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So far....so good.....totally against the odds - 10/28/2014 4:45:25 PM   
smileforme50


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(This involves a few different people...so this is kind of long)

If anyone here hasn't read my profile. I mention how I started out my real life exploration of D/s and bdsm just playing around and swearing to myself and everyone who knew me (in the "lifestyle") that there was no way in hell I would ever truly submit to someone or become a slave. But a funny thing happened a couple of years ago....I started to reconsider that, and I started to think about it...a LOT. I also started wondering if I could really do it. I know I can be pretty damn stubborn and moody.

But I'm really stuck on the fence.....I want to explore this and get a taste of it to see if I could actually do it and how it would make me feel before I go off and take some guy's collar and then start having second thoughts 6 months down the road, then tell him I changed my mind.

So....the first positive experience....I've actually met someone that I started talking to here on CS (SailingMaster) (Well...back then it was still CM!) We hit it off very well both online and in person. The bad news is...Even though we have seen each other many times, he does live 900 miles away. Plus....as much as I really like him, .while I *could* say "oh yes I would love to be his slave"...I don't want to say that and then move 900 miles away....only to have a very rude awakening.

So he suggested that I find a Dom/Domme couple and see about spending some time with them to get a bit of training in some of the more formal protocols and to see how submitting and serving really made me feel.

Which brings me to the second positive experience. I surfed CS profiles for Dom/Domme or Dom/Alpha sub couples near me and I sent out a few introductions telling them what I was looking for. I got a few responses saying they were interested, but there was one in particular I really liked.....njdomcouple4slave
I started talking to the Dom and we asked each other a million questions about what we were each looking for and what we wanted to do. Then he talked to the Dom in Florida and they got along very well.

So....I've been seeing this couple for a few weeks now and it has been completely wonderful. They are the NICEST people. I have learned many things already about what I might like and what I might not like. I know that so far it has been pretty easy because things are just starting out and we're still getting to know each other, but that's one thing that is so nice, they are definitely being very patient and are thinking about how I see and feel about this, and not just trying to get something from me for their own benefit. They are being very supportive and encouraging. I can honestly tell you that even if I were to decide that I don't want to submit to someone in a relationship, and decided I just wanted to stick to play....I still would like to have this couple as friends. They are just very nice people and I'm glad to have met them.

Edited to add names....(something I don't think should be compulsory0

< Message edited by smileforme50 -- 10/28/2014 5:02:36 PM >


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RE: So far....so good.....totally against the odds - 10/28/2014 7:05:53 PM   
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It's amazing that you found 3 people online that you enjoy spending time with. Congratulations. Enjoy. It's good to hear about positive experiences. I haven't taken the plunge because I am still wearying and i need extra care than most switches. I don't matchup well. :)

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RE: So far....so good.....totally against the odds - 10/28/2014 7:16:02 PM   
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Wait a minute... wait a minute... wait a minute... hey!

This sounds suspiciously like you're not going to be putting out at my leisure. WTF is up with that?

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RE: So far....so good.....totally against the odds - 10/28/2014 8:47:45 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: starkem

It's amazing that you found 3 people online that you enjoy spending time with. Congratulations. Enjoy. It's good to hear about positive experiences. I haven't taken the plunge because I am still wearying and i need extra care than most switches. I don't matchup well. :)


I have been EXTREMELY lucky when it comes to people I have met online. I have had some wonderful play partners and found some amazing friends.

This is actually the one time I am really glad that I'm not 22 with a hot body. I know that any guy that shows any consistent interest in me is probably interested in more than just a hot hump. (maybe) LOL

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“I’m so fucking wet! Give it to me now!”

She could scream all she wanted…..I was keeping the umbrella.

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RE: So far....so good.....totally against the odds - 10/28/2014 8:57:13 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: ExiledTyrant

Wait a minute... wait a minute... wait a minute... hey!

This sounds suspiciously like you're not going to be putting out at my leisure. WTF is up with that?


