anthrosub
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ORIGINAL: AAkasha
So I've been think about the term "sex slave" lately.
Now there's a thought. A lot of men around here offer to be a "real sex
slave" to a dominant female. Hmmm. That must take some sacrifice. Just
you'd have to have sex with her maybe as much as once or twice a day.
The horror! What man could survive that?
It must take a truly dominant woman to break a man into this habit. To make
him learn to service her body whenever she needs it, to have his cock hard
and ready for her at the snap of her fingers. Sex on demand. Oh, life is
so gruelling for the sex slave!
We all know how much men hate to put their cocks inside a beautiful woman's
tight cunt. I bet you are all recoiling as you read this, your cocks
shriveling up hopelessly with the thoughts of being forced to perform such
acts. Does it make you cringe in fear and hide in the corner?
What kind of sadistic woman would subject a man to this? To make him her
"sex slave"? Indeed there must be a shortage of these men willing to take
this step, to submit to such horrible treatment. I bet if any willing man
posted on the internet and offered his services, women would fill his
mailbox with addresses and phone numbers. This world needs more men willing
to perform sexual acts!
*SARCASM MODE OFF*
Is it just me, or is the idea of servitude in the form of "sexual slavery"
sort of ...silly? Granted, there are sexual aspects in play, and some play
is overtly sexual.
But for me, it just kind of rubs me the wrong way when a guy thinks
submission means simply serving a woman in a sexual manner, especially when
this is all he wants anyway.
I can't speak for all femdoms, but when a guy submits to my will, it isn't
meant to get him off. It is meant to get me off. And I don't need to tie up
a guy to lick my cunt; I can find them willing to do it without persuasion.
Let's think about it for a minute. If we went out and polled all vanilla
men, how many would object to being a sex slave?
Why not focus more on the SLAVE part, not the SEX part.
If I want a sex slave for the night, my play is going to probably lean more
toward the vanilla side of things. It's fun - but this isn't a dominant
experience for me.
A sex slave game, for me, that is also a turnon for my dominant side, would
be to take a man and have him suffer for the priveledge of pleasing me. If
it were simultaneous, all the better - i.e., he can kneel down and lick me
to orgasm, but he must do it while in some amount of pain, and the pain will
increase as time goes on, urging him to *do a good job and get it done
right*.
It's interesting to point out that in a scene like the one I just described,
I am generally *totally aroused* by the pain/sacrifice aspect of it, so much
so that it even overshadows the feelings of being sexually served.
Ironically, it means that at times I can be pretty stubborn about cumming.
Maybe I am being a little too harsh. But when I see men parading around
offering the huge sacrifice of being a "sex slave" for a dominant woman, I
have to wonder who is serving whom.
Akasha
I always thought of this concept a bit differently. My impression was that sexual activity would always be on Her terms and all that that implies. The situations you describe would certainly fall within that concept. Coupled with a relationship where we care for each other intimately, there would certainly be times when I would be granted the privilege to experience the joy of sex but again, on Her terms...not mine. This would include frequency, acts engaged in, how to perform them and under what conditions, whether I would be allowed to release, and so forth.
I even thought there might be times when I would be forced to experience sexual activities against my will. Just because I'm a male doesn't mean I'm "on" 24/7. I can tell you there are many times when it's not the foremost thought in my mind. There's also the concept of being forced to release repeatedly until it's no longer a thrill (perhaps as a punishment). This would be similar to forcing your teenager caught smoking to smoke one cigarette after another until the pack was finished (or worse, smoking and inhaling a cigar).
This is not my fantasy, it's my perception. The only fantasy I have is finding a Dominant female for a life long relationship as they don't appear to exist in reality from my experience (they exist for others obviously but I've yet to find someone, so it remains my fantasy).
Reading some of the replies here, I must also be different regarding how to please a partner. From my very first experience, it was always common sense to me that I would have to learn what pleases my partner and how best to do it. I discovered this as part of learning what pleased me, so it only follows that my partner would be unique and I would have to familiarize myself with her needs. This is an expression of caring for my partner sexually.
In fact, this is what I thought "intimacy" was referring to (getting to know each other's buttons). I still do actually.
anthrosub
< Message edited by anthrosub -- 7/16/2006 3:13:43 PM >
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