sexyred1 -> RE: "Control" your life (8/2/2015 1:53:14 PM)
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Control. You do not have control over life. I used to totally have my shit together in terms of career, social life, ec. Then I got sick. It changed everything in the past two years. What it did not change, and actually improved, believe it or not, was my ability to respond to traumatic events and everyday issues. If you met me now, I don't look or act like I'm sick and I handle my shit....with a new perspective on life, people, who are true friends and most of all, what's important. I will not allow any extraneous bullshit into my life. Now, when it comes to men, in many cases, I actually experienced the opposite of what women here are saying. Men I met who had a high powered job and were highly educated, acted irrationally, had anger issues or were sociopaths. The men in blue collar jobs I was involved with, mostly were smart and had less stress, so they were better able to handle my prior level of my former highly stressful job. I am not making any generalizations about professions. So to me, I don't care what job you have as long as you know how to handle yourself, me and situations with grace, self control and strength. Like I have to.
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