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RE: For you younger girls who like older men... - 11/17/2014 11:11:22 AM   
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They're all ego stroke for me, I don't care how old or young she is. I am with her because she is exceptional in at least one way, and I will treat her like a queen... all she needs to do is let me rule her and I will be her slave.


^^ I actually think this is really spot on.
You're so romantic for a tyrant.


Baby Doll, I'd like to expound upon that, but I think it would better in another thread. This thread may get bloody before it is over.

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RE: For you younger girls who like older men... - 11/17/2014 12:01:20 PM   
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I really don't care about age, I just hate hypocrisy about why they want such young ones.

My recent ex is 12 years younger than me and I would never say, oh I picked him to nurture him through this world.

No, he was fucking hot and awesome in bed and he just appeared in my life.

My problem was that he was not intellectually stimulating to me and we were not compatible at all except for in the sheets.



Someone asked for opinions. Evidently You have issues that make you predisposition to not appreciate mine. I met my sub, not online, not through a dating site. I met her through everyday life, where she learned of my experience in the lifestyle, she initiated a discussion with me about her curiosity and we moved forward from there. I have had older submissives, and am here to share my point of view on the subject as to how the differences in their ages had an influence on me. Stop being so NEGATIVE towards an opinion because of your own insecurities.



I find it interesting that you chose to be upset at me and not all the other women who responded the same way as I did. I am not negative at all. I stand by my comments about being honest about why you are with someone. Get over it.

I have no issues or insecurities pertaining to this topic. I have been with younger and older men and am constantly hit on by younger men. My only issue is with assumptive jerks who, when you dare to disagree, their only comeback is to suggest that one has issues and insecurities.

Your defensiveness about your choices indicates that it is you, with the problem, not me.

Sorry if my particular way of bluntness upsets you.


I'm gonna go ahead and say, as another poster who was poking at this...its probably because I'm younger than you. He wants to nurture me and sees my question as all wide eyed and innocent, whereas you are hardened by world experience! You're motives must be nastier than mine!

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RE: For you younger girls who like older men... - 11/17/2014 12:11:25 PM   
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I'm gonna go ahead and say, as another poster who was poking at this...its probably because I'm younger than you. He wants to nurture me and sees my question as all wide eyed and innocent, whereas you are hardened by world experience! You're motives must be nastier than mine!


And if red doesn't get her multiple orgasms it's on like donkey kong! Whereas, you will doe-eyed let it slide.

Jus sayin

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RE: For you younger girls who like older men... - 11/17/2014 12:21:47 PM   
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See, I know the instance in my personal life you're thinking of but truly that is because I care about my current guy so much that I really did want to get to the goal he was aiming for.

Once a guy told me that it wasn't his fault that I was so fat and couldn't feel his dick. You better believe it was on like Donkey Kong after that.

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RE: For you younger girls who like older men... - 11/17/2014 12:35:52 PM   
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Sighs...I know, it is abundantly clear now that I am an old, over the hill wench who will jump down unsuspecting men's throat if they look at me wrong.

I am so glad to have been apprised of this; I thought I was just PMSing for years.

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RE: For you younger girls who like older men... - 11/17/2014 12:40:12 PM   
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it is abundantly clear now that I am an old, over the hill wench who will jump down unsuspecting men's throat if they look at me wrong.



Um, that's not how it works. We men wish to go down you wimmins' throats.

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RE: For you younger girls who like older men... - 11/17/2014 12:52:36 PM   
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Sighs...I know, it is abundantly clear now that I am an old, over the hill wench who will jump down unsuspecting men's throat if they look at me wrong.

I am so glad to have been apprised of this; I thought I was just PMSing for years.


Strong does not translate into PMS'ing or any other neat little package. You are top of the "prey" food chain darlin... and I am with DS on this one.

Jus sayin

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RE: For you younger girls who like older men... - 11/17/2014 1:50:33 PM   
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Sighs...I know, it is abundantly clear now that I am an old, over the hill wench who will jump down unsuspecting men's throat if they look at me wrong.

I am so glad to have been apprised of this; I thought I was just PMSing for years.


Strong does not translate into PMS'ing or any other neat little package. You are top of the "prey" food chain darlin... and I am with DS on this one.

Jus sayin

^^ AMEN.

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RE: For you younger girls who like older men... - 11/17/2014 4:44:50 PM   
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As previously mentioned, my boyfriend is 10 years older than I. But I just thought of something he told me a while back that is relevant to this thread.

He's been with women who were younger and older than he was, and found that relationships with younger women were more stable and had more long term potential. There was no fussing over her biological clock, for one.

