ExiledTyrant
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Joined: 12/9/2013 From: Exiled Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: Xnawtyx Yeah I bet everyone has horror stories ..I know I do..I stripped off on cam to find out a couple of days later the 35 year old guy I thought I was talking to...was a 15 year old kid Lol.... So my main advice for you now is like I said remain positive and don't let crappy experiences drag you down.. Gotta get this out of the way first. I don't know what's worse, that or finding out the 35-year-old is really a dirty old man who thinks nothing of chasing after women 40 years younger than he is! Hold on... HurtandConfused, allow me to give you some dating advice, since you were out of the loop for 18 years. You may be 40, but your dating clock has reset itself back to when you were in your early 20's. Remember that you are a woman first. We are women first, then Dominant, switch, or submissive. No matter who the man is, he should treat you like the lady you deserve to be treated as, with courtesy, patience and respect. I really cannot stress this enough. Always leave them wanting more. Simple formula, but it requires self-control on your part. You'll also find (or have done so already the hard way) that a man doesn't want a woman who acts easy or not hard to get (in their minds, this is sl-tty). When the time is right and you are in a committed (D/s) relationship, he will want you to be his submissive, not every man's submissive; his sl-t, not any man's sl-t. Words of wisdom here... Men have to own their pussy, and D's have to own everything attached to it as well. I am a bit of singularity, I'm not much for hard to get, I understand how short life is and I'm interested in seeing how many facets of connection we have rather than hunt and chase. I move on pretty quickly perceiving "hard to get" as indifference... The last thing I want to be to anyone, especially a potential /s is Mr. Umightdo. It creates complications for me, because I'm very forth coming in my profile so it is very easy to take that information and attempt to run a game on me. My saving grace is I'm pretty happy alone, could be happier in a functional relationship.... Or driving an Ice cream truck in Outer space. My agenda is pretty clear, and this is the best medium for me to utilize at this point in my life. I'm wicked busy, don't drink, don't do drugs, and detest organized religion. Once things get more settled for me, I'll get active in the community... Doubtfully my local one, I'll most likely impose myself upon LP and MP, I'm a rather charming sponge. The big advantage you have is you came to a site, the proper side of it even, that has oodles of wisdom and sound advice. So before I blather on for another page, although I'd kinda like to see how many of you actually poke your heads in an oven, I leave you something to ponder: Temet Nosce. Just sayin
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Gnothi Seauton To lead, first follow: Aurelius, Epictetus, Descartes, Sun Tzu, to name a few. Semper fidelis (which sometimes feels like a burden)
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