do Most CM Women Desire Cunnilingus? - 5/22/2014 2:50:25 PM

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I'm a Domme and I voted yes I do. It's a deal breaker and a half if he doesn't enjoy it. As for straight guys who don't, or only do so sparingly,... Talk to the hand. <hand emoti>

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RE: Do Most CM Women Desire Cunnilingus? - 5/22/2014 3:01:15 PM

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Oh, dear God! Why is this difficult to answer?

its cuz we are women???

I have run into too many dudes that were bad/rough at it to desire it.. but, if I found the right guy that knew/learned how to do it well (for me) then I would change my answer to "hell yes!".. and I would keep him chained to the bed..

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RE: Do Most CM Women Desire Cunnilingus? - 5/22/2014 3:07:15 PM

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The poll needs "it depends" and most of us will choose that. When the man is good at it, yes. When not, definitely no.

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RE: Do Most CM Women Desire Cunnilingus? - 5/22/2014 3:21:05 PM

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Yes, they do need to be taught and some are too egotistical to learn. This is one area in which men absolutely cannot be mind-readers! Some are inept.

Since I think way too many women can identify with your post, I hunted this down...

http://youtu.be/JgtpOuxuoB0

I think this has to happen for a woman before she is going to feel free to speak up to a partner about what works for her.

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RE: Do Most CM Women Desire Cunnilingus? - 5/22/2014 3:27:55 PM

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Sincerely, help me out here. Three women so far are having "it depends" as an initial response.

Should I have asked, "Do women desire bad cunnilingus?" to determine how many desire that?

While I do get the specificity of "it depends," I was thinking that either a woman likes it, or doesn't. She's open, or not.

I guess I thought that women would elaborate in their posts.

So far, I'm hyped up about how open women are being here. It's a great discussion and I look forward to reading more.

Thanks, Everyone. :)

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The poll needs "it depends" and most of us will choose that. When the man is good at it, yes. When not, definitely no.

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RE: Do Most CM Women Desire Cunnilingus? - 5/22/2014 3:28:28 PM

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I (Domme half) voted yes! But I wanted to add that I cannot live on that alone! I experience a different type of orgasm with cunnilingus than I do with intercourse. Both are great, but I don't wish to have ONLY one or the other. With that said, I resoundingly respond YES to the poll.

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RE: Do Most CM Women Desire Cunnilingus? - 5/22/2014 3:33:03 PM

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If you'd asked the question of men about blow jobs, they'd all have said yes, not the dependent-on-skill answer many of the women have given. I'd have to ask Ron to be certain, but I suspect he'd affirm that there's no such thing as a bad blow job. Women clearly feel differently. So the poll is inadequate for the intended responders.

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RE: Do Most CM Women Desire Cunnilingus? - 5/22/2014 3:40:13 PM

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I have been in a wonderful committed relationship with the same amazing man going on forever now. (27 years!)
Yet, while he knows how to push all my buttons, and does, cunnilingus is not something I desire.
While I can and do enjoy it on a physical level, I have the hardest time getting in the right head space for it.
I am a submissive, and it may be that I see this as him performing for me, which is awkward, even after all these years.

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RE: Do Most CM Women Desire Cunnilingus? - 5/22/2014 3:40:14 PM

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I had that thought, too, but then realized that men are socialized to take control and to reward women for behaviors they want repeated. In porn speak, if she sucks at sucking, he'll grab her head and do it his way, or he'd speak up.

The ones who are confused seem to think that the poll alludes to quality of cunnilingus, when it's meant to assume that it's good.

Again, why would I ask about poorly performed cunnilingus? Anyone who has had that misfortune has been inspired to teach... immediately, or to drop the lover. It's too maddening to endure repeatedly.

I would have thought that obvious.

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RE: Do Most CM Women Desire Cunnilingus? - 5/22/2014 3:44:12 PM

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No, my post does NOT clearly say yes. It says, it depends on the person i'm with. It is NOT dependent on good vs. bad….my ex was very good at it, but i knew he didn't enjoy it. THAT was what made me unable to really like it.

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RE: Do Most CM Women Desire Cunnilingus? - 5/22/2014 3:46:14 PM

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Sub, no desire.

I hate having my pussy licked. I don't know what to do with my hands, its soft and sensual and I pretty much hate that. It might get me wet but there is no way I'm getting off on it.
I hate feeling like they are getting a view at something I haven't seen really well my whole life, and I don't really know what it looks like down there. I hate that on MANY occasions I've heard men talk about giving oral as a disgusting chore because of odor or taste, I have no idea what "good" is and due to my sensitive skin, I have to use unprefumed things and can't douche, I'm further self conscious about it.

Its embarrassing and I hate it.

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RE: Do Most CM Women Desire Cunnilingus? - 5/22/2014 3:47:45 PM

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I think that part of what i like about it now is that i don't have a choice…if he wants it, he's doing it, whether i like it or not. So, i like it =) My ex would ask me if i wanted him to do it. I'm never going to want it if i'm asked.

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