Oh no ET.....you are an exception. I could never deny you!

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“I’m so fucking wet! Give it to me now!”

She could scream all she wanted…..I was keeping the umbrella.

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RE: So far....so good.....totally against the odds - 10/29/2014 11:11:54 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: smileforme50


quote:

ORIGINAL: ExiledTyrant

Wait a minute... wait a minute... wait a minute... hey!

This sounds suspiciously like you're not going to be putting out at my leisure. WTF is up with that?


Oh no ET.....you are an exception. I could never deny you!


Can I come?

Also, I'm really glad you've had success, especially in what you are looking for! You'll have to let us know how it continues now. :)

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RE: So far....so good.....totally against the odds - 10/29/2014 12:15:42 PM   
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Bitch, we've already established you are going to come a lot. Now get that school girl uniform and get over here, the yard stick is lonely.

Jus sayin

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RE: So far....so good.....totally against the odds - 10/30/2014 7:01:02 AM   
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I've made some great online/yahoo/texting friends here, but real life is even more fun.

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RE: So far....so good.....totally against the odds - 11/1/2014 7:04:45 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: ExiledTyrant

Bitch, we've already established you are going to come a lot. Now get that school girl uniform and get over here, the yard stick is lonely.

Jus sayin


I'll meet you in the Headmaster's office....

(And if you think I look ANYTHING like this...I have a bridge to sell you....)






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“Give it to me!” she yelled
“I’m so fucking wet! Give it to me now!”

She could scream all she wanted…..I was keeping the umbrella.

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RE: So far....so good.....totally against the odds - 11/1/2014 7:06:54 AM   
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Damn.....that was not supposed to be that big!

(As soon as I typed that I thought "Yeah....ET's response to that is going to be "But that's what all the girls say with me...." )

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“I’m so fucking wet! Give it to me now!”

She could scream all she wanted…..I was keeping the umbrella.

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RE: So far....so good.....totally against the odds - 11/7/2014 2:48:20 AM   
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I've had 2 positive experiences from people who come here, but nothing ongoing.

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RE: So far....so good.....totally against the odds - 11/7/2014 5:53:17 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: smileforme50

(And if you think I look ANYTHING like this...I have a bridge to sell you....)



Yeah, her shoes are a TOTALLY different color.

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RE: So far....so good.....totally against the odds - 11/7/2014 5:59:59 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: smileforme50

Damn.....that was not supposed to be that big!

(As soon as I typed that I thought "Yeah....ET's response to that is going to be "But that's what all the girls say with me...." )


BINGO!

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RE: So far....so good.....totally against the odds - 11/17/2014 3:38:05 PM   
smileforme50


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This has just been awesome so far. Not only am I learning more ....and more about myself.....I have met a lot of really nice people. With knowing this couple....I have been to a MAsT meeting and found the connections I need to become a member of my local MAsT group. This past weekend I went to a munch, and last weekend I went to the "Geeky Kink Event".....all I can say about that is WOW!! I didn't get to play there, but that was the first time I've been in a dungeon. Talk about sensory overload.....DAMN!!!

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“Give it to me!” she yelled
“I’m so fucking wet! Give it to me now!”

She could scream all she wanted…..I was keeping the umbrella.

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RE: So far....so good.....totally against the odds - 2/22/2015 12:57:55 PM   
smileforme50


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So.....an update....

Things with SailingMaster didn't work out. We just eventually decided that it wasn't going to happen or go anywhere significant. C'est la vie....

As far as njdomcouple4slave....I've had a wonderful experience with them....I got into MAsT, I've been to some really fun events, made some great friends, and I've learned a lot.

But alas.....that is coming to an end soon as well. He got a job in South Carolina and they will be moving soon, I'll be keeping in touch with them and may go to SC to visit them, but I won't be visiting them on a regular basis anymore. I'm going to miss them.

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“Give it to me!” she yelled
“I’m so fucking wet! Give it to me now!”

She could scream all she wanted…..I was keeping the umbrella.

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