Now that's not to say he doesn't get an ego boost or he isn't going to brag about dating younger women. I know he's bragged about dating/banging someone ten years younger. But that's not going to be the only reason.

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RE: For you younger girls who like older men... - 11/17/2014 4:49:28 PM   
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Gee, I guess he is lucky he is a man.

So annoying to have to worry about that pesky biological clock.

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RE: For you younger girls who like older men... - 11/17/2014 7:43:24 PM   
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Him needing to take naive incompetents and turn them Svengali style into grown ups is an example of white knighting at its worst.
Moreover the fact that he doesn't think he could hold his own with a woman who is already her authentic self is a definite turn off.

Using these young women to deal with your own massive insecurities does not help you fix your self esteem issues and it is highly unfair to them.

My late father in law was twenty years older than his second wife. But he sure as hell didn't pick her because she was someone with no abilities or capabilities who he could look down on. In her own field, she was widely known and respected.

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RE: For you younger girls who like older men... - 11/18/2014 3:55:25 AM   
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Once a guy told me that it wasn't his fault that I was so fat and couldn't feel his dick. You better believe it was on like Donkey Kong after that.

Vanilla boys in the casual world seem to always like to ask me if my vagina is loose or tight.

I always reply, depending on if your dick is small or large.

But I really hate that question. What a stupid question. One man tried to explain it away that he was just trying to imagine his dick inside my vagina and how it would feel like, like WTF.

But oh man, what a jerk this guy was! Some men needs to be castrated, that one who said that to you should be first in line.

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RE: For you younger girls who like older men... - 11/18/2014 6:04:27 AM   
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Vanilla boys in the casual world seem to always like to ask me if my vagina is loose or tight.

I always reply, depending on if your dick is small or large.



Boors like that are not just in the "vanilla world".

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RE: For you younger girls who like older men... - 11/18/2014 1:17:15 PM   
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Once a guy told me that it wasn't his fault that I was so fat and couldn't feel his dick. You better believe it was on like Donkey Kong after that.

Vanilla boys in the casual world seem to always like to ask me if my vagina is loose or tight.

I always reply, depending on if your dick is small or large.

But I really hate that question. What a stupid question. One man tried to explain it away that he was just trying to imagine his dick inside my vagina and how it would feel like, like WTF.

But oh man, what a jerk this guy was! Some men needs to be castrated, that one who said that to you should be first in line.


I would say, of course my vagina is tight. I do Kegels day and night, just so I can break a stupid dick in half. It also has teeth.

So, when do you want to fuck, asshole?

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RE: For you younger girls who like older men... - 11/18/2014 1:29:13 PM   
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Vanilla boys in the casual world seem to always like to ask me if my vagina is loose or tight.

I always reply, depending on if your dick is small or large.

But I really hate that question. What a stupid question. One man tried to explain it away that he was just trying to imagine his dick inside my vagina and how it would feel like, like WTF.

Vaginas can indeed be 'loose' or 'tight', 'narrow' or 'wide', 'shallow' or 'deep', just as cocks can be big or small, thick or thin, etc. Vaginas aren't all the same. Much like any other body part. Asking for information about your vagina is akin to asking a man information about his penis. It matters, especially in a sexual context.
You're offended either because your vagina is loose and you see that as a shameful thing, or because you're offended by all personal sexual questions, but pretending the question is stupid.......... is stupid.

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RE: For you younger girls who like older men... - 11/18/2014 1:32:07 PM   
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No, the question is fucking rude.

I don't ask guys how big their dick is and no one would such a stupid question about my vagina.

Maybe in your world you have these types of conversations, but normal people don't.

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RE: For you younger girls who like older men... - 11/18/2014 1:35:09 PM   
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No, the question is fucking rude.

I don't ask guys how big their dick is and no one would such a stupid question about my vagina.

Maybe in your world you have these types of conversations, but normal people don't.


Discovery is the sweetest, IMNSHO, cuz the worst I ever had was wonderful.

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RE: For you younger girls who like older men... - 11/18/2014 1:39:35 PM   
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Thank you, at least someone understands that waiting, mystery and discovery are lost arts.

Not to mention who would ever tell the truth about their size.

Jeez, people are so instant gratification they now ask about the size of honeypots??

Really?

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RE: For you younger girls who like older men... - 11/18/2014 1:47:05 PM   
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Sighs...I know, it is abundantly clear now that I am an old, over the hill wench who will jump down unsuspecting men's throat if they look at me wrong.

I am so glad to have been apprised of this; I thought I was just PMSing for years.

cmon, you MUST know that PMS stands for Putting upwith Mens Shit

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RE: For you younger girls who like older men... - 11/18/2014 1:47:51 PM   
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Yes, that is an alternate definition!

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