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ORIGINAL: Redhusky

I bet you read this .
The question is , for a new slave that has no experience at all is this the best way to start a 24/7 relationship.

It's not about me, it's about a friend who found a master and already give 120 rules that are from the 128 but edited to his own pleasure.
Already he gave rules like he should be bed at 10pm.
They both dont know each other like less than a day.
They didnt have any negotiation, yet.
No adjustment period

So what does the community think ?

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ORIGINAL: Redhusky

I'm more worried for my friend , what if this master is one of them that will abuse a newbie.

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ORIGINAL: Redhusky

So what does the community think ?

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ORIGINAL: Redhusky

I just hope his desire to be owned wont cloud rational thinking. When i asked how much you desire to be owned (this was before he got owned, one week ago). I asked he will do this and that (the most extreme thing i asked, permanent stuff ) and he said if this he needs to do to get owned , he will do it.

i asked stuff just to see how far he will say he will go
this is a chatlog we had , names removed
[2014/08/15 12:15] Me:that Domme will put you to work , no sexaul fun, no TV, no computer, no game, no drink except water , and so on
[2014/08/15 12:16] He: depends how desperate i am
[2014/08/15 12:16] Me: that Doom belive in actual slave training , that a slave has no luxury & comfort that free persons have
[2014/08/15 12:16] He: ok

I just hope if situation like this come, he will think before deciding

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ORIGINAL: Gauge
Well, your concern is noble, however your friend gets the last word on whether or not he is willing to submit to this person. It sounds like a potentially scary situation. No one should ever be that desperate to be owned, no one. Desperation is a poor reason to make a decision like this because it will lead to mistakes, and if your friend is new to all of this, he is likely nowhere near ready for a 24/7 arrangement like the one you described. You can tell him to be cautious, use his head, but if he is hell bent on making a mistake, there is nothing that you can do but watch it happen.

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ORIGINAL: Gauge

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ORIGINAL: Redhusky

I bet you read this .
The question is , for a new slave that has no experience at all is this the best way to start a 24/7 relationship.

It's not about me, it's about a friend who found a master and already give 120 rules that are from the 128 but edited to his own pleasure.
Already he gave rules like he should be bed at 10pm.
They both dont know each other like less than a day.
They didnt have any negotiation, yet.
No adjustment period

So what does the community think ?

Well, if they haven't found out if they are compatible with each other and they have launched into a list of 120 rules after one day, I would tell your friend to run for the hills and never look back. But hey, who am I to judge?

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ORIGINAL: Redhusky

I bet you read this .