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ORIGINAL: LittleGirlQuinn Yeah, we haven't discussed compatibility. We haven't discussed a whole lot. I was mainly thinking I'd ask all the questions when I'm at his place on Friday. I did tell him I'm not wanting to jump right into playing anyways, and he agreed. So the first time I'm there (for ~2 hours), it will just be us asking each other questions. Communication. Communication. Communication. Discuss things, not just kinky things... life, food, movies, games, whatever you like, but communicate. There seems to me to be a bit of urgency to your questions and my first response would be why do you need to rush into anything? Take your time, if you are both interested in each other, then you should find out all you can. The sex and kink stuff can wait, and in some instances should wait. One important question I would ask him is where did he get interested in kink and where did he go to learn about it. Based on his response, you have a baseline for what he is going to have to learn. Go slow. No rush.
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