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legalANALyizer -> RE: CollarMe has gone (5/24/2014 2:25:05 AM)
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ORIGINAL: stef
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ORIGINAL: legalANALyizer
So, this is my first post here. And the last.
Promise?
I admit I cannot hold myself back based on what I read. So one point for you. Let's see if I can manage to stay away this time, will we?
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There is no evidence that Tiffany is the sub here and the partner the dom
For good reason.
I did not imply that they are a dom/sub couple, not even that they were at some point - although I understand my text can be read like that. They might have been involved in some time way back, after all this story started 12 years ago or more. But that's not important. I was assuming that or hinting that because it fits extremely well with their behavior pattern.
I might be wrong with my dom/sub reference, but their behavior is there and I was only trying to describe it in a D/s context. And that was fun, especially as the behavior of both of them remindes me a lot about the stuff many of the "fakes" are doing on CM day by day. I find it very amusing that at the end of the day the site owner(s) / operator(s) are of exactly the same type as the ones everyone is bitching around here. It makes me laugh actually.
Yet, there is some regret involved in all this. It's not important if they ever were a "couple" in that sense of the word or only business partners. It's important that BOTH are not acting like adults and are not mature enough to handle this situation. Even if this all fake, a hoax, etc. - the missing statement from the "dom partner" side is clear evidence that no matter what, he is not able to handle it and he has a "I don't care" attitude.
So ... these are the people we give our time, our traffic. We let them make money. And more: we share our email addresses, passwords, account info for other sites and most important our intimate personal information, even pictures with. This is not limited to profiles or journals, this includes all messages.
Maybe it is just me, but there are actually users on CM that have used the site to espablish proper connection to someone, sharing honest information. And all this without knowing that it seems to be only a playground of a "dominate" little boy (sorry for the word - I started use that when I find someone that is not mature enough to be a dom).
Am I wrong and we are not dealing here with an obnoxious selfish peronally domineering site operator that sees no value in his users other than to generate traffic for the advertising banners? Maybe I am wrong. I even hope I am wrong. A statement and some action would show it.
Someone needs to explain and fix things here. For the users and for themselve. The playground won't be as much fun anymore otherwise.
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