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wantmyballsgone -> Reasons For Being Here (11/14/2015 8:40:20 PM)

I do find it sad, that this is a site that I was recommended to join, that my interests could be further explored and realized by joining this site, and a couple others. However, thus far, what I mostly have found, is that it's just another place to be ignored. To be questioned on my interests, which would be fine, if the approach individuals took when talking to me wasn't that of me being completely ignorant on the interests that I have. To have others try to push me into other interests that I have no desire to get into. I don't push my interests on others, and I do find it sad that others will offer to "consider" my interests, if I flatly accept theirs. That isn't what this site should be about.



Bunnicula -> RE: Reasons For Being Here (11/15/2015 1:25:15 AM)

Cheer up Brian - things could be worse! [:D]

Welcome to the site and remember, you will only get out of it what you are prepared to put into it.

However you need to know that your photo does breach the Terms of Service that you agreed to when you joined the site. Explicit genitalia shots (which does include testicles) are not permitted, so you might want to change it something a little less...'orchidean', if you catch my drift!



DaddySatyr -> RE: Reasons For Being Here (11/15/2015 1:30:36 AM)


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ORIGINAL: Bunnicula

Cheer up Brian - things could be worse! [:D]



Thanks! I have this vision of men, on crosses, singing and whistling about the bright side of life.

You'll pay for this! [:D]



Michael



Bunnicula -> RE: Reasons For Being Here (11/15/2015 1:35:49 AM)

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ORIGINAL: DaddySatyr



Thanks! I have this vision of men, on crosses, singing and whistling about the bright side of life.

You'll pay for this! [:D]



Michael



Mission accomplished! [:D]






DaddySatyr -> RE: Reasons For Being Here (11/15/2015 1:42:20 AM)


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ORIGINAL: Bunnicula

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ORIGINAL: DaddySatyr

You'll pay for this! [:D]



Michael



Mission accomplished! [:D]



Now, you'll suffer!



Bunnicula -> RE: Reasons For Being Here (11/15/2015 2:02:58 AM)

You see OP, it CAN be fun here! Just put your worries to one side and join in the next verse...

The whips on the bottoms go crack crack crack!

crack crack crack

crack crack crack...[:D]



DarkSteven -> RE: Reasons For Being Here (11/15/2015 4:44:25 AM)

*I do find it sad that others will offer to "consider" my interests, if I flatly accept theirs. That isn't what this site should be about.*

I disagree. Nobody owes you anything here. You don't have to accept my kinks, and I sure as hell don't have to accept yours.



BeMine4LTR -> RE: Reasons For Being Here (11/15/2015 6:48:37 AM)

Gee, Steve. I didn't know you had kinks. Let me get my iron and I'll straighten them out for you in no time.
After all, what are friends for?




WinsomeDefiance -> RE: Reasons For Being Here (11/15/2015 6:54:38 AM)

Is it just me? When guys (like the OP profile pic) hold their testicles like that - it looks like a brain. Which, explains a lot on why many men do what they do.

But, seriously. It does look like a brain to me.

Oh, also. Welcome. Remember OP, when posting: think with your big brain.
Just a PSA for the new guy.

Again, welcome.



wantmyballsgone -> RE: Reasons For Being Here (11/15/2015 1:25:36 PM)

Thanks for disregarding the entire point of my post thus far guys.



angelikaJ -> RE: Reasons For Being Here (11/15/2015 1:34:49 PM)

You already know this: what you ultimately desire is going to be attractive to a very small percentage of gay male dominant partners. The chance that one of them will be here and spot your profile is smaller still.

What you are experiencing "I do find it sad that others will offer to "consider" my interests, if I flatly accept theirs." is the way many people behave.

You shouldn't expect that people on this site will behave better simply because this is a BDSM dating site.

I am sorry for your disappointments.




dcnovice -> RE: Reasons For Being Here (11/15/2015 1:37:41 PM)


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ORIGINAL: WinsomeDefiance

Is it just me? When guys (like the OP profile pic) hold their testicles like that - it looks like a brain. Which, explains a lot on why many men do what they do.

But, seriously. It does look like a brain to me.

Oh, also. Welcome. Remember OP, when posting: think with your big brain.
Just a PSA for the new guy.

Again, welcome.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-ktLYwCj-7U [:)]



FelineRanger -> RE: Reasons For Being Here (11/15/2015 1:46:10 PM)

I'm not sure if you're the same person, but there was another post by someone who wanted his balls removed and many of us recommended counseling first. That was not a case of "My kink is OK but yours is fucked up," that was concern for someone who appeared to be well on his way to making a rash decision with permanent consequences. It's not the first time I've seen such advice being given. Even with more typical kinks, the things we do can result in injury so more experienced members will give advice on what to do and, equally importantly, what not to do.



Lucylastic -> RE: Reasons For Being Here (11/15/2015 1:57:41 PM)

Yes Feline, you are correct about the topic

http://www.collarchat.com/fb.asp?m=4847694

Just a point to the OP. It could have an awful lot to do with your name and avatar.
I like cbt.im not gay, yes i maynot be the sex you are interested in, but your name says you are fixated.
Not a good start.just my five cents



DarkSteven -> RE: Reasons For Being Here (11/15/2015 3:32:18 PM)


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ORIGINAL: wantmyballsgone

Thanks for disregarding the entire point of my post thus far guys.


You said that you have a right to a site where nobody looks down on your kink for castration. As I said before, we're not obligated to agree.

The Internet serves a lot of people, not just you.



wantmyballsgone -> RE: Reasons For Being Here (11/15/2015 3:51:32 PM)


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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven


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ORIGINAL: wantmyballsgone

Thanks for disregarding the entire point of my post thus far guys.


You said that you have a right to a site where nobody looks down on your kink for castration. As I said before, we're not obligated to agree.

The Internet serves a lot of people, not just you.


That was not the point of my post. If you don't agree with the things I'm into, don't reach out and lecture, which is what many here and elsewhere do. Don't assume I'm an idiot that has done no homework on this topic of interest. I don't reach out to others and lecture them for the things I don't agree with.

My original post, hit on a couple of key points. First, some will offer hold my interests above my head if I fall inline with what they want, which is a ridiculous posture to take. Second, others reach out, and insist that I couldn't possibly be someone that has done research, haven't thought the good and bad of this interest of mine.



Lucylastic -> RE: Reasons For Being Here (11/15/2015 3:56:28 PM)


ORIGINAL: wantmyballsgone.
You have mail!




WinsomeDefiance -> RE: Reasons For Being Here (11/18/2015 1:20:25 PM)


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ORIGINAL: dcnovice


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-ktLYwCj-7U [:)]

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jimcol28 -> RE: Reasons For Being Here (11/26/2015 7:05:39 AM)

Searching for that special woman who can bring some brighter colors to my life, and hopefully I can do the same. I hope to find someone cheerful, playful, honest who spreads joy, and share the same interests as me....



LadyConstanze -> RE: Reasons For Being Here (11/26/2015 2:53:52 PM)


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ORIGINAL: wantmyballsgone

I do find it sad, that this is a site that I was recommended to join, that my interests could be further explored and realized by joining this site, and a couple others. However, thus far, what I mostly have found, is that it's just another place to be ignored. To be questioned on my interests, which would be fine, if the approach individuals took when talking to me wasn't that of me being completely ignorant on the interests that I have. To have others try to push me into other interests that I have no desire to get into. I don't push my interests on others, and I do find it sad that others will offer to "consider" my interests, if I flatly accept theirs. That isn't what this site should be about.


So you just want your kind stroked and catered to, is that what the site should be about?



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